If you don't want men to give you attention, you shouldn't go out dressed in revealing clothing.
what if most men don't find said "revealing" clothes sexual at all, and if you don't dress like that you're going to be judged by people and can't dress in the way you want? i'm not going to dress like shit and be like considered 'lame' by everyone just bc some idiots says some gross thing to me at times. the benefits outwayt the cons
besides they're the problem, they should how to behave and control themselves like most men
Hey, no offense. I'm a man and feel out of place saying this, but don't apologize saying "I'm not a feminist". My opinion is worth what it's worth to you, though. You say what you want to and if they think your a feminist so be it. Feminists are not bad people.
Excuse the typos I don't care to fix em✨
The ignorance is supreme with this one.
I get that you're under 18, but im slightly confused here. 8/9 of your examples referenced compared being whistled at to a physical disturbance. Do you honestly think being whistled at and murdered are equal grievances?
@NoblesseObligeKK no that's not what she was saying. it wasn't comparing whistling to the crime, it was the situation she was comparing it too (people literally living their lives normally and bad things happen because of it)
@bellybuttonlint you're a whole MAN telling a whole WOMAN she's ignorant on women's clothing... huh?
@___nik that seems like a bit of a stretch to me, but she's under 18; so, I won't pursue it further.
@bellybuttonlint it sure is :D
@NoblesseObligeKK You misunderstood my examples and yes I'm 17 a child that can't comprehend anything let alone count to 4. Sometimes I have trouble walking or standing. My mom still feeds me food because I barely have any muscle in me.I'm not comparing the situations with themselves. I'm just doing what the dude did but with different thing that seem more simple and something an unintelligent conservative misogynist would understand. Since they have a hard time with mundane concepts like consent and women lmao.
@NoblesseObligeKK hahahah honestly of you're over 18 and don't understand this concept then you're not worth anyone's time or effort. Go back to playing games Nigel
I've been slapped on my ass by women i didn't even knew, stop acting like withtling is the worst case scenario, girls push their marks more often than men, the difference is, men take it as a joke and dont get butthurted like women do @Opinion Owner
Best answer so far.
@AFellowWeeb okay so you've been sexually assaulted and don't wanna admit it. It's okay dude. You're not alone in this.
@MountAverage I kno lol
I like how u acted like ''no big deal'' cause im a guy.Nice double standards, typical feminist
@AFellowWeeb hahahhag yeah typical me🤪
You're such a pussy allways on anon
@AFellowWeeb you are what you eat
Waow that last comment was sooo original, my God
@potatoechip29 ji I'm proud of it too lmao
@NoblesseObligeKK she made the analigy because you guys blame the victim. So yes, in both cases the victim is blamed. The point is being whistled is not her fault just because she shows some skin.
@bellybuttonlint enlighten us
Well said. I will never understand how some people don't comprehend this. I love how some guys will say "well I had a girl whistle at me and slap my ass and I didn't complain." As if that somehow makes what was done to him ok or because he didn't mind women shouldn't mind. Basically thier way of saying "oh well it doesn't bother me so when I grope you it's ok." What the fuck is this logic.
@Alpha09 I think it's because guys generally don't see women as a potential threat. They never had to grow up with that fear so they don't understand that any guy has the potential to look or seem dangerous
Makes a lot of sense when you put it that way.
You sir gained a new follower
☝ this right here sir, deserves a medal
and i add even more: for all the women that say they put themselves pretty just for themselves, then why do you go for a messy bun, wash your makeup, take off your push up bra, once you arrived at home?
You sure are a bunch of idiots
@Bandita and you shouldn't be on a blue account
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It's why you see girls on the Internet with their tits hanging out and half naked who then complain if someone makes a sexual comment. They protest to make themselves feel more "irresistible."
Bingo! It's so obvious really, because their behaviour, and what motivates that behaviour, is just so damned transparent. Yet we have females in the comments section here denying it, and saying stupid things like, "Oh no, we dress this way to feel good about ourselves. Yeah, that's it, we don't want to be noticed at all, because that's harassment". Pffft! What utter tosh!
If u dress as a hooker what u expect their cheap 🤔🤔
Yikes, this makes me think you didn't read my comment. I literally wrote it depends on how revealing their clothing is.
