What to do when other girls keep staring at my bf? even when I am with him?

[Anonymous]

When I am spending time with my boyfriend many girls keep staring at him. He tells me this and even I have noticed it. Sometimes it just irritates me that those girls are with their boyfriend then why look at mine. He looks better than me and he is a model so i am kinda insecure about it. any advice?

[s2firestar]

Suck it up. Your boyfriend is at least that attractive, so you have that going for yourself.

In short: if you act jealous, you will piss him off. If he would want to cheat, you could not stop him with anything. If not, there is little point in being jealous.

[s2firestar]

Also, you look pretty cute. If you have a nice personality to go with that, you have nothing to worry about.

[Asker]

M not jealous but sometimes it just pisses me off that he tells me a girl was staring at him. i dont tell him if a guy would stare at me or even try to talk. why would he

[s2firestar]

Hah... He is testing/teasing you - or trying to prove his worth. Just ignore it. Or tell him whenever you get looked at. As I have saidy you look pretty cute. You are bound to capture a few glances.

[Asker]

I can't tell him when i am looked at because then he starts his whole 'a female model in the show was hitting on me' nonsense. And i wouldn't even know if its true or not

[s2firestar]

Umm... Could you... Rephrase this? I really don't understand :/ (I'm not a native English speaker and).

[Asker]

Sure. When i tell him story of boys hitting on me. he starts telling me that the other female models with whom he does fashion show those girls hit on him

[s2firestar]

Aaah now I understand. I'll answer in a minute, but I have to sit down to my computer, because it will be long.

[s2firestar]

So, he is trying to project his "worth" - so to say - towards you. The reason why he is deflecting your attempts towards 'models', is that he is trying to stay on top.

You are obviously cute, and he knows that well. Guys often try to project their worth to ensure that a cute girl does not look for another 'more worthy' guy.

Personally, I find this extremely childish, but then again, a lot of guys do this. And a lot of girls too. What you can do is just ignore this altogether. That would be my suggestion. Bragging about what kind of people are looking at you is just a so-called "e-penis". As in, it is worthless in the practical life.

[Asker]

Thanku for taking so much effort in writing this long comment. i feel much better now. i will try to avoid it

[s2firestar]

No problem. And I really needed my computer, because my phone is small, my fingers are relatively big, and it results in a lots of typos - which I hate.

I am happy that I could helped. If any other question arises in this subject, I would be glad to pitch in with an answer.

[mrbobz]

nothing at all you can do about it, so just take it as a compliment... damn you got a hot guy and all those girls want him, well tough luck to them as he is yours.

:)

[StingRayxoxo]

Just ignore them. He chose you for a reason.
If someone is coming into him, that’s a different story...

[Olivia_gomez]

Knock them out!

Just kidding, you should take it as a compliment girl his all yours and own it 😊

[truthbeknown]

This is when you become proud of having a guy that is desired by others but only you are lucky enough to have him.

[WhoDatGuy]

Because women are competitive. If he was on his own they probably wouldn't bother

[Halucinator]

You two stand on same beauty platform
I don’t think either one of you looks better than the other

[Anonymous]

Ask him to wear eyeliner and lipstick just the way you do!😋😂

[Asker]

He doesn't have such interests like you😉😂

[Opinion Owner]

🤔 what's wrong in wanting to look as beautiful as women are?🤔

[Anonymous]

im punching the bitch if she doesn't get her eyes off

[Sevenpointfive]

you're missing all of the guys staring at you.

[Asker]

Every guy will stare at every girl in india... so that doesn't count

[Sevenpointfive]

that's a double standard. you can have anyone there. maybe india has a staring issue?

[Asker]

Perhaps. a quick glance would be fine but people here are very judgmental

[Sevenpointfive]

yeah they are.

[TripleAce]

It’s fine. It’s ok
Don’t let it bother you

[outside_Toronto]

You don't do anything

[Anonymous]

You look better than your boyfriend

[Asker]

In the pic maybe because of the makeup. But actually he does

[Guanfei]

Be proud to be the one who got him

[Razal]

feel good and proud about it.

[Anonymous]

You look better than him

[NYCQuestions1976]

Ignore them.