Why do white women hate white men with blond hair?

[7121uc]

Yesterday I was having lunch and I overheard these two white women talking about the men they liked. Both of them agreed that they liked men with dark hair and that they found men with blond hair unattractive. I have blond hair and I was sitting next to them. Don't they realize we have feelings to? Imagine if two girls would say that they don't find men with black skin attractive, everyone would call them racist. It is not okay for women to talk shit about us like we don't exist.

[popsickle]

Lol I get what you mean. It feels awkward hearing people name their preferences and then you're clearly not that. Even if you're not attracted to the person speaking. Feels weird. Like it's directed at you or it's shutting you out or something.

To be honest we all sometimes say stuff like that at some point and leave other people feeling this way too. It can be about hair color, skin color, weight, height, all sorts of things.

I guess we just gotta learn to brush it off and work on making ourselves desirable to the kind of people we wanna be with. I wouldn't wanna be with someone who didn't like how I looked anyways.

[Anonymous]

That's really crappy of them to say it. I hope they were just generally unaware you were sitting there and weren't doing it intentionally.

I personally prefer brunettes, but that doesn't mean I wouldn't give a blonde guy a chance. I am blonde myself. Basically, I have preferences, but I'm not set on them at all. I give chances to people who I feel I have a connection with.

[somebodysaycheese]

As a german the whole blonde hair blue eyed thing is like the perfect" Aryan". Plus most of the males on my moms side are blonde hair and blue eyed , its a typical feature in my opinion. I like dark hair and dark eyes and tan. Even though I attract a lot of blonde guys.

[LittleMissCuriousity]

Sexual attraction is based on genetics. It's not about whose feelings are hurt. Women (and men) are attracted to the people who would offer the strongest complement to their own genetics. It's part of why you usually short people in relationships with tall people.

[Medieve]

Those aren't same. Women also usually say they're into white guys, into blondes, into dark, black, Asian... Those are just preferences and everybody have different ones. Many people are attracted to blonde hair, both men and women. You don't need to feel bad at all.

[OneMe]

Not everyone likes you. It's the same for everyone. Some women prefer darker men and some women prefer lighter men. Some don't care either way. I'm blond myself and have never had a problem with attracting women... Get rid of the insecurities and victim mentality.

[Stop-the-trash]

It's just their preference. If someone said they have a racial preference for white or darker men no one would really argue because it's just their preference. Don't let those two girls speak for the whole white female population. It's just their preference, you'll find plenty of women who'll find blond hair attractive. BUT ALWAYS REMEMBER, that it's the personality that counts for most of the attraction in the end even if you are attractive. Hope this helped.

[Anonymous]

omg... you just made me realize I'm not really attracted to blonde men.. never really thought about it before. But anyways hair color is a completely subjective thing. I'm sure there's a tit ton of ladies that dig the golden locks. You know what though? I think I could be attracted to a blonde guy because who really cares about hair color in all reality?

[goldielocks2]

Lol, they probably just meant they're not attracted to guys with blonde hair. Nothing personal towards you, they didn't say they think there's something wrong with blonde guys, it's just their preference. So what?

[jesshkah]

Literally people do this all the time lol.. Kinda just have to get over it. Plus they weren't talking to you. AND it's all about preference. Maybe those two don't like blonde men, but they have every right to like and dislike what they do or don't.

[Anonymous]

They didn't say they "hated" guys like that, just that they didn't like them. It's their preference dude. Complaining about it is silly and pointless.

Besides, the way at which you arrived at your conclusion is quite flawed. That two women aren't attracted to guys with blond hair does not imply at all that no women ever will be attracted to guys with blond hair.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Hair =/= Race

They don't like the hair color. That's not the same as saying you don't like a race. It's just preference either way, most people wouldn't call racist on a racial preference either.

[fauchelevent]

Meh, I dunno. I just don't think that blond hair looks all that great - which I guess is ironic because I'm blonde too, I just don't really like how our hair colour looks.

[sweettckae]

well I like blonde haired guys but the reason why they don't is because guys with blonde hair age faster and are seen as feminine.

you prob hate brunettes or blondes, don't get offended.

[RedRobin]

You're upset because TWO girls aren't attracted to blond hair? There are millions of other girls in the world!

[canadachic]

Don't make a sweeping generalization because you heard two women say they don't like blond hair. Lots of women find it attractive.

[Ginnyweasley97]

Please don't make sweeping generalizations against women because of two women you don't even know.

[ashbert87]

Those two women don't speak for all women... I like blonde haired guys. I can list a ton of male actors I find super attractive.

[Josht11]

LOL your such a pussy m8 I'm 5'4 every fucking time I disagree with a girl they call me a child and how short guys are unattractive.

[Josht11]

also who gives a shit what some fucking women think?

[Anonymous]

Wait whatttt, the color of ur hair you compared to the tribulations of one's skin.. when it's regarding a getting laid purpose. .. lol.. yeah okay.

[JulieXO]

Everyone has their own preferences. I myself find blonde hair super hot

[Relentless_Hippie]

Well I'm not a white woman. I'm Puerto Rican and Jamaican but I think blond guys are attractive.

[Anonymous]

Who cares? Many people I know have told me that they prefer latinas with darker features, while I sat there next to them looking like a fucking albino.

[ThisDudeHere]

Why do you care what some random broads think of you?

[Mustachekitteh]

Maybe those chicks don't like how it looks against the dudes skin?

[Anonymous]

Doesn't mean all women are like that. I think the 'dark hair' stereotype largely stems from the 'tall, dark and handsome' image. But s seriously, those were just the preferences of two women out of the whole population. Don't think too much into it.