If I'm shy and never had a girlfriend, will I ever get one? (Page 2)
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Girls love shy guys! Just take a deep breath and calm down. If you see a girl you like, walk up to her say hello, complement her shirt, shoes, etc. and get a conversation. Get close to them as friends and eventually you'll be comfortable enough to ask her out.
you just have to work on it. there's hope, don't think just because you're shy means you can't get a girl. try making more chick friends, then talk to them about any potential girls you might like. chick friends are super helpful at getting the lowdown on targets. just get some confidence and work from there.
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But maybe that's his problem. If he's anything like me, ANY girl makes me go back into my shell. I'm usually not comfortable around girls, or a lot of strangers for that matter. I get what you're saying but he can't very well make girl-friends if girls in general are the problem.
Umm...well if the girl actually KNOWS you then she is more likely to like you...also most girls won't go out with a guy unless HE asks HER out...yes, most girls ( including myself) are afraid that the guy won't like them back ( meaning they're afraid of rejection) , you might be 2 considering your shy but a girl will never know if you like them unless YOU ask them out! So get out there, and ask!
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Are you serious! LMPOO of course you'll get a girlfriend one day, every girl is different, you'll find the right person for you one day! :)
course you will love comes around eventually for all fo us! no mattter who we are or how we act...you just have to be patient!
just be confident.. that's all. most girls don't like shy guys. they like confident ones who know what they want.
Easier said than done. I would love to be but I can't, believe me I've tried.
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you either have to come out of your shell, or find an extremely patient girl. your call
yeah it will happen. you just gotta take risks and believe in yourself.
yeah get more confidence and break out of your shell.
Keep on living- you'll have one (several women).. just be yourself for now. No need to rush.
with some luk like me read my stories/articles it tells how I got mine
Yes you will! Don't worry! Try to do more activities and go places where a lot of different people are & maybe you'll feel more comfortable around people & meet new awesome people! (:
if you are so shy maybe you can approach a girl with texting or chat but of course you'll have to know her..girls like shy and cute guys don't worry
you will get a girlfriend when you losen up or stop looking for one it always works that way for me.
A guy can't stop looking for a girlfriend because he won't get one that way unfortuneately, love and dating just comes to girls, literally, for us guys, it does not come to us, girls do not chase or pursue guys
no you will get a girlfriend you might need to step out of your comfort zone a little just find someone you really like never be scared :)
First of all I mostly think you will get married so you can have her as ur gf... And second ya man it doesn't matter abt shyness:)
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well if you really realy like a girl and you think ur ready ask her out
There is a someone for everyone... some girls find being shy cute and charming. Find out what type of girl you desire, and work toward that.
I just need to make a distinction here; shyness comes in two flavors: wimpy and mysterious. wimpy shy has no self-confidence and is an unattractive quality because it bring a lot of emotional baggage and insecurity. mysterious shy is just that: mysterious. it's choosing not to talk when it's not needed, and not about too much.
i'm assuming since the asker is having trouble that he's the former, so I say to him: you gotta love yourself before anyone can love you. that is all.
start chilling with more girls and yes you will