I'm not the only girl he's talking to..?

[Anonymous]

I've been 'talking' to this guy for a little bit. He waits for me after a couple classes and walks me to my next one or talks to me, that kinda stuff. Then this weekend we're talking about hanging out and he tells me "he needs to be honest" and that "since he's single he's talking to other girls too". I'm not mad, I just don't see the point in him telling me. I've been trying to figure it out for a few days while trying to pretend nothing is wrong towards him, so I'd love some honest guy input on this..

[honeyltsme]

he wants you to get a little jealous and also appreciate that he's different

seems to be working for him at least somewhat

he's a bit of a player it seems but could still be a good guy. I would ask him what he's after when talking to other girls, like what's his absolute ideal outcome of that (which naturally also applies to yourself, but you do not need to bring that up). he wants to sleep with them all or sleep with whichever puts out soonest, or the prettiest one or what?

[Asker]

I don't it's about sleeping with them. I could be wrong, but he doesn't really say things aimed towards that too much. And he asked me to go to his soccer game Friday, which I did. We talked a little before he left and hugged then the next day he tells me that.

[Mudpuppy]

I don't think he's playing any games with you. It's easy to over analyze behavour between two sexes and say he's trying to do this or that but it's far more likely he doesn't know what he's doing (being under 18) and is inexperienced.