Actually when u said nobody wants to be considered cheap trust me plenty out there do , 💯
@TraceyByrd Spitting facts once again! Very well said! What you portray out to the world is what you will attract
I feel like you're floating away from my original response whcih was about how I said it depends on how revealing their clothing is. Now it's suddenly about a whole other paragraph in my comment, but okay let's slide with it.So: It sounds more like this is coming from a place of extreme subjective opinion, but alright. I do not think that anyone in their right mind wants to be considered cheap. We all want to be valued. Sure, some people dress and act in a very sexual manner, but most times that's because they've learned that, that's how they get validation. And why do they want that validation? Well, because they want to feel valued, aka not cheap as human beings.
@Jonn123 Of course the degree of the clothing determines the rate of unwanted attention. The sluttier a woman dresses, the more she will attract that sort of attention. What Tracey is trying to say is that there are women out there who want to be looked at as "cheap" and in this case, she means as a sexual object. Because for women, knowing they are perceived as 'fuckable' and 'hot' is a huge boost to their self-esteem. And this is a very easy way to boost that self-esteem, by advertising your assets. Hence why slutty girls have no issues dressing as such and platforms like OnlyFans are booming.
@Truth Ihave said it better u juss bombed it exactly 💯
I couldn't have said it better myself u juss bombed it exactly 💯🔥
I swear so many incels crying over not having the right to harrass a girl
perhaps they should all join mgtow and leave us all alone 💀
@AmourHoney or better yet, r/incels 💀💀
even better 😌
Thank you all and I followed you all. Be careful with the incels here. They have the habbit to attack/spam you.
@TerminallyChill and it doesn’t even bother me
Nah. I was just making a shitty joke. I try not to pointlessly add to the suffering of people
I agree but I still feel like self consciously you see it as cute because men do. For example I feel men don’t really necessarily like nice cars, clothes, or jewelry but we know women do and pussy makes the world go around.
@KyceG Your comment really highlights to me how fucked up human psychology and patholgy is. We can't just exist, everything is mind games.
@KyceG well no. Quite frankly I don’t care what men think. Their opinion doesn’t matter me. I love long fake nails and long eyelash extensions which most men hate because it looks so unnatural but I love it because I think it’s cute.
@KyceG no, we do it because we like ourselves and want to dress in a way that makes us feel confident. not for male approval. why do you think femme lesbians exist.
@___nik How do you feel about the fact that all that "sexy" clothing was designed by the patriarchy to objectify the female body though? As fucked as it sounds, in the end men still win.
Well maybe "win" is a poor choice of word
Hundreds of years ago they did not have long nails and all that other stuff it’s apart of our culture now and seen as sexy, and quite frankly fem lesbians are attracted to it too it only makes sense a woman attracted to other women would be turned on seeing another woman in less clothing.
@KyceG it’s apart of black culture and I am black. I love it. I think it’s cute. I do stuff for me. Not for some man. I pull men while wearing sweat pant and a hoodie. I don’t need to dress sexy to get male attention sweetie.
@Pink2000 Pay no mind. They complain when we dress sexy and they complain when we cover up. Do what you want, and don't give the ones who justify shitty behavior because of what your wearing the time of day.
They usually do it to try and bring you down to thier level either because they want you as insecure as they are, or they know they can't get in your pants otherwise.
Alpha09 👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻
@Alpha09 why would I complain seeing a woman wearing less clothes I’m not gay? I’m not trying to bring anyone down y’all are probably beautiful ladies. I’m just saying if y’all wear less clothes you know a man is attracted to regardless of the reason you claim to wear it then don’t complain when a man respectfully approaches y’all to talk to y’all because he is attracted to it. You know what it is. There is nothing wrong with a guy coming on to you or complimenting y’all it’s human nature we like females and pussy. All that feminist shit is bullshit. As men we are hunters, women are the prey. If y’all hate men so much then go eat pussy the rest of y’all’s lives. Have a good day.
@KyceG You sound awfully pressed for someone I wasn't addressing.
@Alpha09 you addressed her comment that was addressing me saying not to pay us attention etc etc.. so I was just saying. I’m not pressed I’m trying to educate y’all men haters out there. It’s not your fault though it’s society’s you don’t know any better.
@KyceG Well since your set on assuming how everyone thinks, I'll address some of your other assumptions and educate you. You assume we are referring to men who respectfully approach us, which for most women is ok. It's the gropey entitled wastes of air that I'm talking about. Just because I'm in a sexy dress at a club, which is a perfectly appropriate place doesn't give someone the right to act like an animal. Dogs and 4 year olds know what no means so why don't some men? Or whoever. My point is don't be surprised if the "prey" punches you in the throat because your definition of hunting is being an entitled fool. By my comment about complaining in regards to covering up, there are people especially men who make comments like "oh she's so uptight, I know she's got a hot body under all that." Just look at Billie Eilish, the commentary is nothing new. However if there where truly no good men I absolutely would just eat pussy. But sexy, mature and secure men who don't whine or assume are to good to pass up.
