I am not sure if someone who doesn't know the difference between your and you're can call me stupid. Nevertheless I did that because I couldn't stop myself. My heart is aching greatly after she left
I am thinking of waiting a few months and then making a call to her where I am more direct. I will ask her to just tell me if I should pursue her and if we can meet in private. What do you think?
Appreciate your advice. Why are you so against me calling her? what's the worst that can happen? This way at least I will get closure and move on. There might be a 1% chance that she agrees which I am hoping for.
OK thanks. Maybe I will do it after I have left the company. And I am not the kind of guy to hog someone. Once I get a clear enough answer I move on. And I can wait a few months before contacting her again.
Whatever evidence is there I have mentioned it in the post. Now it is possible that I was misinterpreting the signs. At the very basic level I am sure that she is attracted to me.
by the way I am definitely leaving the company in 2 months. Not because of this but due to some other reasons. that's when I calculate my window to contact her again will open. Thanks for the caution though. appreciate it.
You haven't seen the real sickness in the world then. I am doing nothing to force her and am not making her life difficult by stalking, calling her or messaging her. It's just one call that I made. I am only allowing her to make her own choice and hoping it is in my favor.
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If she is willing you should fuck her; no one is harmed if you don't tell and you will enjoy it and so will she.
you made a mistake. why would u wanna do that? your stupid
I am not sure if someone who doesn't know the difference between your and you're can call me stupid. Nevertheless I did that because I couldn't stop myself. My heart is aching greatly after she left
Storm2 I feel ya... i hope your heart finds a greater love
You seem a bit full of yourself.
Did she say anything romantic or sexual to you?
No. All she said was the I should have visited her house with others in the office. when we were close by. Do you think this is a no go?
No go
Ok thanks for the blunt answer. Why wouldn't see just block me or try to be nice in the call then? she knows what I want and she is married.
She’s being polite and you are sort of her boss
I am thinking of waiting a few months and then making a call to her where I am more direct. I will ask her to just tell me if I should pursue her and if we can meet in private. What do you think?
No no no no no!!! Don’t do that.
Not unless she seriously flirts with you
Appreciate your advice. Why are you so against me calling her? what's the worst that can happen? This way at least I will get closure and move on. There might be a 1% chance that she agrees which I am hoping for.
She might sue you and your company for sexual harassment. And probably win. Plus you will make her very uncomfortable if she’s not into you.
@WhiteShoulder I agree.
Update: based on what you said, you probably can’t. And you will probably seriously get sued if you try.
OK thanks. Maybe I will do it after I have left the company. And I am not the kind of guy to hog someone. Once I get a clear enough answer I move on. And I can wait a few months before contacting her again.
Wait till you leave the company.
Is there any evidence she's into you?
Whatever evidence is there I have mentioned it in the post. Now it is possible that I was misinterpreting the signs. At the very basic level I am sure that she is attracted to me.
Attracted is a good thing. If you're sure you didn't make her uncomfortable, try again after you leave the company.
by the way I am definitely leaving the company in 2 months. Not because of this but due to some other reasons. that's when I calculate my window to contact her again will open. Thanks for the caution though. appreciate it.
Good luck. Hope she likes you for real. For that matter, I hope you like her for real and don't just wanna bang her...
I'll update you in two months !
Don't do it man. It's bad news bears.
Eh, maybe? Hard to say.
Makes me sick... going after a married woman
You haven't seen the real sickness in the world then. I am doing nothing to force her and am not making her life difficult by stalking, calling her or messaging her. It's just one call that I made. I am only allowing her to make her own choice and hoping it is in my favor.
Really why?