Girls, I envy women, do you feel sorry for men?

[Anonymous]

I know there are pros and cons of both the genders but men have it worse , atleaat personally I got it worst.

Women don't have too much of body and facial hair. Being a male I got too much of body hair and grow facial hair that sucks.

Women have more curvy and hence more appealing body.

Women have sexier legs. My legs are so so hairy, even if I shave it isn't as appealing as a woman's.

Genitals hanging out is ugly creepy. Women have it better.

Boobs are amazingly beautiful and a male chest especially mine is so so hairy :'(

How do you girls feel about men? How do you feel about a man being jealous of women?

I feel sorry and pity men for having lot of facial & body hair

I wish men were nicely smooth as girls, no beard no hair on body

I like the way men are , beard and hairy and all.

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[binarybabe001]

You are crazy! Penises are not ugly it's a natural part of a man's body that we straight women and gay men enjoy. Also what is up with your envy of women? Is it the fact that we experience multiple orgasms because of the "G" spot? That's something that you can be jealous of! Lol it's f***ing fabulous having one of those!

[Asker]

Vagina and boobs are better than sick and balls.
And as much as I know women , you all have been given better body, better skin, better face, better hair on head , more pain tolerance, nicer personality.
Women don't have to worry about shaving beard on a daily basis and after a certain age about grey beard , grey chest hair. Have you ever imagined how it is to have more hair on the chest and stomach than a woman's groin area?🤔 Yesz you can shave it. You know how the groin area looks and feels after you shave it, that's the way our chest and feels after we have shaved it. Women naturally enjoy smooth soft hairlessness.
I am envious of women having lack of body and facial hairs..

[binarybabe001]

I like my boyfriend's chest hair. And there are some women who don't wax or shave their armpits or bikini area or their legs because they like being"natural". If you don't like your body hair you can always get electrolysis treatments.

[Asker]

Did you see my other hairy question which has pictures?

[cosmicc]

I luke men for how they are naturally.

You are a handsome 5'6 man with average hairiness like majority of men. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you at all. So stop trying to convince us that men are gross just bc YOU are insecure about YOURSELF. Get some counseling. Seriously.

[Asker]

Hey, don't reveal everything about me like this publicly.😒
And my height is short for a man.
My hairiness isn't " average"!😒😂

[Asker]

You are a woman and yet am almost the same height as you... and am a man

[cosmicc]

Oh my bad lol but you're taller than me. Im 5'4! There are women who are 5'11 or taller in this world. Men don't HAVE TO be tall and women don't HAVE TO be short.

Your hairiness is average according to the pictures you posted of yourself here lol

[Asker]

According to me am smaller than an average woman smaller than majorof women!😒😂
And I wonder why you say that's average hairiness!🤔😂

[cosmicc]

Nah. You're still pretty average. Bc it is average hairiness. I've seen truly very hairy men... You're nowhere near that

[Asker]

Where have you seen men more hair than men🤔😒😂

[cosmicc]

You need to go out more then smh

[Asker]

You are in America?
And as much as I know American men never leave body natural hairy.

[cosmicc]

Yes U. S and they do.

[Asker]

It seems impossible that American man is hairy and still he doesn't shave , and still he exposes hairy body.
Because American and Indian women are the women who hate hairy men

[cosmicc]

That's not true but whatever. Get out more. Stop tagging me in hair questions. You know my answer and it will not change and you won't convince me otherwise. See the poll answer, in this question and the one you tagged me in... Majority of the votes are for hairy men.

Its nit an obligation that you have to keep your hair. Shave or wax it. Or get over the fact that you're average in hairiness.

[Asker]

Hey, cool down. Don't be angry at me :/

[cosmicc]

Not angry just serious.

[Badgurl98]

Childbirth is first of all, a pain that is beyond women's capacity to withold.
Then, there's menstruation that causes cramps in most women which can become unbearable. And of course, there is the pain & complications of losing one's virginity as a girl. So girls experience much more pain naturally throughout their lives than men do. Also, women may have "nicer bodies", but most of them lose their nice figures after pregnancy.

