Guys, how would you feel if a girl you were talking to went through your phone?

I was talking to this guy. Things ended respectfully due to distance and we have remained friends. I still have feelings for him, but I respect his decision and I’m not begging him to be with me.

However, I think he’s talking to a new girl. Because today I got a random text from a girl saying “Back the fuck off my man, _________.” I was so confused how this girl got my number. We don’t even live in the same part of our state, no mutual friends, etc. The only thing I can think of is she got my number by going through his phone.

Him and I have been chatting recently, and when things ended between us (which was a few weeks ago) he said he’s in a bad season of life and can’t date anyone right now, which I understood. But now there’s this new insecure girl going out of her way to text me lol.

I sent him screenshots, saying “Care to explain who this is?” Mostly to show him that she likely was going through his phone and found my number.

Guys, how would you react in a situation like this?
Guys, how would you feel if a girl you were talking to went through your phone?
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