I am not rude, but the ‘nice guy’ does not live here any more. Women can solve their own problems, especially if the problem is a result of choosing an exciting bad boy.
Because " nice guys" only use being nice as a facade to get in your pants. Once they see that not working then they no longer see the point in being nice, thus they show their true colors.
Very well. There have been cases of black men shooting innocent people. By your logic, since there are cases, if I say "all black people are killers" must be true. We both know that is NOT true, but such is your logic. There are obviously cases of "nice" people that use it as a facade but, aside from the fact that then they wouldn't be actually nice in the first place but faking it, that does not make the rule for all "nice people". Each has their own problems and situations and their reasons, valid or not, to stop being nice at some point or for someone.
@Hawner That neither triggers nor offends me. Also, applying the same logic to a completely different situation isn't a good argument anyways. I personally treat every situation differently and accordingly.
Also, the term "nice guys" have it's own definition that directed towards treating a girl nice for the exact reason that I said in my original comment.
The type of people you're talking about are "good people" or to fit this discussion a "good guy".
It is the same situation. You are saying something is 100% true because there are some cases of it. I say that other thing is 100% true because there are some cases of it. Context is the same, intent is the same, validity is the same. The book has a different cover and title and the story is different, but the author is the same and so is the argument and moral. "Nice guy" and "good guy" is exactly the same. Both twittering a guy that behaves and treats people correctly and with respect.
@Hawer you're making big assumptions here, I suggest you to not do that.
The only thing that's the same in the either situation is the logic that your putting it in, which is exactly what I'm saying that you shouldn't do. I mean, dude. You're litteraly saying that even the validity is the same, of couse it is because of the logic that your applying to it🤦. The situation by themselves ARE NOT the same, which is what I'm telling you.
@Hawner also, I'm not saying that it's 100% true, I'm litteraly just stating my opnion like everyone else. If I didn't directly say I think what I said is 100% true the don't assume it.
You are the one that made the assumption AND applied that logic, not me. You assume that, because a couple use niceness as a facade, all do. That is you assumption and your logic. I just presented the exact same assumption and logic to you so you see how wrong it is. So I suggest YOU don't do that.
I guess next time I'll choose my wording more carefully, so people like you can't assume that my opnion doesn't count for every single situation🤦. And I thought I was a serious guy, goddamn dude.
No, I do not. You said "All nice guys use that as facade" and based that on a couple of cases. That is not half, not a quarter, not a tenth correct. An opinion is something that you think about something, not a statement that has to be truth because you say it.
@Hawner Stop Putting Words In My Mouth. Look at my original comment, look at it. I didn't use the word "All". You wanna know why you think I did? Because you ASSUMED IT.
That is what you said. I re-read everything from the beginning and you said that. NOT literally, and you are getting to get away using that, but that is indeed what you said.
Whatever, this conversation isn't worth it, you're just making something bigger than what it is. I have the feeling that I must've struck a chord in you to disagree with me when at the same time you agree🤦.
I never agreed with you, unless you count small details that count for nothing. On the main topic, I disagreed. Very well. Good luck then. I wish you well.
I changed my attitude and now get laid all the time. I was an ignorant naive idiot when I was younger, now I see how the 'game' is played. Play it well or GET PLAYED... Playa
Nice guys are usually unattractive and they think being nice will compensate for that. They get bitter and angry when they realize that ultimately it's only looks that matter, and that women don't like a guy just because he's nice.
Charisma is a bonus, sure, but good looks are the minimum requirement. I know so many women who date boring, even stupid men because of their looks. Even if the women themselves are intelligent or fun. In fact this is especially true of young women whose age group includes men who are also young, and thus still attractive. A woman in her 50s, however, is not going to have a lot of options since the men in her age group are mostly old and unattractive even if they were over good-looking in their youth.
Cuz many girls havd hurf the true nice guys so yes fhere mean cuz they havd a hard time believing that any girl is going to be nice to them an not just them for money
You're making me desperate, you really are. People don't bore me thier conversations (sometimes) do? Can you unblock. You're hurting me. If you don't wanna talk we can not. Just unblock? @anon1903 you really think you bore me? And that's why and even then I'm talking to you?
That’s who they are and them playing “Prince Charming” and STILL not getting the exact females they want really just sets them off.
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You are mistaken icels with real nice guys. These fake nice omly act nice until they get what they want but if you disagree with them or reject, they show your their face
this is not to be confused with guys who reject girls for thinking of them as a nice guy. The issue girls face is not being able to distinguish genuine kindness and fake kindness. Some guys really do just want to be friends with a girl.
when you put it that way, you can't really blame them huh... reminds me of Attachment Theory as another example of how we internalize behavioral strategies from a young age
Because you wouldn't be shocked if a mean guy was a cunt. So you can't complain about mean guys being cunts. But when you brand a type of people as niceguys you expect them to be nice guys and when they aren't you get surprised
Nice to see Brave browser catching on. :) Had it installed like a year ago. I probably saw it already but I likely wasn't in the same mindset seeing it as I am now. Damn it reads so different now.
