First, I understand the scientific reaction of flooding hormones and pain that takes place. But I've witnessed people control their anger and emotions, even under the worst pain scenarios. My sister was cramping viciously and her nerves were irked beyond belief from loud children and the shear discomfort of her cycle.
But she makes a habit of lashing out in ways against my bro-in-law unjustly. The guy just arrived home, not even through the door five minutes when she started to rant and lash out at him for a mess on the counter-top left by her two lady buddies. Kids don't drink wine from crystal champagne glasses and leave traces of lipstick with Jimmy Choo magazines laying around.
She contained her pain, rage and composure moments later, when that cop pulled her over for speeding and also didn't display any signs of hostility when her mother-in-law showed up to pick up the kids.
SMH😕 Come on now! Weigh in people.
Do you think some use PMS as an excuse to unjustly lash out at others?
100% without a doubt. It’s like getting super angry and hitting someone. Is it ok to get angry? Yes. Is it ok to hit someone because of it? Absolutely not.
I have stage 4 endometriosis. My period is agonising and every second one I end up taking tramadol injections just to get out of bed. I totally understand feeling like crap and having a shortened temper due to hormones and a general feeling of unwellness probably more than most. But that doesn’t excuse bad behaviour towards others
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Anonymous
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Yes absolutly. Those girls needs to learn how to control their behavior. It's never an excuse it may be a reason but not an excuse. How old is your sister?
First, thank you for your unbiased honesty. This wasn't made to bash those suffering the effects of menstrual cycles but to highlight people who act ugly using something that comes natural as an excuse to lash out at specific individuals.
My sister is a thirty-five year old District Attorney Prosecutor and she's more than aware of when to control her so called, uncontrollably, primal instincts.
She has a great husband and she better realize what she's been doing.
Yeah I get that. Well if she is 35 she really needs to learn. Maybe you could talk to her about it. She could also have hormone problem. Because having that mush PMS and like you said she has really mush pain isn't normal. I had the same problem and I had too mush estrogen which can be dangerous. But I wasen't that rude.
The woman who are diskning my comment grow up. You are not allowed to act like a bitch just because you are in your period. Just as testerone can make yiu angry a guy isn't allowed to beat you. Control your behavior it's your responsibility. And if you already do, good for you with no excuses for your behavior
Some of these comments, man. 🙄 I mean, there is no way to tell exactly how someone is expwriencing their pain, just like qith color perception. However, I am in disbeliefe that the one woman claimed you are an asshole for saying her peruod pains ARE reason enough to lash out, and saying that kemo pains come nowhere close so you would not understand. I am suspected to have endo and I understand that they are nowhere near as bad, amd a girl here with stage 4 endo can keep her shit together.
I have had periods where indid not know I was being ridiculous and I took it all out on my boyfriend, however. Too me, I was logical. The situation: I made a silly face in a pic and sent it to him and he said "She ugly but I love her", a meme throwback and I lost my shit on him, and even ignored him for a day for "lying to me" since before he always said I was beautiful. I thought I had good reason, but looking back, not at all. In fact, if he had done the same, i'd probably respond just as he had.
Undoubtedly, some women suffer greatly when they experience the monthly malady. However, suffering is not unique to women at that time. I am slowly recovering from a severe sinus infection and I had a severe headache for three weeks. I did not bite off my girlfriend's head or threaten to lop off her boobs. If you really think that PMS is an excuse to threaten a guy with castration, etc., please notify us of that on the first date so we can respond accordingly!
If any woman says that she cannot control her behavior at that time, then aren't they admitting that they should be imprisoned once a month? After all, if they are in pain and can't control their behavior, how do we know they aren't going to commit a homicidal act while in a rage?
What? Wait a minute? You don't want to be locked up? You CAN control your behavior? Okay!
Just to make sure that I get some hate mail. . . a joke about PMS. And this is just a joke, so lighten up and don't threaten me.
Q. WHy do they call it "PMS?"
A. Because the name "Mad Cow Disease" was already taken!
PMS is absolutely a think. During my time of the month, the girl beside me sniffs, and I feel mad at her. I always feel bad after it, and never act on these feelings. Pains are a different thing. Cramps are your cervix opening, they might cause me to be tired and and little impatient while in pain, but never angry, or to lash out at someone. If a girl is getting mad at people for no reason and blaming her period, she's just looking for excuses. Remember that not all women are like this. Despite this, if I did have a disagreement on my period and go apologise, I might blame the fact that I exaggerated on my period, but not the root problem, I would take responsibility.
It honestly depends on her hormones. I seriously cannot control nor realize when I go mad. I'm not like in that picture though lol, it happens usually over a serious reason (in my point of view) and I don't scream. The average female may be able to control it, but I can't as estrogen is raging inside me. I wish people could understand that.
