Girls, would you ALLOW a good guy friend that you trust see you naked? (Page 2)

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Some may say this sounds sad, pathetic, it's a trick, blah blah blah, but this is how it is. I have always been quite shy when it comes to women and don't have great social skills with ones that aren't friends. I never had a female friend that I hung out with until my second year in college. I'm not awkward, just shy. Since then, any close female friend that I have, I have the strong urge to ask to see them naked. I talked to a counselor about it, and she said that since I have little experience in the dating department, I see nudity in a friend as a feeling of trust and intimacy that I don't have in my life. I won't lie, part of it is sexually-based: they are attractive friends. But it is really about how good of friends they are, and if they did this for me, it would satisfy many needs of closeness that I don't have. I have asked two close friends about this- one said yes, and did let me see her for a few minutes. She and I are still good friends, and a weight on our friendship has been lifted. Another friend said yes, then changed her mind back and forth many times, ultimately settling on no. I understood, but afterwards, I did feel hurt, and she felt awkward around me. Now, we aren't friends. There are others I wish I could ask, but am way too afraid. I could just shut up about it and deal, but then I find myself withdrawing from the friendship anyways, which also hurts. I know how this must sound to many of you reading this, but it has been something I've been carrying around for years. Should I risk bringing it up with other friends, or just stay quiet and hope we stay friends? I'm also worried they'd think I'm lying about it JUST to see them naked. So girls, would you ALLOW a good guy friend that you trust see you naked? Please, only constructive comments.

emzy-89 · Answer

I trust my male friends but there is no way I would let them see me naked. My body and modesty is something which is very important to me and I'd only let someone extremely special see me or touch me in a certain way.

Anonymous · Answer

No? What the hell. I would feel pressured to get naked, for him to stay my friend. If he asked me, to drop my clothes, in order for him to trust me, then I would dump him. Thats not a friend, thats a manipulative asshole. I would never be friends, with someone acting like that.
If I had a good guy friend, I wouldn't mind letting him see me naked, if we where changing or something. But if he asked for it, in order to become closer? No fucking way.

aoifeislovable · Answer

No no no no no girls that respect their body aren't gonna just show it to a guy that's their friend because he wants to see it even if they do trust him

Anonymous · Answer

I probably wouldn't mind it so much because I don't see anything wrong with nudity however I do think that if I allow my really good guy friend to see me naked then I should see him too... just saying

DarkKitten99 · Answer

I'm a girl and qllow all my friends to see me naked. Male and female. I consider it trust or complete trust. I feel comfortable around my friends and they see me change all the time when they come over. I wouldn't mind being your friend. I hope this helps.

Anemone978 · Answer

No probably not... I would have to have some interest to want to show him my body... Like fuck.. go get a girlfriend and stop being weird...

Étoile9 · Answer

In this situation, if you make me feel confortable enough I might accept. But you also have to get naked in turn.

Stuff_and_stuff · Answer

Probably not. That kinda stuff can ruin friendships and make things awkward.

aamy811 · Answer

Yes. My really close guy friend has seen me naked. But I highly doubt he even cared

Anonymous · Answer

My best friend whom I've known for 22 years is a guy. He has never seen me nude nor will he ever see me nude. he's just a friend. That would be way too awkward

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't want to see anyone naked unless they are my life partner. I believe that level of intimacy should be reserved for a long-term committed relationship.

JosyJosy · Answer

Yeah, but I can can't imagine a situation other than life or death where this would happen.

kangy · Answer

I didn't read the entire story , regardless of situation it is a no all the way for me

Anonymous · Answer

I would never allow a guy to see me naked unless we were in a serious relationship and had reached the point where nudity were okay.

Mihikko · Answer

Not a chance, I can face my guy friend wearing a bikini only in the beach or having a pool party.

Mangospacho · Answer

Trick question: if he’s a good friend, he won’t try to manipulate you into taking off your clothes for the sake of the friendship.

genericname85 · Answer

Why would you "want" to see a friend naked?

douride2 · Answer

Sounds like a good way to lose friends if you ask me.

Asad1ONE1 · Answer

I can only imagine if a girl asked this question about guys. The responses would be quite different lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I probably would. But if I had a boyfriend at the time I wouldn't :)

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