Then, there's the shaving part. Although you may dislike it, it is seen as "acceptable" in society for men to be hairy, but it is not so for women... Yet we still grow hair everywhere on our bodies and need to regularily shave, which is a hassle (armpits, pubic area, upper lip hair, legs, arms, back for some). So all this maintenance that is required for girls represents another struggle of being a girl.

Girls are physically weaker than guys which makes them more vulnerable than guys. They are more prone to getting raped, sexually harassed and physically/emotionally abused. They are more at risk when doing certain activities than men are (ex: walking alone at night).

Another point is that even in today's society, women tend to get discriminated and they, on average, get paid less than men.

So it's not that easy being a woman either

[Asker]

there is the pain & complications of losing one's virginity as a girl?🤔
Women don't have visible hair growth on the body. No male pattern baldness. No bears growth.
No penis and hence less sexual feelings, not having to control horny feelings. No desire for sex.

[Asker]

I hate having hair and beard growth, women hate it... Then how is it ok?

[Badgurl98]

Yes, it is painful when you lose your virginity as a girl & it's difficult the first time
Body hair is visible if you don't shave (eyebrows, upper lip hair aka mustache haha and legs and all)

[Badgurl98]

I personally like beards in men.

And we don't have a penis, but we so have sexual urges/desires. Our sexual organs are different, but we also enjoy sexual stuff. Personally, I have a high sex drive. So yes, women do get sexual desires too!

[Asker]

Lower legs..
That's it?😒🤔
We men have equally hairy thighs as is the lower legs..

[Asker]

Women like and want sex? That's a news to me..
I thought they never got arused and never masturbate

[Badgurl98]

It's suprising that you were unaware of that. Answer's yes.

[Badgurl98]

Especially at your age..

[JustAnotherUser21]

Dude. You are clearly heterosexual. Obviously women are more appealing to you! That's great! But that doesn't mean they are actually-factually more appealing.

I find guys MUCH more appealing than girls. "Sexy legs"? Duuude, the manlier hairier the better! 😜
Genitals hanging out? Inappropriate-- but if they're nice hey, I'm not hating on it. (Lol jk, be decent in public. 😅) But seriously there's nothing wrong with genitals they are quite appealing to lots of girls.
Boobs? I like mine to look nice. But I wouldn't DREAM of being attracted to boobs!! 😂 I MUCH prefer a man's big, strong, hairy, chest to cuddle with. 😍😉😉

So you like girls. I like guys. You want feminine. I want masculine. Just because you look like a man doesn't make you unattractive! Hell, it makes you MORE attractive to lots of girls!! I don't mind if you prefer to look different, but please believe me YOU LOOK GREAT LIKE YOU ARE! You are very attractive just like that! Look at the comments in whole and you'll see many girls agree. The manlier the man, the more attractive he is. 🤔😉 Almost always.

[Asker]

Is masculinity attractive, to women in general?

[asker1234521]

Yes, to heterosexual woman in general, yes!

[Asker]

@asker1234521 are women hetrosexual or lesbian or bisexual leaning towards lesbian?

[JustAnotherUser21]

Normally, almost everyone is naturally heterosexual, I'm pretty sure. But nothing is true of all women, there are plenty of exceptions.

[Asker]

Most women are bisexual or lesbian... while men are rarely gay

[JustAnotherUser21]

No, I don't think that's right.. where did you find that?

[Asker]

I assumed
And one girl here once said she likes men but wish men never had Dicks 🤔😂

[JustAnotherUser21]

Well that's not the majority way of thinking either lol. 😅
Trust me most girls are straight. That's why there's still an overpopulation problem, for one.

[arealgirl100]

Women have to shave every day and birth children. Menstruation is painful and can be scary. Sex is often scary for girl virgins. We are weaker and even in modern feminist society we can be gang raped just by walking around unaccompanied.

Both the sexes suffer in this life, but women have a heavier cross re mental and physical suffering.

[Asker]

*but women have a heavier cross re mental and physical suffering". What do you mean?

[Asker]

Women just shave their legs and pits because they want to be plastic smooth, not because they need to.
Men on the other hand " have" to shave their face and chest daily or else it looks so so hairy. Even if men do shave face their skin is so stubbly and prickly , not as smooth soft as a woman's skin naturally is. Men have to shave their face daily... do you realize that?