Take a hike or something your creepy as hell this is quite literally turning into harassment your literally stalking everything I do go bother someone else
How did this question immediately just turn political don't you ever think of something other then trump? This is a normal question not even normal questions are safe from politics y'all need to grow up and focus on other things
Get over it I see people from both sides doing it. Ain't a big deal unless it triggers you for some reason or another. Brush it off and move on... You do you bruh
@TheEmperor oh get over yourself. Like I said no one is interested in you enough to stalk you. And no one is harassing your for having an opinion but hey that's the trump supporter mindset. They think everyone is out to get them. lmao. It's funny because you said you guys call us snowflakes. Besides I've only responded to you on two posts lmao. I guess you never get much attention so you think this is harassing.
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I am not rude, but the ‘nice guy’ does not live here any more.
Women can solve their own problems, especially if the problem is a result of choosing an exciting bad boy.
They're not. Or else they wouldn't be nice guys.
It's like scammers telling you, that they are your trustworthy bank and want to "secure" your account from theft.
That sounds like an oxymoron. If they are nice then generally they wouldn't be mean or rude.
Oh no no no. Not an oxymoron or an Orwellian language change at all. It's just as simple as "up" actually being down. Very logical really. :)
Because " nice guys" only use being nice as a facade to get in your pants. Once they see that not working then they no longer see the point in being nice, thus they show their true colors.
False. I can understand that there are several cases where that is correct, but that is not the norm.
@Hawner if you can understand several cases on where it's correct then it's not false.
You know I can apply that exact logic on something that will trigger and offend you even if we both know it is not true at all?
Think about it.
@Hawner If you can then go ahead, try it.
Very well.
There have been cases of black men shooting innocent people. By your logic, since there are cases, if I say "all black people are killers" must be true.
We both know that is NOT true, but such is your logic.
There are obviously cases of "nice" people that use it as a facade but, aside from the fact that then they wouldn't be actually nice in the first place but faking it, that does not make the rule for all "nice people". Each has their own problems and situations and their reasons, valid or not, to stop being nice at some point or for someone.
@Hawner That neither triggers nor offends me. Also, applying the same logic to a completely different situation isn't a good argument anyways. I personally treat every situation differently and accordingly.
Also, the term "nice guys" have it's own definition that directed towards treating a girl nice for the exact reason that I said in my original comment.
The type of people you're talking about are "good people" or to fit this discussion a "good guy".
It is the same situation. You are saying something is 100% true because there are some cases of it. I say that other thing is 100% true because there are some cases of it. Context is the same, intent is the same, validity is the same. The book has a different cover and title and the story is different, but the author is the same and so is the argument and moral.
"Nice guy" and "good guy" is exactly the same. Both twittering a guy that behaves and treats people correctly and with respect.
@Hawer you're making big assumptions here, I suggest you to not do that.
The only thing that's the same in the either situation is the logic that your putting it in, which is exactly what I'm saying that you shouldn't do.
I mean, dude. You're litteraly saying that even the validity is the same, of couse it is because of the logic that your applying to it🤦.
The situation by themselves ARE NOT the same, which is what I'm telling you.
@Hawner also, I'm not saying that it's 100% true, I'm litteraly just stating my opnion like everyone else. If I didn't directly say I think what I said is 100% true the don't assume it.
You are the one that made the assumption AND applied that logic, not me. You assume that, because a couple use niceness as a facade, all do. That is you assumption and your logic. I just presented the exact same assumption and logic to you so you see how wrong it is.
So I suggest YOU don't do that.
@Hawner I assumed nothing, I merely stated my opinion on a question. I seen cases of where my opinion is true just liked you said it yourself🤦
If my opnion is anything then it's half true, I'm pretty sure that's something we can agree on.
I guess next time I'll choose my wording more carefully, so people like you can't assume that my opnion doesn't count for every single situation🤦.
And I thought I was a serious guy, goddamn dude.
If only I used the word "sometimes". Then you wouldn't have had to reply.
No, I do not. You said "All nice guys use that as facade" and based that on a couple of cases. That is not half, not a quarter, not a tenth correct.
An opinion is something that you think about something, not a statement that has to be truth because you say it.
@Hawner
Stop
Putting
Words
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My
Mouth.
Look at my original comment, look at it. I didn't use the word "All". You wanna know why you think I did? Because you ASSUMED IT.
The wording you used was fine. What you wanted to say was not.
That is what you said. I re-read everything from the beginning and you said that. NOT literally, and you are getting to get away using that, but that is indeed what you said.
