Why do some think it's acceptable to be an Heightist?

[Petra150]

I'd just experience many women in her think it's fint to hate men for not being tall, and use every reason to tell everyone about it. Why do we accept it , and what make my gender hate men for things out of there hands, and why is it accepted that we act worse than Nazi criminal and glorify bavguy just in he's height, it really make me sick and embarrassed by my gender inhumanity

[nodnol32]

Its not acceptable. If they have preferences, thats fine but no need to shame a person for it. Also, if someone meets your requirements but is not as tall as you'd like, its worth giving up that preference and looking at the bigger picture. My girlfriend was able to give up that preference and is really happy with me.

[Petra150]

Sorry I don't accept preference as a reason to hate men who aren't tall, I will follow that person , as we fought Nazi criminals to the end of there life, I never will accept my girls dating tall guys EVER , and I hope hubby never will either, thoug he's not at all that Foss about it , he just doesn't seem to care, avarage height men always are cool and never complain

[nodnol32]

I never said its right to hate. I said ok one does have ideal preferences but one should not make a man feel guilty or make him feel ashamed about it. No one is perfect so one must be open about who they end up with since its less physical and more to do with personality.

[Petra150]

Preference is a very bad excuse to hate and thi k bad things, and those slits end up telling there kids the same, I'd gladly kill a woman if she open-hearted told s avarage height guy, that she hate him on the behalf of a talk guy. And its hating one if you get told the slut rather want a tall idiot instead, the result is just like racism nothing can excuse that at all. And those women should be buried alive

[nodnol32]

Like i said, one should focus more on personality. Compatibility is what makes relationships last. Not physical traits.

[MrTuxedo]

Height is something we're destined with, there's nothing you can do to change it, and therefore, should absolutely not be a subject of mockery or anything like it. People need to accept that there are people who are short, average and tall.

Short people didn't choose to be short, nor did average or tall people choose to be it.

[Petra150]

But for reasons no can explain tall guys are choosen by most girls who have a choise. If you out up ten men on a line same look and same education etc. You'll have 999/1000 girls choosing the tall guy on behalf of the others and even though they knew the other nine were welthy as bill gates, they still pick height as there favorite thing, it's so embrassing and I'm a shamed for my gender, but in my personal life it been easy to date them avarage and shorter guys, but it took me long to explain in not like the 95% of my gender who never look for personal quality in a guy but prefer height over everything else. Sad But still nice to the very few of us who chose after human quality in our partner

[MrTuxedo]

There is a reason, of course there is. Tall guys are often seen more masculine and protective rather than short guys, which is the reason why a girl would rather choose someone taller than shorter.

[Petra150]

well i'm not of them, and would rather bush those girls out in front of a car going fast, wnjoy all your preferences and hope your fine about this great openly injustice , I'm not , and i can't let it go !!!

[Petra150]

can't you see how comic it is when a tall pair come walking trough town, look like a fixed pair only tied together by an ivil old fashioned belive that height is somthin to be proud of, and the woman must be a cartoon doll, just to split up and piss in. I need to stop up and count to ten, for not making a scene when i see such a couple. ofcause some shorter girls might find a guy taler than her, as men in generel are taller, but seaking out guy to specific be taller then yourself, thats really sick and very unhuman, and somthing there's NO excuse for at all, a taller guy is absolutly not better in any way at all, but he might hurt you, and cheat on you, and for sure be more criminal in ALL ways not just by being much more ill tempered and typical insecure , and violent ass hell. The cheating on he's girl stuff , ofcause turn back on us women , as so many girls are NO BRAINERS who keep trowing there pants after guy just for being TALL. Society lies that tall men are better in all ways , ofcaused have fooled women with less intelligence too, and some even belive the lie about evolution , the tall hunter who were said to be a better partner, well truth might rather be tall men ar´te far mor and needed much more space, and used far more of the clan's resources. guess the truth is some were in between, but one thing is truth all the men NOT TALL pay the price for reptile mindset amoung my gender 10000 years later. So hope your conscience is fine but mine is not I am embarrassed on behalf of my gender and I can love enough so many men who are not tall I am still considered a crazy woman for it. Yes I just offer to clap in my hands of all the women who, day in and day out, love to ruin the lives of NOT TALL MEN, I JUST CANNOT