[Asker]

There is additional mental pain and suffering of being very hairy and looking like a beast.

[arealgirl100]

The physical sufferings from my post cannot be compared to the typical male suffering of life. Women, being mothers, have the *historical* burden of caring for children should the husband leave, abuse the family, or die young.

Because of childbirth, women lose their looks faster than men.

We are created to be more vulnerable, more receptive: to romance, to harm, to both good and evil. We are weaker physically, and thus we must fight harder to be strong mentally and not give into anxiety.

There are exceptions to the above, of course, but this is the law of nature. See Thomas Hobbes, John Locke, Rousseau, Augustine, Aristotle, and Plato for continuations on this theme.

[arealgirl100]

Of course! No denying that you suffer, and OF COURSE any one man may suffer far more than any one woman.

Take, for instance, the historical example: men going off to war. That's a difficulty women (in the past) just didn't have to undergo. However, while the men were all deployed, the women had to do their jobs, care for the families, and make sure that no one starved. So, men certainly have things to suffer. If this were a speech and debate tournament, I could very easily turn my argument around and argue on behalf of the male's point of view, stating that THEY have it harder.

But the intellectual tradition of the past few thousand years has definitively stated that life is less favorable to women in general.

[Asker]

more receptive: to romance, ?
Women are more romantic? But they never show.
Do women have sexual feeling? I don't think

[Asker]

How about the modern society? Now men and women both have it equally harder?
Even if we leave the social part aside , nature is also favorable to women. Nature made women far more beautiful , gave women better skin curves smooth almost hairless body and face. I don't know why the heck men have beard and chest hair... It's a curse

[arealgirl100]

I meant that women have a more receptive nature, ie the sperm goes and seeks out the egg, not vice versa.

You believe what you believe, and that is your right, but the great thinkers of time are in opposition. Have a good one.

[Asker]

I badly wish I was a woman!😒
At least I wouldn't be suffering from beard, hairiness all over the body , horny feeling, being judged by women if you aren't tall and strong, having to shave whole body or else look beastly. ( You did see my other question where I have my pics,?)

[Oohlalala]

Seeing you invited me to answer this question despite knowing my preferences here goes, why would I feel sorry for a man being a man? Would I feel sorry for a man for having very hairy legs? No. I would however be turned on. As for you being envious of women. Really? Really? So you're envious of the fact that women are under pressure to be as thin and beautiful as media ( and some men!) expect us too? You're envious of the way we are expected to remove every superfluous hair off our bodies? It's socially acceptable for men to have body hair ( heck I expect men to have body hair) . You're envious that usually our clothes and toiletries are more expensive than men's? You're envious of periods? You're envious of childbirth and all the pain and discomfort that comes with it? You're envious that women are judged on how many sexual partners she's had? It's a man's world and yet you're envious of women?

[Asker]

I don't know much about periods, but as much as I know women , you all have been given better body, better skin, better face, better hair on head , more pain tolerance, nicer personality.
Women don't have to worry about shaving beard on a daily basis and after a certain age about grey beard , grey chest hair. Have you ever imagined how it is to have more hair on the chest and stomach than a woman's groin area?🤔 Yesz you can shave it. You know how the groin area looks and feels after you shave it, that's the way our chest and feels after we have shaved it. Women naturally enjoy smooth soft hairlessness.

[Eve93]

Do you know that we have a lot of hair too right? We just wax or shave it very often. The only problem I see is that you don't like facial and body hair. Start the waxing my friend and with time you'll see that the will become weaker and and will not grow as much. And dude if you like women, I think it's just obvious that our bodies will be more appealling. As you said, both have pros and cons so I will not tell you about our cons that I may feel that are worse than men's. The grass is always greener on the other side

[Asker]

No, women don't have much coarse visible body and facial hairs... don't say you women have hairs.
That's small small fuzz. Why exaggerate it?

[Eve93]

Hahahaha it's true. That our hair is not that coarse as men's. But believe me when I say that I "feel" like a bear sometimes. And that is what it is for me a feeling that may be true to some or not. Who knows?

