Me and this girl have known each other for around 3 years now at college, and we get on super well. We have only really been good friends over the last 4 months, but we definitely haven't friendzoned eachother. She told my friend a while ago that she liked me, and my friend told me to go for it but I haven't until recently as I recently got out of a relationship. A couple of weeks ago, I saw her on a night out and asked if she wanted to go for a drink, and she said yes and seemed pretty keen for it. She also told me to remind her tomorrow because she'll probably forget about it, as we were both pretty drunk. The day after I messaged her asking if she remembered my proposition and she said no, and when I told her I asked her out she said "I'm too nice sometimes" and then "I need to wise up". Obviously taking this as rejection I just left it thinking she didn't want it, which I was gutted about but accepted we were just going to be friends. Then that evening, she was out drinking with friends, and messaged me asking if I was joking. I said no and she replied "of course I'll go for a drink with you, which date suits you?" and we also talked about where we were going to go. Again, she seemed pretty keen. Were her friends just convincing her to go on a date with me? The day after that I messaged her again confirming which day I was free and I didn't get a reply for a while. When I finally did she said "Sorry I definitely won't be able to do this week as I'm pretty busy", and she didn't offer an alternative. I left it at that, rejection, which really confused me because she technically said yes twice. I've been waiting to bump into her around campus to ask her again, as I don't want to message and seem desperate, but I haven't seen her yet. Should I just man up and message her once more? Should I just take this as she doesn't want to go on a date?
I asked a girl out and she's giving me a confusing answer?
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