@Alpha09 your assuming I feel entitled. I can take no for an answer. Like little Baby said “If she won't fuck, I won't make her”. I feel like your one of them girls that wear skimpy ass dresses in clubs and stand by yourself then when a guy respectfully approaches you your like “eww no gross, go away” lol. by the way if I came up to you in a club and told you you were beautiful that you had pretty eyes could I get your number and left it at that then you throat punched me I would molly wop your ass lol. I know what no means! I get your point though I guess.
@TerminallyChill while it's true that sexy clothing can lead to objectification from men, it's not true that women wear sexy clothing *specifically* for that objectification. and not all sexy clothing is designed by men and for men, that would be insane.
@___nik No, I know that, I'm not a chauvinist troglodyte. I'm asking more about the paradoxical nature of the fact that these clothes are supposed to be liberating to women while they also perpetuate the female objectification of the patriarchy. Isn't this like internalized patriarchal behavior or some shit along those lines?
@KyceG What possible positive emotion or insight could you get from beating on chicks? That's coward shit.
@___nik And obviously not all sexy clothing TODAY is made by men, but the predecessors of whatever is being made today was thought up and designed by men is what I'm saying.
@KyceG I love how you chose the only two things you might be able to criticize and left the rest.😂 I have clearly stated that it's the ones who are gropey and entitled wastes of air whom I'm referring to. A lot of them have said things like "ooh I chase women" or use that same "hunter" "prey" metaphor. I said don't be surprised IF the "prey" punches you in the throat because." implying IF you get punched because you hold an entitled mindset don't be surprised. Which isn't necessary saying YOU hold the mindset, however the more you speak the more you sound like you genuinely believe in the metaphor. Though I don't know if you're just repeating what you have heard because you think the statement sounds cool, or you are just predatory when it comes to women and your trying to sound reasonable. Your little attempt at making up a scenario that I have specifically stated is not my way of doing things, could make one think you may have a habit of projecting. Simply because your scenario is ridiculous, and only someone who shouldn't be in public goes around punching people just because they asked for a number lol. Anyone can ask, it's just how you ask and wether you accept the answer in a civilized fashion. If your nice to me I'm nice to you, it's not a hard concept. @TerminallyChill Though a pathetic argument to my point on his part, aside from all that if someone physically attacks you for no reason you have every right to defend yourself. However i wouldn't recommend hurting them more than they did you whoever they are, you would be better off subduing them if possible.
@Alpha09 It's about perspective I guess, I'm 6''2" 215, even in a girl was my same exact size I'm still like twice as strong as her. What the hell do I look like putting hands on a chick?
@TerminallyChill I absolutely understand your point. Mine was you shouldn't take abuse regardless. If that means subduing her in some way like holding her arms down, whatever I think that's reasonable if someone much smaller attacks you. Though a scenario that she has a knife or something that could potentially kill you I'd say you have every right to throw a punch. Not standing up for yourself because someone is female doesn't help anybody. I just wouldn't recommend throwing the first punch, simply because nobody should if there isn't a physical threat to begin with.
@TerminallyChill I’m 6’2 and 195lbs. I would not normally hit a woman or support that, but if I’m out and about and a girl punches me in my throat I’m probably going to slap the shit out of her. I’m no ones punching bag. I’m not going to be disrespected like that by anyone man, or woman. Idc if they are blind crippled or crazy. You don’t have to agree, I did not ask for your approval.
@KyceG if you don't care then don't reply then wtf
@Alpha09 I get your point. Its just now days I feel like men can not win no matter how hard we try. I always see women trying to put down men and it bothers me. I just know that regardless of why women choose certain clothing if it’s less clothing it has to be known that it’s going to create sexual appeal to the opposite gender. We already agreed though that it was fine to approach women if done respectfully. I just don’t understand why women don’t appreciate a good man now days and bash us about literally everything. I don't know I don’t get it.