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Because people think they can hate someone for being different but expect people to accept everything about them. Noone is perfect EVERYONE has some type of flaw... Even those that think they don't...
And then those are also the very ones that kind find/be in a relationship and then wonder why 🤷🏼‍♀️

[Sawyerblu]

I don’t hate short men, but personally, I find height attractive. I would prefer to date a tall man over a short one. For me, I think it’s a dominance thing. I want him to be able to easily pick me up and throw me in a god-like manner.

[john23232323]

most of the tall guys i know can't lift a bag of tomatoes. I think girls just mistake height for strength

[Sawyerblu]

I’ve never had a guy not be able to pick me up. I’m also not talking about tall stickmen. I’m aware that height and strength are not the same thing lmao. But if I had to choose between tall and buff or short and buff it would be 10 times out of 10. I’m not attracted to stocky builds 🤷🏼‍♀️

[john23232323]

@Sawyerblu depends on what you consider as short... some women see 5'8 guys as short. For me short guys are under 5'6

[Petra150]

@john23232323 excatly I'd never met an attractive tall guy, my hubby lifts me and I'm 25 cm TALLER than him , so I'd wonder where other girls get the wrong thoughts about tall men. After all it's wrong to think like they do, and I'll never accepted my fellow sisters horrible thoughts , and I wonder why they thi k so , if I did I'll be so embrassing about it. Would you say you the same if it was a black guy or a yellow fitt , knowing racism is not allowed

[Sawyerblu]

I’ve dated black men and Asian men, tall of each. I do not have a preference on skin color, eye color, hair color, etc, just height and body type. Like I said, it’s just a preference.

[Petra150]

But you cut men Not tall out of you life, what do you do when friends are around, as I guess a NOT guy must feel horrible in your present , when you tell him he's so ugly just for being NOT tall that you never will date him. Personally I'll never be in company with men who wouldn't accept my great height, knowing there opinion about me are created because women like you hate them and find them less as a man, so indirectly women with your mindset make men hate talk women like me too. You should feel bad , eventhoug I do think knowing your opinion is fine and perhaps we even could agree on something. But to value a guy on his height is to me a total cut of, I simply can't accept it, and I really really do get hurt when a guy tell me I'm too talky, but when we get to talk they typically don't hate me at all, but are scared that I hate them for not being tall. And ofcauce as a grown up woman who think normal , can't be a racist hating people for my own insecurity

[Sawyerblu]

What? 😂 I’m not sure if you’re trolling. I do not hate any men. I have a preference for tall men. Not to say that I don’t date short men as well. I’m not valuing a man on his height 😂 I literally just said height is attractive to me in the same way that some men find shirt girls attractive and others find tall ones attractive. You’re making this too dramatic to be honest. Let people have their own preferences and don’t get offended when they aren’t the same as yours.

[Sawyerblu]

Short**

[Petra150]

Well my little friend , yes I respect you for not just stop replying me, and I shouldn't be so hard on you, just to be honest I'd never heard my hubby complained about women told him he were too short, and he's just AVARAGE height 181 cm tall. But I feel on Gard all the time , if anybody even try to be rude to him, as we get the look all the time, and people think he's Too short for me. So I guess we just agree on not agreeing, and I'd respect you after all, just try to give my words a thought , as 80% of all men should feel hurt and bad , when women in general open hearted claim there love for guy mainly due to height. Try to think how they feel , I can see the sadness in nens eyes , being judged on things they never can become.. tall.

[Petra150]

And no I'm not trilling, and i hoped I never had to write about this issue, but again and again Heightism shows its horrible face.. what are your thoughts about Heightism. Do you think it's acceptable and fair? Do you accept being judge on phycical features out of your hands to change

[john23232323]

@petra150 181 cm is above average. And i haven't seen that many women that are heightist

[Sawyerblu]

It would be very naive to ask that nobody judge others based on their physical attributes. You do it whether or not you even realize it. By saying you’ve found no tall men attractive, isn’t that just as bad? Those tall men can never get shorter either. Also 181 is definitely above average.

