You should be really worry. She doesn't respect your personal belongings. She digs around trying to find dirt on you. Sooner or later she will find reasons to break up with you. It seems like she don't trust you well enough or she maybe that clingy/jealousy type. For the record, I cannot have a relationship with some girl who treat me like a suspect. You have to make boundaries.
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typically and when I say that meaning ALWAYS ! jealous people have something more to hide, that's why thet know all the good places to look for things, be very skepical of that one... she maybe a cheater ! seriously , been true from my experiances seems like I attract cheaters for some fukd up reason
Yes, this is completely unacceptable and a huge red flag. She sounds incredibly insecure, mistrusting, controlling, and she is invading your privacy. If I were you, I would end things now. This is not normal behavior and is certainly not healthy behavior for a relationship.
obviously there is no trust. NEVER let a girl go through your stuff like that unless she has a good solid reason to not trust you to lead her to think that she can do that
Red flag! Not good she has paranoia/ trust issues. You don't need that baggage.
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Oh my.
Eh, it's absolutely not normal, and in case it's worth the effort, the only thing you can do in this case is clearly tell her what she is doing is wrong and if she continues then you'll leave asap.
At least that's how I see it - I mean, would you stay with someone THIS possessive and controlling? Doubt it.For God's Sake Get Out!
If she's doing this after just two months imagine what it would be like in the future.
In the meantime put a password on you computer, and if she wants to use it, make her a non-admin account.Huge red flag! She does not trust you! No normal girl does that!
Lack of trust is a big red flag. She has issues.
Big red flag, watch out.
Red flag! She's just REALLY protective.
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