Girls would you friendzone a guy and then change your mind?

[Anonymous]

So this girl and I have hung out for awhile now and I told her one night over text that I had feelings for her after we made up after an argument and her response was “Im sorry too because can act the same way sometimes. but I do just think of us as friends and I’m sorry if that’s not what you want to hear.” We still talk on occasion and are going out to lunch next week when we both have time. Is there any chance she will change her mind? She’s dated her friends in the past. Could it be possible she’s saying that because she doesn’t have time to invest in a relationship because of school and two jobs?

[silvermoon84]

I never have. I’ve put guys in the friend zone before and it was because I simply couldn’t see myself falling in love with them, and I never once regretted that nor didn’t I get upset with them if they broke things off. I never developed feelings for any of them later, but that’s just me. Every woman is different. If you say she’s dated friends in the past then I think you may have a shot, just be patient and don’t force it. Good luck 👍🏻 🙂

[Temporal]

"Friendzone" isn't a thing. If she thinks of you as a friend, that's simply it. You're her friend. If you're only friends with her because you want to date her you need to be upfront about that and back off. If you actually like spending time with her, then keep being her friend. If you two are compatible things will happen, if not, then they won't. But don't stick around pining after her. Try to move on

[Grey_Ghost]

I doubt it. the only reason I would see that as being possible is if she just said that because she likes someone else. in that case maybe, said person, would do something to make her not feel that way anymore. Then maybe she would realize she likes you... With that being said though, that's probably like a %3 chance. Your best bet is to move on.

[BuchitaBuchys]

It is very, very, VERY unlikely I'd change my mind if I rejected someone. But I don't want to say impossible, because you never know. But I'd lean more towards no.

What you wrote could be possible, but I think she's not interested. I say cut your losses and don't hold out for her to change her mind.

[PrincessGrail]

It’s rare for a girl to change her mind unless something happens to change it. In this case, nothing has.

[Asker]

Are you saying I haven’t done anything to change her mind?

[PrincessGrail]

Nothing has changed since you told her how you felt.

[Asker]

I mean between the two of us there’s hardly much free time. She has been more open with me, this is someone I’ve known a few years. But there’s no chance at things changing I see

[PrincessGrail]

She may change over time, but it’s only been a week.

[Cask23]

Girls don't frendzone guys, guys do it to themselves by being too passive not acting like a man and pursuing the women you desire.

[emmily2396]

I would only friendzone a guy if i am unsure if i like him. If I don't like him at all I would avoid him, but many girls friendzone the guys they don't like as a partner. So it is unclear if there is still hope for you. Anyway, calm down and don't push anything on her, it will turn her off.

[Anonymous]

FriendZoning doesn’t exist. If you value her enough to like the appeal of being in a relationship, then you should value being her friend. Guys can have friends who are female and vise versa. She didn’t shoot you down, she just wasn’t interested and since she wants to be friendly then it clearly isn’t your fault.
Also, you don’t need to be in a relationship to be happy. Best wishes, bud.

[ClearCyan]

Except sometimes the feelings never leave and being with them as a friend becomes literal torture. So you have to leave.

[Opinion Owner]

The inability to move on isn’t healthy. At that points it isn’t the females fault, it’s you own.

[ClearCyan]

Nobody even placed blame. The reason for leaving is for the health of the individual. Sometimes you aren't able to get over someone if you see or hear from them too often. Which is what happens if you are good friends.

[ClearCyan]

I've had people stop being friends with me for this reason and vice versa. It's pretty normal.

[Lovelygirl420]

Ok so when you meet her take her back to a quiet spot tell her you want to show her what she means to u. Then pull her panties off and eat her out for 3 orgasms. After 3 you will unlock her love, at which point she will allow you to insert your penis in her.

[Dionigi]

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[Wise_man]

"Rape" is the word you're looking for.

[Notsocooly]

Just let her get comfortable with you first and don't bring up the topic of a relationship again until you are completely sure she feels that way about you

[Anonymous]

Yeah of course, but it's not so much about changing my mind, it's more about the natural progression. Many people prefer to start with a type of friendship and let it naturally blossom into more. It makes for some of the best relationships!

[LadyCourtessa]

Yes.. I friendzone this guy that like me and eventually came to realize that i do have feelings for him and i love him

[_blondebaby_]

I have done that to a guy and later developed feelings for him and it was the best decision i ever made. (Going out with him). It does happen don't lose hope

[Felinegirl]

It is possible, but not likely at all. Try not to get your hopes up.

[I_love_rain]

If she has friend zoned you it wis unlikely she will change her mind

[beachloverr]

I friendzoned my ex before we eventually dated. It’s possible.

[Anonymous]

No. If i friendzoned someone, it means it will always stay that way. The way i felt never changed, at least so far. I guess if I’d potentially like someone romantically, I’d feel “it” or something.

[Opinion Owner]

Friendzone*

[ChocolateMarie2001]

No cause I am a lesbian only way a guy can be in my group I’d be in my friend zone if you can’t handle it get out.

[Anonymous]

Girls usually friendzone when a guy isn't being romantic with them. They expect confidence in a guy

[truthbeknown]

She will once you become rich.

[the_imperfectionist]

Yes that is possible.

[SunnyCaliGirl]

No such thing as a "friend zone"

[Anonymous]

Nope

[boulshyte]

maybe