I chase her, she ignores me. I ignore her, she chases me. Make sense of this? (Page 2)
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With going on dates out of the question, I think it's just bad timing right now. Many people are going to be lonely and have to deal with it for the safety of others.
I think she likes you but she’s running out of ammo. Ultimately you do your talking on a date. Due to circumstances that’s not possible.
Try just saying enough to keep the fire kindled but no more and you be the one to end the conversation.
Would like to add if going on a date we’re possible and she was doing this I’d say ditch her, but it’s not. She sounds like she’s interested because she keeps contacting you. Due to circumstances you have to set a date up with her. Then if she rejects a date or blows you off, then that’s a clear sign of no interest.
She got your number. You didn’t give it to her right? She initiated contact. So, I can’t just label her an attention whore due to the fact a date is not an actual possibility. She seems interested but is running out of ammo, that is to say, can only discuss so much as life has ground to a halt. As for the getting to know you personal questions, save those for in person. You can’t see body language or facial expression or hear tone of voice through a text. Need to be in person for that.
Bottom line is, if when a date is possible you put it out there and she rejects it or gives you the run around then she’s not interested, for now assume she is.
You're kind of stuck right now. The texting is a fail, cuz you miss out on at least half of what's being communicated. But there isn't much of an alternative.
I selected the first one cuz in order to write an opinion I must check one of the options, BUT actually, you must know ALL WOMEN are that way: you're single, they ignore you ; you're in couple, they chase you! This is the very definition of a woman!
You can still take her on a date we aren't on house arrest... Also just be direct and tell her that her actions are confusing you. She will either be unaware and change her behavior or know damn well what she's doing and keep spinning.
Just sounds flaky I wouldn't bother with her it's not going to change.
She could be either playing hard to get or she's playing games 🙄.
Make sense of this?
She is not the right woman.
NEXT QUESTION!
What's so difficult to understand about it? This has been going on since time began. It's about power.
I didn't vote but it is kind of like the song Habanera; the famous aria from the opera Carmen by Georges Bizet.
She's playing with you she is bored don't fall for it 😑
She is too juvenile to actually have a real relationship.
She knows you think about her all day, and she can use you to get what she wants. She also likes men jumping through hoops for her.
This guy... and I’m here getting left on read and me always reaching out, I don't know how tf ur supposed to get a girl to miss you and text you first. It would probably because my girls taken but I don't know what to do
None of the above. She's playing a mind game. Forget her. Move on.
I think you need to ghost her. She's just using you for attention.
Maybe she isn't interested or might be playing games. I don't know what's worse😂
Sounds like you guys playing hard to get with each other and it's going nowhere lol
Women typically like bad boys especially those that get their attention and don't make much time.
Either she is playing hard to get, or she likes the chase but not the ensuing relationship.