[Asker]

If you are a bear... what am I?🤔🤔🤔🤔

[Eva323]

Dude, just shave it already. We all like hairy guys. It’s fine. But just try it out if it bothers you so much. Hair grows back. It’s cool like that.

[Asker]

Hair grows back. It’s cool like that.
That's the issue... why the heck does it grow back :/ :(
It sucks

[Asker]

We all like hairy guys🤔😒😠
Not true

[Eva323]

My dad is hairy. My uncles are hairy. My cousins are hairy. Some day my children will probably be hairy. My grandpa was hairy before he died. Hair is masculine. I am straight. Therefore hair is attractive. But it doesn’t matter. Do with it what you will, but I garuntee you, not half the problems you attribute to your hairiness are really due to it.

[Asker]

Then how many problems are attributed to my overly hairiness, if it is not half?😒
Jokes apart! How hairy are the men in your life /family, if I may ask? Especially your cousins. And how do they feel about being hairy and hairier than you?
You did see my question with my hairy picture, right? That's TOO much hair. Agree?

[Eva323]

They’re teddy bears. Embrace it. No, you aren’t too hairy.

[Asker]

Teddy bears...
You mean they are more hairy than me? Hairy all over, and how do they remove it all? Wax/shave/cream?

[Eva323]

Some of em shave it because it’s itchy the rest don’t. No one cares. It isn’t a thing.

[Asker]

Your cousins shave, and shave everything including legs? Especially before wearing shorts and going topless they need to shave, right?

[Oohlalala]

Actually @guyuser2 some of us do like hairy guys, in fact I love them

[Asker]

@Oohlalala you are a minority!😒

[Oohlalala]

@guyuser2 I'm not though

[Asker]

@Oohlalala this would help
Girls, Is body hair a big turn off to you? ↗

[Oohlalala]

Most the girls like hair so what's your point?

[Asker]

@Oohlalala most girls liked hairy in that question?🤔
Wait let me check

[Eva323]

See 79% went for hairy. Now grow a spine and turn your nose up at anyone who acts like a shmuck. It really doesn’t matter.

[Oohlalala]

@Eva323 best comment so far

[Asker]

What's a shmuck😒
And it's weird that no woman voted for option 1 or 2 🤔

[Eva323]

Shmuck is Yiddish. It’s basically equivalent to jerk but a little meaner, you can look up the direct translation if you want a specific word.

[Asker]

@Eva323 hey, odd thing, but what if the upper chest hair turns grey with age, am sure your dad might have got grey. Does it then start looking messy creepy?

[Asker]

And if supposed YOU were a man and had lot of hairs a I do , 5hen how would you feel and what would you do with it?

[Eva323]

If I was a man I probably wouldn’t care. Grey is no different than black hair.

[Asker]

Grey in black mixed looks more messy...
Obviously it's the same hair, but looks uglish.
Am sure yoir cousins shave their whole body since they are young men and dad and uncles keep it?

[thataerialgirl]

I think there are pros and cons to both sexes. I feel that men have it easier when it comes to a lot of things, but I do feel bad, especially emotion-wise. It seems like guys aren't really allowed to have emotions. If they do they're a "pussy" or whatever.
Some girls like hairy, some girls don't. Kind of in the same way that some guys want their girl 100% shaved and others want trimmed, or even natural. It's all about preference.
For me personally, I love stubble and am not really bothered by chest/back/leg/pubic hair. As long as you keep yourself clean. :)

[Asker]

Don't you feel sorry for men?

[thataerialgirl]

I... don't feel sorry for them because they have more hair, but I think it's bull that they're seen as gross because of it. But so are girls. fffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffff I don't know

[Asker]

but I think it's bull that they're seen as gross because of it?
You mean?

