I told a guy I like him and he said he likes me too, but I think he's playing games...

[Anonymous]

how can I get back at him? should I ignore him, give cold looks, pretend he doesn't exist, and carry on with my own life, be happy, make him jealous?

he basically never called like he said he would and I saw his MySpace he's always out with his friends and family enjoying life...how can he not want to call me up one time if he claims he really likes me?

should I give him the cold shoulder, or is it safer to be nice to him, I don't know if he is leading me on playing games or not...

[meplusabeemer]

Guys tend to live in the moment. They might be inclined to call one day and the next day his focus changes. The bottom line however is if he truly had an interest, he'd find the time to call. Even if it was a quick 'hello.'

I think it's important to be the better, more mature person. Go about your life as normal. If you see him, be polite and acknowledge him then move on. If he calls, then it's your decision whether or not to take the call. Personally, I prefer a guy who is totally into me.

Good luck.

[MrNameless]

If he likes you.. He will contact you somehow.

BTW who initiates conversations the most? Him or you? If it's him, he's probably waiting on YOU to make a move.

Other than that.. Don't be childish and resort to playing mind games.. Most likely it'll just back fire and both parties will be hurt more.. I've learned that from personal experience.

How about you try to contact him, and if he doesn't respond. Just move on...

[Asker]

I have contacted him he always responds and quickly too! but he said he is busy with school and stressed and will keep me in mind and will call sometime...now I'm fine with that but on his MySpace he partied last weekend and is out with his best friends and crew....so I'm like wow...this guy has time for them but doesn't wanna make me a priority right now....?