Whatever, this conversation isn't worth it, you're just making something bigger than what it is. I have the feeling that I must've struck a chord in you to disagree with me when at the same time you agree🤦.
I never agreed with you, unless you count small details that count for nothing. On the main topic, I disagreed.
Very well. Good luck then. I wish you well.
Rule #1, never be nice in the first place.
I changed my attitude and now get laid all the time. I was an ignorant naive idiot when I was younger, now I see how the 'game' is played. Play it well or GET PLAYED... Playa
Nice guys are usually unattractive and they think being nice will compensate for that. They get bitter and angry when they realize that ultimately it's only looks that matter, and that women don't like a guy just because he's nice.
You're really close but it's not mainly looks but fun/charisma. Women, particularly young and American ones, aren't attracted to boring guys.
Charisma is a bonus, sure, but good looks are the minimum requirement. I know so many women who date boring, even stupid men because of their looks. Even if the women themselves are intelligent or fun. In fact this is especially true of young women whose age group includes men who are also young, and thus still attractive. A woman in her 50s, however, is not going to have a lot of options since the men in her age group are mostly old and unattractive even if they were over good-looking in their youth.
Cuz many girls havd hurf the true nice guys so yes fhere mean cuz they havd a hard time believing that any girl is going to be nice to them an not just them for money
Simple answer :
You're making me desperate, you really are. People don't bore me thier conversations (sometimes) do? Can you unblock. You're hurting me. If you don't wanna talk we can not. Just unblock? @anon1903 you really think you bore me? And that's why and even then I'm talking to you?
Uhh dude are you a talker? Because you sound like one
@understand_bud
That’s who they are and them playing “Prince Charming” and STILL not getting the exact females they want really just sets them off.
You are mistaken icels with real nice guys. These fake nice omly act nice until they get what they want but if you disagree with them or reject, they show your their face
this is not to be confused with guys who reject girls for thinking of them as a nice guy. The issue girls face is not being able to distinguish genuine kindness and fake kindness. Some guys really do just want to be friends with a girl.
Because they're not really nice, they are only acting nice in the moment.
Cuz nice guys try to hard cuz they think it's like school or work.
In school / work / exercise you achieve results if you try hard
But if you try too hard for sex it creepy because you can't control what the girl wants or don't want
when you put it that way, you can't really blame them huh... reminds me of Attachment Theory as another example of how we internalize behavioral strategies from a young age
Yes attachment theory, good stuff...
If then he’s not really a nice guy. A nice person doesn’t tell you their a “nice person” they just are.
Because you wouldn't be shocked if a mean guy was a cunt. So you can't complain about mean guys being cunts. But when you brand a type of people as niceguys you expect them to be nice guys and when they aren't you get surprised
R/niceguys or the famous neckbeards? I don't know, i think they're consumed by loneliness or something. I kinda feel bad for them mostly
I don't know. Why is McDonald's the burger king? :)
huh...
which episode is that? I don't remember it at all but DAMN get em' Morty! :D
@errorgoodnameunfound S3E6 - Rest and Ricklaxation
@errorgoodnameunfound watch-online.xyz/.../
I'd either use Brave browser or a good firewall with that link; but it is still up on at least one of the tabs.
Nice to see Brave browser catching on. :) Had it installed like a year ago. I probably saw it already but I likely wasn't in the same mindset seeing it as I am now. Damn it reads so different now.
@errorgoodnameunfound Those all have so much replay value, lol
Because "nice guys" are not nice but incel fuckwits
Truth
I'm really about to be completely done with women they complain when men treat them like shit but it's completely valid when they do it to them.
it's bc no one likes trump supporters hahahahah.
Yeah yeah take your bullshit somewhere else I don't have time for you
I'm just stating facts but whatever bye
Take a hike or something your creepy as hell this is quite literally turning into harassment your literally stalking everything I do go bother someone else
Lol froyo truth 100%
How did this question immediately just turn political don't you ever think of something other then trump? This is a normal question not even normal questions are safe from politics y'all need to grow up and focus on other things
Get over it I see people from both sides doing it. Ain't a big deal unless it triggers you for some reason or another. Brush it off and move on... You do you bruh
I'm not triggered I really don't care I'm just saying nothing here is safe from politics like nothing
Meh don't matter really. Its what it is right now 🤷🏽♀️
I guess at least your not harassing me for having an opinion I appreciate that
@TheEmperor oh get over yourself. Like I said no one is interested in you enough to stalk you. And no one is harassing your for having an opinion but hey that's the trump supporter mindset. They think everyone is out to get them. lmao. It's funny because you said you guys call us snowflakes. Besides I've only responded to you on two posts lmao. I guess you never get much attention so you think this is harassing.
I dont think I'm as nice as I try to be a good person in general.