All I know is things got complicated with one of my best friends for a while and the more attention I paid to her the more hard to get she played and when i started pulling away she worked harder and harder to get me back... In the end we're just best friends again now and things are back to normal (after 2 years) so I think people just don't know what they want and the "friend zone" is one of their ways of dealing with it.
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if you want more then be honest. stop pretending to be her friend.
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I'm not pretending, just because I have a crush on a girl doesn't mean I can't be her friend too. And what do you mean be honest? Just confess my feelings?
she tells you this because she trusts you, just keep going, if anything, get more friendly with her then maybe tell her about some girl you THINK you like. It has to be think so that your not saying that you don't like her but its just to make her realise that your not someone that can be pushed around just because your obsessed with her. Show her that there could be others aswell and that she shouldn't take you for granted
No way. If they're attracted to you, that will be a plus. So it will be if they're not, but yeah they'll just see you as a friend if they're not attracted to you that way.
LOL at friendzone being a myth. Why do I get a feeling she almost exclusively reachs out to you when she needs to talk? Probably because it the only thing you said to describe her.
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All I know is things got complicated with one of my best friends for a while and the more attention I paid to her the more hard to get she played and when i started pulling away she worked harder and harder to get me back... In the end we're just best friends again now and things are back to normal (after 2 years) so I think people just don't know what they want and the "friend zone" is one of their ways of dealing with it.
if you want more then be honest. stop pretending to be her friend.
I'm not pretending, just because I have a crush on a girl doesn't mean I can't be her friend too. And what do you mean be honest? Just confess my feelings?
yes it does. proper real friends don't have crushes on one another. romantic feelings cloud EVERYTHING between people.
she tells you this because she trusts you, just keep going, if anything, get more friendly with her then maybe tell her about some girl you THINK you like. It has to be think so that your not saying that you don't like her but its just to make her realise that your not someone that can be pushed around just because your obsessed with her. Show her that there could be others aswell and that she shouldn't take you for granted
She is using you as an emotional trashcan and friendy. You are not giving off any sexual vibes nor sexual interest in her.
-> You are friendzoned.
Now the aim is not to be like all loveydovey and stuff, but make it clear what you want.
No that's not how it works
People friend zone people who they do not find or are not romantically intereeted in or sexually attractive or don't have much in common with them
No way. If they're attracted to you, that will be a plus. So it will be if they're not, but yeah they'll just see you as a friend if they're not attracted to you that way.
LOL at friendzone being a myth. Why do I get a feeling she almost exclusively reachs out to you when she needs to talk? Probably because it the only thing you said to describe her.
If she is not attracted to you, then she is not attracted to you. She might still like you as a person though!
There's "always there for them" and then there's being a doormat.
If you act like a doormat, girls will tend to stick you in the friendzone because you're not supposed to be that to her.
Attraction isn't created, it's discovered.
Just show/tell her that you LIKE her as MORE. She can't know unless you say it.
I don't think so...
Ad least a normal person would do the exact opposite.
You say it like either you are hoping to be a nice piece of meat, if she wants to nail your ass.
"Let me break it down to the facts, You will never get a girl like that"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PuCF-Rpol-AThe friendzone is actually the poor communication zone
not always if a guy was there for me when no other guy was I would consider him as a future boyfriend when I felt the time was right
change your face and physique, she is a shallow bitch
No, she's not.
You could always just save yourself a lot of potential heartache and just ignore her.
You get friendzoned when they lose interest in you or never had feelings for you
If I had guy friends then no I wouldn't
There's no hope, time to cut her loose