Personally I wouldn't date or marry someone like that cause I want a partner who is ambitious like me. But the majority of guys would like a girl who wants to be homemaker
No it's not as long as you clean the house from head to toe and cook and do your job. As long as you don't lay around all day eating and watching soaps on TV all day not really doing anything
It’s actually beautiful and keeps the masculine and feminine dynamic alive. When men and women are functionally identical she ends up being unable to orgasm and he develops erectile dysfunction because there is no distinction, no differences, or sexual dimorphism. Studies have actually demonstrated when men assume what were feminine roles and vice versa the couples are unhappier, unsatisfied and have problems. Tradition is wisdom.
Well that’s a pejorative thing to say. The nuclear family has been the foundation for the success of western society, the more we move away from this, the more problems we are having. It’s a different goal not a lesser or basic one as were all different actually. Different temperaments etc. Some people are happier with a quieter life. Why should they feel pressure to do something just because you deem it better/more sophisticated or erudite if it makes them unhappy or depressed or undermines their peace of mind? Why should they live up to some kind of vain superficial ideal because people like you will only value what you see on the surface and cannot see their inner beauty or character? That’s all pretty shallow. Calling it a basic goal or desire is tantamount to looking down on it which is pride and it hurts people and makes them sad. Still if you only value women who conform with liberal ideologies as a deal breaker, you do not value her anyway. The masculine nature wouldn’t care about how well a woman competes under the masculine system of things.
Where did I state that I wanted a liberal women or that it's wrong to be a stay at home mum you keep feeding me I go I nither said was wrong or care to argue with I simply stated that a life goal to be a stay at home mum is basic I never said she should want more either as I also said if that's what you want cool but that don't mean I don't see it as a basic goal her being sad by this would be stupid as if i some random fool on the internet can shake the core of her life goal then she must not believe in that life goal
That is indeed bad as it shows lack of ambition and competitiveness. Everyone needs to make a home, with or without kids. It isn´t a full time occupation, just something you do in your spare time.
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Personally I wouldn't date or marry someone like that cause I want a partner who is ambitious like me.
But the majority of guys would like a girl who wants to be homemaker
No!! My goal used to be different but since becoming a mother this is my ultimate goal too.
That is not bad at all. It is a very noble goal in fact. You won't get rich but that's not the point.
Seems like we have same ultimate goal in life lol
Ah that's amazing. Rare to see someone agree with me nowadays
I have no idea why I got 2 dislikes 😂
Nope.
Its actually Best.
Home doesn't run on its own and a man can't handle somethings all himself.
No, that's not a bad dream. A lot of women want that, actually.
No it's not as long as you clean the house from head to toe and cook and do your job. As long as you don't lay around all day eating and watching soaps on TV all day not really doing anything
No it’s your choice people should respect ones that choose to stay at home. It’s not for me I loveeeee my career. But good for you!!!
It's is not bad. People have different goals in life. My goal is to travel the world and see all the unique places in the world.
Not a bad thing at all, don't let these crazies tell you that staying at home and being a mother is a bad thing! I think it's a beautiful thing.
Also, I think a lot of guys would love to have a woman who thinks like you... I know I would
Seems vary basic meh if that's your goal then good for you no e is to live life without regrets and tryi g to make others happy around me
Watching your kids grow isn't "basic". It's amazing
You would watch them anyway working is not a disregard to watching them lol
It’s actually beautiful and keeps the masculine and feminine dynamic alive. When men and women are functionally identical she ends up being unable to orgasm and he develops erectile dysfunction because there is no distinction, no differences, or sexual dimorphism. Studies have actually demonstrated when men assume what were feminine roles and vice versa the couples are unhappier, unsatisfied and have problems. Tradition is wisdom.
Sure thing as I stated you can do what you want I never questiond that just that having a goal in life that is being a house wife is basic which it is
Well that’s a pejorative thing to say. The nuclear family has been the foundation for the success of western society, the more we move away from this, the more problems we are having. It’s a different goal not a lesser or basic one as were all different actually. Different temperaments etc. Some people are happier with a quieter life. Why should they feel pressure to do something just because you deem it better/more sophisticated or erudite if it makes them unhappy or depressed or undermines their peace of mind? Why should they live up to some kind of vain superficial ideal because people like you will only value what you see on the surface and cannot see their inner beauty or character? That’s all pretty shallow. Calling it a basic goal or desire is tantamount to looking down on it which is pride and it hurts people and makes them sad. Still if you only value women who conform with liberal ideologies as a deal breaker, you do not value her anyway. The masculine nature wouldn’t care about how well a woman competes under the masculine system of things.
Where did I state that I wanted a liberal women or that it's wrong to be a stay at home mum you keep feeding me I go I nither said was wrong or care to argue with I simply stated that a life goal to be a stay at home mum is basic I never said she should want more either as I also said if that's what you want cool but that don't mean I don't see it as a basic goal her being sad by this would be stupid as if i some random fool on the internet can shake the core of her life goal then she must not believe in that life goal
How's that bad. How is making sure your children have at least one parent around bad. ?
no it's great. i wish more women cared about those stuff
It is to me. Had a girlfriend with this goal. She was a splendid woman but her mindset just ruined it in long term.
No. It's that's your dream and goal then go for it.
No not at all its totally appreciable n respectable
That is indeed bad as it shows lack of ambition and competitiveness. Everyone needs to make a home, with or without kids. It isn´t a full time occupation, just something you do in your spare time.
You can thank feminists for making your dream seem weird.
*middle finger*
If you were my wife, I would avoid you cooking for me because I don't like women who degrade themselves to serving men
I mean it’s not objectively bad, but I think in my opinion, it lacks vision.
I want to know.