Should you do a favor for a girl that rejected you?

[Anonymous]

I got rejected by a girl I really liked and we were kind of friends before I confessed how I felt about her. I haven't talked to her really at all since then but she text me this morning saying " I know you hate me and I have no place to be asking you for favors but I need help moving some things this week or the next and was wondering if you could help me? " I told her I dont hate her and that I dont mind helping. Should I of said no? She really wasn't an about the rejection. She was very nice about the whole thing. Thats really the only reason I said sure was because she's a good person. If she was a bitch about rejecting me and stuff like that I wouldve definitely said no.

[jennifer_bloom]

I hated a guy from my old church because he did not want to give me a ride home from church after I rejected him but he was driving home another guy who lived a 1 minute drive from my house and was attending the same bible event as me. Like I shouldn’t be punished for refusing to offer sexual favours to a guy just because he gave me a ride home from church because I’m a child of God and not a a romantic object. You would be a jerk if you refused to be kind and civil and polite simply because she turned you down.

[Shivvy123]

I think maybe she chose you to ask the favour was more about reaching out to you with an olive branch. Sure could have easily asked anyone else but asking you this means you will both be busy while spending time together and so there won't be much awkwardness. I think she wants you as her friend and this is the perfect excuse to get that friendship back.

[nissan_dreaming85]

I believe in putting vood vibes in the world. But seriously ask yourself, are you doing it only on the merrit of her being a good person. Are you sure it's not because on the most basic level you are jumping at the first chance, or opportunity to maybe show her you are a good guy and hope she reconsiders your advance. If it's all about the good deeds, absolutely. Anything other than that you ate wasting time and energy my friend.

[disgustingweebtrash]

you can do it to be a friend but you also don't have to if you dont want to

[Brakesareoverrated]

Personally I wouldn't.
If I'm not good enough to fuck, then I'm not good enough to move things for her either.
Just my policy.