I completely understand what you're saying and I empathize with you, however there are those that no matter how much rage is building, pain is pulsating, hormones flooding, they put their emotions in check when grandma is present, they're in the presence of their immediate boss or law enforcement. Then resort back to being nasty to those they have no true fear of the consequences of their actions. Yet to see my sister, rant and scream violently at our 107 year old Nana.
You really don't know when those hormones will hit you. I think most try to not let it effect our emotions but can't control it sometimes. It's just a part of life.
As far as your sister goes you might not know other problems she has with her husband that would make her more short with him. Hell, he may not even know yet.
I know her and husband all too well. There are no other problems, she's just being a b*tch towards him whenever her period is on. No other times. do I see this, besides she use to try targeting me till I put her ass in check.
Yes, my first girlfriend would act like a complete child and thought her PMS card meant she could insult people, scream at them, and be a dramatic mess.
Plenty of other women do it to.
I'm not telling women how to feel, but I draw the line at them taking it out on me. It's happened far too much and I refuse to tolerate any longer.
PMS is a hormonal imbalance. It is even qualified as a mental disorder. So no I wouldn’t call it an excuse (cuz its a literal chemical imbalance) but I will say some people exaggerate their symptoms
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Anonymous
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I personally don't I get really bad cramps sometimes I have to go to the hospital but I know there are some girls that don't get cramps or anything at all I am also already always emotional so having my period makes it so much worse I try to be as normal as possible but it's hard when you feel like poop
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Anonymous
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Women use any excuse they can to act like insane people. They kill their children... "oh it was a chemical imbalance... waaaaa" They act like violent assholes... "It's my period... waaaaaa" They act like whiny children... "I'm just soo overwhelmed... waaaa" They have a meltdown at work... "I'm just sooo stressed out... waaa"
Then guys have any outburst, stress, anxiety, etc... "Guys are just so aggressive, waaa toxic masculinity... waaaa"
Then women can blame testosterone too if they get violent when they get annoyed or upset. Fact is that there is no medical study linking testosterone alone to violent behavior, so you girls must be delusional or misinformed.
I think you’re the delusional one here dude, WE’RE AGREEING WITH YOU. I’m literally trying to say he lashed out on me and blamed it on that because he was looking for EXCUSES. Geez.
You're not agreeing with me, you're saying testosterone leads to violence, which is factually false. Why are you being aggressive, too much testosterone?
No I’m not, go back and read my comment. I do not think that, im trying to tell you that he was trying to create excuses by blaming it on testosterone when he hit me and I told him that he’s creating excuses for his behaviour. Anyway if it came off that way then that’s not what I meant because I agree with you.
Frankly, I've only heard women blame testosterone when men are violent. High testosterone or low testosterone issues that lead to anger are very rare medical conditions. Testosterone is good for man's body overall and women testosterone too
I’m agreeing with you, testosterone doesn’t cause someone to act out like he did, which is why I said he was trying to use it as an excuse, because he didn’t have a valid reason to hit me, he just did it out of violence then blamed it on something else.
I'm not trying to make into something else, I'm just saying that blaming testosterone on violence and saying that men blame their violence on testosterone is factually FALSE.
I’m not continuing this anymore. There’s something wrong with you, I literally agreed with you and spoke out about something personal only for you to assume I’m a liar. Have a good day, I’m no longer replying to this.
It's a bullshit excuse to act like a bitch. If I was to pull similar stunts (I'm a big, bald, redhead) I'd get told to leave or get my attitude in check. If women want equality, they need to do their part.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Yup, I get irritated and annoyed like the week before but never will I lash out at someone, that’s uncalled for.
I say this to girls. Either A pms is a valid excuse and that means you need to stay home and you can't drive or drink or do anything that requires any clear thinking or B you are a grown ass adult and its no excuse. You choose.
Why don't you let us kick you in the balls every 30 mins for 5- 7 days whilst you feel sick, tired and have back ache. And let's see how temperamental you become over the tiniest inconvenience.
No your question is childish. You say I don't understand your leukaemia pains well you as a man do not understand what women go through every month during their menstrual cycle but yet here you are passing judgment on how some women handle it. And the kicking in the balls comment is to show the equivalent of the pain we deal with from cramps.
Bullshit, I have twelve sisters, twenty-three nieces, two of who called me when they got their periods at school instead of their mothers and aunts. Took them to get their first pack of Always heavy overnights, Midols and new pants when she spotted at school because mom would embarrass her and call every damn auntie on the phone.
Oh don't lay that biased gender bs on every guy because you possibly chose to surround yourself with idiotic males of your choosing. My question was based upon those being unjustly nasty and rude while using PMS as an excuse.
But I'm done with you trying to flip this topic into something other than what I asked.
lol, stop fucking whining. Periods do suck (trust me, I know) but they're not a reason to be a huge bitch over the slightest things. PMS is totally a thing. Cramps are totally a thing. Mine are so bad I have to take painkillers and I'm looking to go on birth control. I do not treat people around me like shit because they inconvenienced me.
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