Do girls look desperate if they text first? (Page 7)

Question

Personally, I am one to text a guy first instead of me waiting for him. I have no problem in being able to start a conversation, especially with a guy I like. Does this make me look desperate or too easy if I text first all the time or do guys like it when a girl has the ability to easily start a conversation? Especially if that guy tends to be more introverted than extroverted in their nature.

Anonymous · Answer

Not at all, I wish a girl would text me first... :(

laxus7 · Answer

A girl who talks too much is more awesome but some people will think u r desperate because majority of the girls are not like u they either won't talk or when they do they want something.

veedub01 · Answer

It shows interest. Believe it or not there are a lot of guys who do not text first and may even hope that you do. Desperation is an entirely different subject.

jdebadts · Answer

No girls don't seem to be desperate if they text first, they seem desperate if they do the multitext. When they send 3 or more texts inbetween the guys response

Anonymous · Answer

I've always wanted to know but i guess people here are lying. I think i do look desperate when I text him first :(

Jimbojim · Answer

I absolutely love it when a girl takes the initiative and texts me first

Anonymous · Answer

Only girls who have a hairy cock text first. Hot girls text back after a dick says hello. Although I like it when hot girls text first, but this never will happen...

Philyouup · Answer

No NO no NNOO Nonono Not Nada... it shows your are an equal participant in this world!

7193444244 · Answer

No texting first doesn't make someone appear desperate

adamsshadow · Answer

only if you text first everyday, every hour, on the dot

coolio1234 · Answer

No, I love it if a girl text first. It's confident and attractive

_a_guy_ · Answer

It is the 21 century. Text them first if you like to.

Euripidea · Answer

If you text to the wrong guy, yes it seems that way

MetalPanther · Answer

No. Women should text more often. It's good to know she's thinking of me.

ashnakag666 · Answer

It's only nice for the guys. Somr hate to text first

MrA1996 · Answer

I don't get judgmental if that happens So for me it does not sound desperate

lovemyindia · Answer

Desperate would be the wrong term, I would say "interested/fascinated"

Pluto4prez · Answer

I'm definitely the shy/quiet type, so I like it when a girl texts first.

CuriousOrator · Answer

No guys don't think that deeply. They think... Eeewww a woman texted me

LegateLanius · Answer

No. They don't. They don't look desperate asking a guy out, either.

Cornchipuniverse · Answer

It doesn't make you look desperate, it just makes us feel better to not bother you.

Anonymous · Answer

No, you do not. Actually we are quite happy when this happens because we are usually too anxious to text first. Even if he isn't interested, it's nice to know that someone is thinking of you

weirdwriter79 · Answer

No, if that's how they what to talk first, that's okay with me. Really

mattroman1 · Answer

No not at all. Just seems like you want to talk to him lol I like it

Iron_Man · Answer

No they don't at all, that actually motivates me it shows that they care

Agent · Answer

Don't think it matters too much.  Someone's gotta text first or no texts will happen, lol.

OmgItsJoe123 · Answer

Wow, no. They're not. Do guys look desperate if they text a girl first? I bet not.

sarthak2399 · Answer

If u like to text first then text me please.😂 Girls like you are rare, very rare, and we like when girl text first.

Kashanadil · Answer

Yeah I appreciate such confidence... Girls also has a right to express they their choices likes and desires...

Michael__1 · Answer

Girls do not look desperate texting guys first just don’t do it frequently, you should start some conversations and so should he

IrishAyy · Answer

No. They look interested, which saves a lot of bullshit. Unless the message itself is needy looking lmao

masong · Answer

no thats perfectly fine because sometimes i get busy and forget to text my girlfriend so honestly i perfer it

tryme27 · Answer

No. Not at all. I love it when a girl text first. It gives me the confidence that she is interested.  0|0 0|0

Roshan2407 · Answer

Girls usually didn't text 1st but the one who does that actually means how much care and love they have for opposite ones

TheOtherAsian · Answer

no, not at all if a girl is interested in a certain guy and want to know him a little bit better. that's no problem.

twinlegoboy · Answer

If you text first that would be awesome, like you said above to start talking with some but they talk fist let's them now that you are interested.

russh · Answer

not desperate. only an issue if the guy is weak and insecure. I don't see why it would be a problem for a girl to show interest and initiate.

mistirix · Answer

That is all a matter of oppinion I like it when a woman can keep a conversation going gives me the feeling of mutual interest

clou123 · Answer

i think it doesn't matter i would have no shame in texting first its just a confidence thing in my opinion

Skinzfan · Answer

It doesn't bother me. It shows that they have an actual interest in you and not trying to play hard to get.

Guanfei · Answer

Not at all. As a guy who is very insecure, if a girl text me first, it helps me getting less shy and anxious, and easier to chat.

DuckBlind · Answer

I wish one would start conversations with me first though cuz I don't know how to read women I never know if they like me or not

Anonymous · Answer

I'm so bored with starting the conversation that if a woman starts it I'd get excited and look forward to were it might go... I find myself having to carry the conversation a lot which is just plain awkward and frustrating sometimes.

SilverRain92 · Answer

No they don't look desperate. By writing first they show an interest and show guys that they are ready for descent conversation

SamElias · Answer

It's doesn't mean that you're desperate it only shows that you are a to the point type of girl, which is something that guys appreciate a lot.

cj1986 · Answer

I would like to see more make the 1st move. Nothing worse than feeling you're the man so you have to do all the asking. It's an equal world!

Anonymous · Answer

No. I'd actually prefer it if a woman texted first. Shows she's actually interested and not just accommodating me

Sanchez88 · Answer

I think I would welcome an act like this... I am a little bit more introverted as I wanted to be and still waiting for someone to write first... This idea is wellcomed (by me... ) :)

drewbc · Answer

girls do this more so many of us guys will not send a message just because they feel their chances are shot, why not make the first message and you could find your partner

mahaguggl · Answer

Just do it. Otherwise you are much more likely to lose him. After some weeks or months try to separate and look if he really wants you or just ask him things to do for you after some weeks.

Anonymous · Answer

no, but I have seen that some guys have the habit of calling the girl obsessive if she text first. which is not right

socceralex · Answer

I tend to be better at listening, so no I wouldn't consider it to be desperation. But be careful if you're the only one initiating conversations, you might get dragged along.

neeraj718 · Answer

I think... if u like someone then texting first is no big deal... and yes... no one thinks about a girl that way (desparate)... we feel that we r lucky😂

Growly · Answer

If he thinks it makes you desperate, then he's trash and his opinion isn't worth worrying about. And who cares what anyone else thinks; their opinions matter even less.

Anonymous · Answer

I kinda always text first tbh lol but i don't like it.. im trying to change

Anonymous · Answer

Prefer it when a women texts me first i get to know more as a result i hate it when im on tinder and they dont message me back

Nickk1092 · Answer

I don't think so. It makes it easier on a guy like me. I'm a shy person, but when a girl starts a conversation with me first, it makes it easier for me to talk to them.

TheFallenKing · Answer

I believe it makes a guy think you want him as much as he wants you. If a guy is the one first to text always then he think you don't think of him as much as he thinks of you

simsalonaut · Answer

It's not desperate at all... If both of you got a good connection soon enough you will not be thinking about that little detail any more... No problem at all

Psychobane · Answer

Depending on the other, if he chickens out, he would take it a surprise and appealing  If he is cocky he tends to think you're an easy fetch and you will saved for emergencies or later times.

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