Why do girls choose their boyfriends over friends? (Page 2)

Question

Is she that in love where she puts her boyfriend first?

Golii · Answer

we only choose a boy that we think is worthy over friends, simply because we are girls and girls known to speak behind each other no matter how much they like each other, and also we just love to make each other feel less special by bragging about our stuff and pointing out each other flaws, this is what gils lowkey do and we know that we do, but no one points it out, so, thats why i somtimes choose my man over, ( i'm talking about a man here not a jackass) you just feel safe and loved.

ladsin · Answer

Because kids are dumb. I so often see people get swept up in love with their partner and abandon their friends. Then years later when they're love has started to die off they look around and they're all alone. It's sad and I won't do it.

witherwing · Answer

Honestly, I have always just had those friends who are friends with me when it is the most convenient to them and other times just forget me. My boyfriend actually cares for me and is with me because he loves me. That's why he comes first.

Anonymous · Answer

I always choose my man first coz i knew the girls i hung out wid r bitches but i need entertainment 😜
Wen he is busy.. i need entertainment
But wen i m wid him.. I don’t need them 😇
Nd my man is a real deal
It’s mostly about knowing who is genuine and priorities 😇

RayKelzi · Answer

You always put the one you love over everyone else.. & it's not just about girls.. Until you feel then comfortable introducing them to your friends & having time with both of them..

Navaro · Answer

And exclusive relationship should take priority most of the time. Many go from one relationship to another. If both feel confident though there's a good chance of getting married they should be placing each other first. Would you want that from a guy who commits to you?

QueenofCups · Answer

I don't do that unless my friend is clearly wrong. Boyfriends come and go, friends are forever.

VestaH · Answer

Could be because her boyfriend can’t handle her with anyone else, not a healthy relationship
Or she just hasn’t learned how to balance her relationships well
Could be something else, it’s endless scenarios

Ahmed_Fahmy · Answer

Well with a boyfriend is supposed to be stronger relationship than friendship because it connects people on intimate level and sensual as well so its only natural to find a girl getting closer with her boyfriend than friends

MaisGem21 · Answer

I hardly see my boyfriend as it is with him working days and me working nights. I see my friends more than my boyfriend.
So when I say I’m going to spend the day with my boyfriend, they understand our quality time is a priority.

jaelenna · Answer

Some girls get caught up in their man, He becomes her one and only priority sometimes. I don't think it smart to do this though. Most girls whos has done this to their friends when the girl got dumped... she had no friends left

RuthAnn1781 · Answer

I think it depends on the person, like for me, friends are always more important. If I had to guy though, I'd say it's probably because you can't fuck your friends but you can fuck your boyfriend. Plus there's the whole "love" thing

winterfox10 · Answer

She believes that her boyfriend is someone special and that she sees a future in him. He’s her partner, and your partner needs to be the second most important person in your life after self.

JENGA · Answer

Its not just girls, its guys too, i would say that when you get into a relationship, even after the honeymoon phase, you are in that relationship because your feelings for that person are stronger than normal feelings for friends, meaning that you would like to spend the most time with said person.

bbcfpawg · Answer

Dudes b tired of that shit, bust my ass to get you and something comes up on your end and you actually try the dude and he falls for it, so you got some feeling of security and you jump, when the penis gets old so do you. some chicks can deal with it some can't. and it works both ways

Princesslaura · Answer

Guys do as well. Had a guy best mate, and when he got in a relationship he'd block me, and that's it, till they split up then he comes running back. Safe to say he's no longer a friend of mine.

AriaKure · Answer

Depends on the people aye, not all girls ditch their boyfriends over friends.
Perhaps they just take things a bit more seriously than guys. I suppose giving a potential life partner all your time and effort just makes sense.

SteveFoxKing · Answer

It's not that she is so in love. It is actually because she is obsessed with him when she does that. Is she loved him without it being an obsession, she would be fair with who she chooses to spend time with.

BlueSpark · Answer

Either she loves her boyfriend more than her friends, or she's worried putting friend first might have complications/consequences with her boyfriend.

It entirely depends on the situation. She's either choosing out of love or fear

jake007 · Answer

Many times because the lost or confused and follow the direction of demons. But if you will only listen to God's direction you will definitely not go wrong.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

She'd better put me first. In every relationship I've seen where the girl puts her friends first, she ended up being manipulated into either breaking up with him or treating him like garbage.

Jusuf · Answer

Most of the girls are jealous and they will feel bad if her friend got a boyfriend, girls know that so they try be away from her friends.
The other thing ia boys are good liars, so the girl will that her boyfriend is her future even if the boy is just wasting her time.

rico99 · Answer

Well i never had one before now but i am on her side even when she is wrong. Its my trust in her and my friends all feel the same our partners come first period friends are a close third and its what is important there is desire and want from a partner that friends can't give you.

Phyllis91 · Answer

I have been lucky that my BFFs like him and we all do things together. But one day he and I will get married and move to Texas while they stay here. I will have new BFFs there but I will never forget the ones I have now.

Letsaskyall · Answer

Probably because they feel if they don't spend every single moment with there man, they may lose him. 🤷‍♀️ which is silly. I think girls just get caught up in being in relationships sometimes.

