One if my bad troubles with girls is reading her signals 😵. Its like I have to pass all of her signals and talk to her the right way she wants us to talk to them then make actions on them then make the moves 😵 then there texting rules on talking to them. It like getting a girlfriend is a LONG process and feels impossible 😵 no wonder I've been getting rejected so early and quickly because of my failed tests they did on me 😵. No wonder they're so picky on the guys when there shopping on us. It's like I might as well buy a book on "how to get into a girls head without breaking her" like most men do 😤. I mean I like using emojis and I like being myself all 100%. I mean there's so many process they put us through.
The signals tests
The flirt tests
The texting test
The asshole tests
The shit tests which I failed that!
The 🍆 test which I failed a couple times 🙄
The sex test
The man tests
The alpha tests
The beta male tests
And all other infinite tests 😵
It's like The those tests there's only a passed and failed. It's like now if I failed her tests which means it's either a automatic break up or divorce now 😟. Probably what I said it probably doesn't make sense but I being opened about it.
Whoa, slow down. You're reading too far into it. There really aren't that many hoops to jump through.
According to multiple scientific studies women will make up their mind in about three minutes of meeting them if they want to know him more. That's the average time you have. Compare that to a guys average of 30 seconds.
Now add about 15 seconds for women to decide if a guy is attractive compared to a guy 7 seconds.
All these studies just point out that women operate slower. They take their time by going the scenic route instead of the express route like guys do.
The only real test women have is, "are you different from the others?"
Think about it for a second. Nearly every woman out there is being hit up by some guy who is trying to get in her the sack. The more attractive or outgoing she is, the more she has put up with it. Pretty much since she was in middle school. Possibly earlier than that.
So her filter is finely tuned. So, how do you make it past the filter?
First, by knowing yourself. Who are you and what makes you different? What do you offer in a relationship? Tough questions to answer. You have to dig deep. The answers aren't going to ground shaking. So don't look for them.
Then just talk. Women seem different because they process information differently. In general they are more socially adept than men. But, it's really not that hard when you can show them through a conversation what you can offer them. If it's what they are looking for, you pass the "test."
Just don't try to impress by listing your "trophies" like every other guy. Fancy job, money, car, house, all that stuff a lot of guys list in hopes of impressing her. She's heard it all before.
Be different. Be interesting. Be authentic by knowing who you are. You won't have to jump through hoops.
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