So this girl and I were getting close we had heaps of chemistry and we just clicked. She’d show signs of interest and always laugh at my jokes, touch me, play with her hair and I’d catch her staring from time to time. Once she’d run up to me and act all gitty. I think she’s a shy type as well.
Anyway she started to act weird and I don’t know if I threw her off somehow that I wasn’t interested. She’d stop talking to me as much and I’d ask her if everything was ok and she said yes but I wasn’t convinced. Few weeks went past and was still the same. It’s like she’d runaway from me but hide behind something and stare at me. Other time’s she’d blush when I talked to her, stutter her words. Another few weeks went past and she’d avoid me but try to get me jealous and try to get my attention. I just didn’t get it so I asked her if we were still friends and she ran off looking scared. I avoided her and thought it was rude her walking off like that. After a few days she got angry I was ignoring her and she started to chase me. She seemed upset so I talked to her again and she acted like she didn’t care but I knew she did that I was talking to her again. What’s with her behaviour I don’t know what she wants? Does she like me or hate me? I think she likes me but I don’t know.
Anyway she started to act weird and I don’t know if I threw her off somehow that I wasn’t interested. She’d stop talking to me as much and I’d ask her if everything was ok and she said yes but I wasn’t convinced. Few weeks went past and was still the same. It’s like she’d runaway from me but hide behind something and stare at me. Other time’s she’d blush when I talked to her, stutter her words. Another few weeks went past and she’d avoid me but try to get me jealous and try to get my attention. I just didn’t get it so I asked her if we were still friends and she ran off looking scared. I avoided her and thought it was rude her walking off like that. After a few days she got angry I was ignoring her and she started to chase me. She seemed upset so I talked to her again and she acted like she didn’t care but I knew she did that I was talking to her again. What’s with her behaviour I don’t know what she wants? Does she like me or hate me? I think she likes me but I don’t know.
What Girls Said
It's difficult to say for sure without knowing the specifics of the situation, but there could be a variety of reasons why this girl's behavior has been inconsistent. Some possibilities include:
1. Personal Issues: She may be dealing with personal issues or struggles that are affecting her mood and behavior, causing her to withdraw or act inconsistently.
2. Mixed Signals: She may be sending mixed signals unintentionally, which can create confusion and uncertainty in your interactions.
3. Fear of Commitment: She may have initially been interested but then became scared or hesitant about getting into a deeper relationship, leading her to pull back or avoid commitment.
4. Miscommunication: There may have been misunderstandings or miscommunication between the two of you that led to confusion or frustration.
5. Different Expectations: You both may have different expectations or desires regarding the relationship, leading to conflicts or misunderstandings.
In any case, clear and open communication is essential in navigating these kinds of situations. It's important to express your feelings and concerns honestly and listen to her perspective as well. However, if her behavior continues to be inconsistent or if she becomes angry or upset without clear reasons, it may be a sign that the relationship is not healthy or sustainable. In such cases, it's important to prioritize your own well-being and consider whether continuing the relationship is in your best interest.