[Petra150]

No reason at all to ever feel sorry for tall guys they are all wife abuser and violent and hysteric, men with rotten attitude and s horrible look and even worse personality. I'm 45 years old and from s very tall family from Holland. And the tall men in my family including my biological father and s lot of scumbag cousins, are all wate of life, and practical a total waste of time to be around. So I'd never approached a tall guy, and never will... now you might think being my height 6'8 I'd might should think guys 6'3-6'10 will suit me well... I'd ever been even a bit attracted to them. And I don't need to feel sorry for them at all. As being s tall guy give so many undeserved advantage , hard to understand. But again I respect you , and should be happy some choose to settle with a tall guy, great that they are keept away from the street , so they don't create trouble meanwhile girls like you keep them occupied

[Sawyerblu]

Maybe it’s different in Holland but I’ve never experienced anything like what you are saying. Seems like you’ve met some not so nice guys, but that’s no reason to be a heightist yourself. Hating men because they are tall is no better than if they are short. To be honest I’ve met more mean short guys than mean tall guys. I’m sorry that you’ve had this experience but claiming that all tall men are horrible after your experience with few is a bit closeminded

[Petra150]

To get into a great trustfull talk with you is nice hope we could do this on message if I'd follow you. Guess we're not that different at all

[AmandaYVR]

Here, here, girl! You tell 'em.
I'm right there with you.
It's shallow af. (Especially for very short girls to demand 6'+.) Height is relative.

[Marco10]

Some people can’t see beyond your physical attributes. It’s their shortcomings not that of the short man.

[john23232323]

I can't even understand why does height matter? There are no benefits to being tall and also the average man is 5 inches taller than the average woman anyway.

[Petra150]

It sad to admit my gender in general aren't that bright, and use there reptile mind set when choosing a guy. Height.. height... and height... it explain why our divorce rate just continue to raise, as 75% of all divorce are due to women choosing the wrong partner usally almost all of my fellow sisters regret there relationship with a tall guy. Tall guys seems to have a much higher divorce rate , due to there wife's simply get mature and found out what a quality partner is and usually a tall guy have very little to bring to a relationship at the end of the day, those women rather buy a latter if reaching the top selfs seems to be there main thing for choosing a partner

[Rucket21]

Its just how it is sadly. at least you and I are not shallow when it comes to height. The person is more important than the height.

[Anonymous]

Most women don't "hate" short men, but they certainly discriminately against them in the dating world. And then they call men shallow. lol

[Petra150]

Well a girl who wouldn't date you for you height MUST hate you, wouldn't you hate someone who press you into a corner and open-hearted tell you what ever you do , you'll never become her preference as you can't become taller. You might have your type who's thick or redhead or big boobs , all things that type could alter if they still want you as a partner, but you can't by no way alter your height. And usally you guys don't value a woman on there physical features, while sadly most of my gender do , and in 99% of all cases height use to be the determine factor, pretty cowardly and repulsive. Istvgard to understand why your guys keep on accepting it as JUST an preference. Would you accep a person who walk around shooting people for fun, as JUST as PREFERENCE, that's infact what you guy accept while being rather on your height, those girls should be shamed as hell and published on every social media or treated just like witches in the old days. There's no excuse for not doing so.. just get started

[Opinion Owner]

You are obviously a man, and a short one no doubt. lmao

[Petra150]

Some of us women can think , and be human too don't forget that. You don't need to be a short guy to think strait and have compassion for other people. But to have suspicions that you have about other people , so you definitely must be a tall insecure guy

[Opinion Owner]

You are sooooooooooo not woman. Come on dude, have a little fucking respect for yourself.

[Petra150]

It's against my way to block anybody, but your tempting me to do so. It's fair to admit you can't come up with any bright answer , but to jump to a stupid and rude answer is pathetic, I'd been called a guy somtimes or rather a trans, that hurt everytime, but if I ever should be called anything else than what I am , I'm a little proud after all I'm called a short guy, after all the most acceptable version of a guy in most opinion