[rebecca10127]

I believe that guys do not have it better then girls hair wise. This is because girls still have to shave their legs and other parts of their body to fit in with society. If we even have a little bit of natural hair anywhere other than our head it is not acceptable to society. However for guys you can be accepted either way, with or without hair

[Asker]

It's because girls want to be seen as dolphin / plastic smooth and even slight leg fuzz is seen as bad by the woman herself.
But nature made woman better. Men have lot of coarse hairs even on the chest. Women don't even have coarse hair on the thigh, the chest and stomach is plastic smooth... naturally

[rebecca10127]

we do get hair on our stomach, not a lot but like we do. I still think it is better for guys because they are accepted with or without hair, we have to shave all the hair we got

[MimiHashima]

I can say this in a careful way.. just as men have it rough so do women.. it may not be in the same areas, but there are areas where it’s rough for each individual. Seeing it that way can only be viewed as belittling the thought of what one may go through; which shouldn’t happen on either parts..

[Asker]

Women are made better..
Why
:/🤔😒

[MimiHashima]

Also i do have my sympathies for men in many cases.

[MimiHashima]

You would feel so..

[Asker]

Great.
Which cases do you have sympathy for men?

[MimiHashima]

Some don’t like growing too much hair in certain areas.. also the treatments I’ve seen every now and again vice versa in dating and so forth.. this maybe slight off topic but i feel it for the guys and girls that are taken fore granted.

[MimiHashima]

Especially in relationships where they try hard.

[Asker]

Guys are taken too much for granted, right?

[MimiHashima]

I wonder about that.. but it wouldn’t be fair of me to speak for all. I only know I’ve seen it in both guys and girls..

[MimiHashima]

I’m one of those girls.

[Asker]

Do you also feel bad for men for having beard and penis?

[MimiHashima]

I kind of feel bad that it seems they have the hardest time controlling it.. which is why they call it another head.. but still it can likely be done.. but is tough... beards... wait why? Some beards are very nice on a man.

[Asker]

the problem.
Guys either have to shave , shave and shave continuously for life, or take very good care of the beard and it's inconvenient and uncomfortable to keep such natural useless beard.
Women would never have to do anything and still would be almost hairfree in face

[Asker]

Penis looks ugly as shit.
Balls hanging out are so easy target. Even women make use of the weak hanging testicles... and cause pain to men

[MimiHashima]

In face perhaps 😂 but elsewhere *erhem*

[MimiHashima]

Referring to women atm lols..

[MimiHashima]

But i can only imagine you guys have it hard too

[MimiHashima]

I feel bad when men are kicked there unnecessarily...

[Asker]

Have you ever kicked a man's balls... or seen some girl hitting the balls?
I sympathize with periods , but still at least you all have better face, nice curves and smooth skin.

[MimiHashima]

I’ve never had to resort to that action and hoping i won't have to. If i was in trouble and things were to take a turn for the worst or your in danger if not done, then hey, it’s kind of self explanatory. I’ve seen a girl actually kik a guy there... i kind of felt a slight pain and jerk in my body seeing it cause I’m sure that had to hurt... and I’m sure it hurt him worse w. o question...

Periods/monthlys are... ugh.. it’s not good when you’re anemic... I’m jus gonna say that..

Smooth skin.. yeeaahh that’s not totally true for some unfortunately... they wish they did ^^;; this is only what “appears” to the eye.. xd

[MimiHashima]

I know for certain I wouldn’t kik the guy i love.

[Asker]

You are so kind at heart type of a girl.
by the way why did this girl kick the guy in the groin? Any idea?
Was the girl talk bigger than the man?🤔

[MimiHashima]

Thanks, and I’m not sure tbh.. they were arguing pretty big and it got there...

[MimiHashima]

Have a feeling it was relationship-wise though..

[Asker]

:)
Oh, they had an argument and the woman though she should kick him to cause pain as a revenge. She kicked once and he was down on his knees?

[MimiHashima]

Yurp. 😓

[sarahhcmarie]

Even if the hair grows back like in a day, you can still shave for the time being. I have to do that ALL THE TIME. especially down there. it grows back in like a day whenever i shave 😂 We can't change ourselves. I suppose if you wanted to try it, you could get a chest waxing or something. Some men do that. But all in all, there is someone out there who likes you for you. Try to be comfortable with yourself.

[Asker]

Waxing my chest and stomach is HELL. Waxing procedure is painful and so is the regrowth and ingrown hairs struggle.