Am I wrong for not dating "nice guys"? (Page 4)

Question

A few guys are super sweet and supportive and appreciative of me, and I would date them, but the problem is that I don't feel any physical attraction for them whatsoever. It's not because they're nice, but because I am just not physically attracted. I have known them for some time. I try to make myself feel attracted, but every time they touch me or compliment me, I cringe and feel repulsed. Am I wrong for feeling like this? Is there any way to make myself become attracted to them?

BeHappy1985 · Answer

Shouldn't the question be "Even though some guys are really supportive and nice am I wrong for not dating people I'm not phisically attracted to whatsoever?"

Tywit13 · Answer

Nope not really though it's what the person on the inside is like physical attraction is important though taking chances could be good to but you like what you like

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

No, I'm not attracted to nice girls. I reject them immediately

Anonymous · Answer

No, it's no secret that most women really enjoy a$$hol3s. They perceive them as being stronger and more interesting. I just women would just admit that they like them.

johndahl · Answer

You can change. You're allowed to like who you like, but this just doesn't seem healthy. If you really want to be better, just know that you can. The first step is admitting you have a problem, which you just did :)

JOCAMI · Answer

what kind of person do you want as your partner in life? answer thinking about the personality, the way to be of that person, how u would like to be treat, so on... lets forget about the physic. Could you answer that?

Ayer93 · Answer

You're not wrong at all. There's a psychological factor behind all of it.

tartaarsaus · Answer

Lol nope. Why would you date someone to whom you're not attracted to? I wouldn't. Do you

lilmissumshine · Answer

No, but if u want to get beat over the head then be my guess and be with the mean guys. more nice guys left for me.

MythicaI · Answer

Like attracts like. So if they aren't your type it's ok, and they shouldn't take offense to it, because everyone has their own type.

legendaryintrovert · Answer

Lol. Who are we to decide that who are correct for you! You have your own feelings. So, I think you are right.

Anonymous · Answer

I am the same way. My life would be so much easier if I were attracted to nice guys, but just like you, I don't have any physical attraction for them.

RastaMahn · Answer

Those nice guys don't get your snatch wet. Drugged out thugs, on the other hand, and you are drenching your panties. Typical female. That's why I pump 'n dump.

Anonymous · Answer

If you don't like them, then you just don't like them. Your situation sounds like liking the same the gender because they like you even though you're hetero.

grega239 · Answer

Thats like saying u really like a food but u won't eat it bcs it tastes bad... what?😑😑😑

Djan470 · Answer

Is it about the fact that they are ugly or you just don't feel it because of their personality?

thinkaloudtolive · Answer

Nice guys aren't physically attractive... did you really say that?

jacquesvol · Answer

Nice guys don't correspond to the image of virility as used by the medias

dominic_drago · Answer

Being a "nice guy" isn't something to be proud of, so I don't know why guys would think that's a reason women should like them.

Justcurious09 · Answer

I tend to date the bad boys and I'm about to marry one. He's a bad boy but so sweet to me I'm his weakness

jaydtre · Answer

You just said it has nothing to do with them being nice, you’re simply not attracted to them physically.

Hippear24 · Answer

Maybye take a break from trying to find anyone at all until something happens. And pray for felix and respect wahmen.

Malono · Answer

You will need them later and they will ignore you because they will see you as a bump 'n dump girl. Said from respect

Anonymous · Answer

You are wrong BUT it's not your fault. Your brain was hardwired to think this was way so I can't angry at your DNA.

I'm a "nice guy" but I've surprisingly had a lot of hookups in the recent years, but I'm horrible at long-term issues.

baby181036 · Answer

Feelings are automatic, you cannot change even if you want to. When you meet Mr right, you will not feel like that, so please wait for your Mr right

SilverRain92 · Answer

No, you are not wrong. Find someone with whom you would be happy. If you are not attracted to nice guys find a bad guy (but be careful though).

LimitlessMann · Answer

you can't argue with instive primal attraction. you are only attracted to alpha males wich is normal. beta nice guys are not high value usually so it's not your fault , blame mother nature.

SandNigga · Answer

It's comes down to plain compatibility, if you're not compatible then it can't be helped.

ZekastianS · Answer

Please don't try to be attracted to guys you're not attracted to.

Arthurwilliams · Answer

So what kind of guys do u feel attracted to. what are the features thst attract you to him?

Wwwyzzerdd · Answer

Women are not visually attracted to men. This has been covered here before.

Anonymous · Answer

No, if it’s because you’re not physically attracted to them and has nothing to do with them being nice then it’s not wrong and you can’t make yourself attracted to them, it just doesn’t work

dylanrhodes · Answer

You're just not attracted to how those specific guys approach you.

JackD1984 · Answer

As someone who likes bad girls I totally get it - nothing wrong with it at all

DamnMan · Answer

You are not wrong. You do not need to date ANYONE you are not attracted to. I know I won't.

ryancg · Answer

You're either attracted to someone or you're not. No way to force it.

Jackblue · Answer

It is your right to date whom you wish, You don't owe guys something for being nice.

SullyB · Answer

Its your choice dear, but I feel you're making the wrong choice.

andymas · Answer

Not all nice guys are going to attract you so just wait untill one does! When you do this, there's a chance he might actually be good looking too!

Danael31 · Answer

Well, this is your problem. People judging people like that is just disgusting to me but whatever, once again, that's your problem.

Fallahad · Answer

Shame on you for not wanting to date someone you are not attracted to.  That was sarcasm. You are fine, kid. Take care :)

tony54 · Answer

That is a question I've asked myself a hundred times why would a woman want to be with somebody who treats you mean and some who even hit them

JinnRose · Answer

Guys can be nice and attractive too. Find one like that.

rm_llort · Answer

Nice guys are never nice. See youtube. Sorrow TV r/niceguys

TheCloud2 · Answer

Seems like your type isn't nice guys, but bad boys.

JohnnyDDorf · Answer

If you are not attracted by them, so be it. There is no "wrong" in it

TallGuy96 · Answer

I hope your future boyfriends won't be thiefs and dickheads then

Clarke498 · Answer

No, you give them the chance. That's what matters. If you don't like them, you don't like them...

mT2359 · Answer

You should not be apologetic about what you feel is right.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

No, you're perfectly fine. Can't blame you if you don't want to date guys that look like E. T.

rahulhomkar · Answer

When it's not meant to happen it's not meant to happen. Don't push it.

CoffeeWC · Answer

There's nothing wrong with not dating a nice guy. They would make better friends

Gusheth · Answer

You could find someone who is attractive and nice. . . pretty fucking obvious. "nice guy pewdiepie"   No: 69% kek

lady_me · Answer

if u follow ur heart in what u chose then u will be fine , if not am afraid it is the only wrong thing... dating just for dating isn't an option too

Aurinko2017 · Answer

Is it not hard to define nice or ugly. Everyone is a human being. You should go to someone that you feel attraction. Im agree with rageqeen

Anonymous · Answer

Fat wallet would change that for sure, nice guy with a money "HE SOOO HOT"

Rargueta · Answer

Its up to you and I don't beat you for that. Its your problem and whatever comes from it, its from your decision

weilun_1994 · Answer

One day you will be able to settle down with someone who loves you back as much as you love him, hope you will be able to find that special person 😊

Suvster · Answer

If you don't like the person then you can't change that. The heart wants what it wants😂

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