LadyJade007 · Answer

Maybe it's because that she is scared to lose her boyfriend that she might think her boyfriend will dump her if she keeps spending more time with her friends than her boyfriend.

daffodile · Answer

I think if you're too available for you're boyfriend it shows you don't have a life. Men like to see you have a life. So hang out with the girls have a blast! "Absence makes the heart grow fonder".

Eagle1kenobi · Answer

Well let's see.. women expect their men to side with/choose them over their friends as well... so... why should this be any different?

PinkandSparkles · Answer

They shouldn't. You should balance your life with both your friends and your partner.

aeronShm · Answer

no. basically girls want to be pampered and taken extra care with cheese Butter which boyfriend provides. and the day comes when he gets tired too providing one sided butter and break up happenes
Note: few exception girls are there

ausroo · Answer

This has happened to me plenty of times, and I don't mind it. Unless that friend is slowly distancing themselves away from me because of the popularity they have been receiving.

dreamstar72 · Answer

Im not going into details on my answer because it is easy to figure out. Your best friend should think what if it was her that had a neat boy friend would she dump you as a friend yes in a heart beat. So you have the answer.

Randolph31 · Answer

Usually there boyfriend's give them something their friends can't. A sense of security, desire, lust, and it relieves the loneliness felt when you know someone is always thinking about you.

Crazyb33 · Answer

I did cause all my supposed friends were hitting on my man when he would see them and i wasn't there and a few of them tried hitting him up on Facebook and his friends were the same

SophieK9 · Answer

That honestly annoys me so much. It's like the friendship doesn't even exist anymore. They always choose spending time with their boyfriend over friends. It's stupid.

chloehatespeople · Answer

I would always chose My friends over My boyfriend/girlfriend, but it depends where you are at in your life. If you're at that point where you want to settle down then its different if you are in homeschool. Also depends on the friends.

RealWorldReject · Answer

I don’t understand girls that pick their boyfriends over long-time best friends. Because if that guy is not good for you and I (as your best friend) have told you that many times but you refuse to listen and he breaks your heart, I’m the kind of bitch to laugh. I will get a good 5-7 laughs, say “I told you so, you dumb bitch!” And walk away. You deserve whatever you get.

Dog19 · Answer

My little sister is the same way, once she became popular and well liked at school she started to ignore me and started hanging out/ being with her new friends. While me? Oh shit, I didn't get nothing.

Banana-Girl · Answer

I dont have any friends but if I did and I had a boyfriend the reason why I would choose him over a friend would be because I dont see the guy that often and I wanna spend time with him

lolaaaaaa · Answer

I have a bestfriend of over 10 years who puts her 6 month boyfriend over me 😊 #Friendship

azzntittiz · Answer

I choose liquor over everyone, because it makes me feel good, fuck boys after I fuck them.

Potato_Goddess · Answer

My friend talks about he boyfriend all the time. I tell to talk about something else, but she doesn't. I think it's so show off something, or brag.

goddess87 · Answer

It does happen and it's sad how people have zero loyalty. It's not smart bc when they break up they will have no one to offer a crying shoulder

Oswald · Answer

I Mean. if you know your friend has a Lover then its time to leave her and give her some time to spend with the guy, and just wait for her.

WalterRadio · Answer

People tend to be emotionally closer to those they are having sex with. You will understand in a few years.

Maniji03 · Answer

Because friends can wait for her but boyfriends don't wait for her... friends will understand but boyfriend pretends that he won't

thatguyfromtoronto · Answer

On the contrary, I know girls who kind of push their b/f's aside to "hang" out with the girls more than spending time with him. If a girl does that, it's time for the guy to dump her ass.

falsy · Answer

Why is there even a choice? I've never said "you had better not be friends with them or we are over."

bang678 · Answer

Well at your age being in a relationship is new and shiny. You dont really know how to balance those aspects of your life yet.

Tall_Shy_Me · Answer

She may not want to lose her boyfriend but then when they break up and she needs someone to be with, she will go t her friend and then she will realise the mistake she done by blocking out her friend. (If that makes sense 😂)

Mikayla3 · Answer

Sex, love, chemistry... it's a different kind of joy than friends.

AveronRoland · Answer

This is something only women complain about. Guys never fuss about there friend choosing a girl over them.

HikerDude · Answer

Because they're thinking with their pussies. Girls are human, and humans are animals. Mating is the most important thing.

JetJas · Answer

I would never choose a guy over my best friend. Never.

TheMoroccangirl · Answer

Because my boyfriend would be more important and interesting to me?

Galemead · Answer

In cases I've seen, the boyfriend is easily jealous of other guys and/or controlling. Outside that, no idea.

mar_B · Answer

It really depends on the girl, some girls would never ditch their friends to be with their boyfriends

TrajanJJ · Answer

Its all human animalistic nature. They want to stick together to have kids.  Subconsciously. Your friends aren't part of that so you stick with your partner.

PromasMorris · Answer

I choose my boyfriend over friend bcause all my friends backstab me and steal my boyfriends so I try to keep my boyfriend closer

sydneysweeting · Answer

Love ig. As from my experience the boyfriend will end up breaking her heart and her friends will ditch her

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