@TerminallyChill you literally tagged me first like 5x dodo bird llf
@KyceG I tagged you once and I'm saying if my approval is insignificant to you, then I'm sure my commentary is. Just ignore it
@KyceG I understand where you're coming from in terms of men just being bashed for no reason, by women who refuse to check them selves. Absolutely. In no way was I trying to say women are somehow perfect or without fault. Yes of course wearing a sexy dress is going to attract attention, good and bad. I have nothing against positive attention. That's a given and completely normal, my only point was that the negative disrespectful kind should never be put up with. I don't care if your a man or woman. Girls cross lines to, they just tend to be less aggressive about it and quite frankly less violent if they don't get what they want. Not to say a female has never become threatening in some instance, but it's not exactly common. at least in my experience, it could be different for others. I've heard and been apart of conversations with women on occasion who for whatever reason find fault in the guys they are with or know, and put them down without ever looking at themselves. And I wonder if they ever think "hey what's wrong with me." I'm sure I've been guilty of thinking this way at some point, but I've always tried to think in reasonable terms because if you don't, things become toxic and you most definitely won't get a long with the opposite sex. In my opinion and for most of my experience, men are great. I like masculine energy, I like the company of men and my time around them has been for the most part positive. I just refuse to take bullshit, and the justifications from the ones who can't keep thier hands to themselves for that bullshit, from anyone.
@Alpha09 I understand where your coming from, I’m glad you see why I was so defensive or how I feel as well.
@KyceG it's a cycle that will only change for the better, if both men and women work together and respect each other. Otherwise we won't get anywhere 🤷
It sure is an approach I don't take and never have. At the same time, the world is full of mad people. SO if you dress like a slut, then be ready to attract unwanted attention. It is OUR responsibility to lower the odds of these things happening. So I should walk in a ghetto with a Rolex and then say it's on the dude who mugged me? Doesn't stop the fact there are muggers out there. I can't do shit about that, so the best thing to do is not standing out to lessen the odds of getting mugged. Same thing goes for women and getting catcalled. I've noticed that it's mostly women who wear revealing clothes who are complaining about this. I know plenty of well-dressed and well-mannered women who don't complain as often.
You kinda do have a point. But we should be aiming to be able to teach everyone not to catcall so that no man or woman has to worry about wearing any kind of clothes.And yes I agree wearing less revealing clothes will lessen the chances but I've still seen guys catcalling girls who were wearing simple hoodies and jeans. Catcallers, a lot of then will do it irrespective of the clothes.
Cat calling is indeed pathetic and ill-mannered. Hence why my parents have raised me well not to do it. And yeah women will get unwanted attention regardless of what they wear. This is the burden of being born a female. But as you've pointed out, it's better to lessen the odds as much as possible. I'll give an extreme comparison. Who do you think is getting more unwanted attention in this regard, a Muslim woman wearing a hijab or a 'Stacy' popping out her tits and wearing a miniskirt?at least you're getting my point, which many of them do, but their egos are keeping them for admitting it.
Yeah I do agree with that. It's a sad reality but it's what we live in.
You're assuming harassment is linear and a woman's reactions are justified. I've had women get mad at me just for looking at them - only for a few seconds and not anywhere inappropriate (I looked at their face). If I gawked for too long, whistle, or something else, I understand that, but you dress differently, people will look - regardless if it's a woman or man. Modern day millennial morons are taking this whole "my choice" ideal too far without a a sense of realism. Although, if a woman gets mad even if the guy doesn't do anything really inappropriate, it's usually because she has a boyfriend already, yet she gets mad when guys look by wearing a revealing dress? SMH
@Inbox Exactly. Gotta love how they lack accountability when they are provoking these behaviors even more. It's like putting candy infront of a child and get mad at the child when they eat it, even though the child knows they aren't allowed to eat it.
You don't feel bad if a girls boyfriend is checking you out in front of her?
@Cupcakes_No_Flakes i can't control men... plus i didn't say i'd talk to them they're just looking
@chrissykerdock Good to see a woman is genuine with her answers. You got so many pink comments denying what we all already know.
@TruthBringer not every girl will get looks and whistles if she wore a mini skirt... that's what a lot of the negative comments come in or the thumbs down
Agreed. Is like if i choose to do outside wearing spandex and a high V beck, ofc people will notice it.
The problem is that clothing has no device to adjust to make it just for a *specific* man. If it did, life would be a lot better. I might invent such a device and become a trillionaire. If it could also read a woman's mind and determine who she wants to impress and no setting was required, I would become a billionaire! In the interim, there are always James Bond-type long trenchcoats and sunglasses I guess to wear on the way there.
Surely you understand that you'd get attention from multiple types of men, not JUST the ones you wnat it from, no?
It's refreshing to hear such honesty.
@ThisDudeHere think about this situation, a man dresses fashionably to impress a woman. do women on the street whistle when they see a fashionable man? no, they don't. so why do men feel the need to even do that?
@__nik uh yeah they do. I've had girls wolf whistle and call out stuff to me in the street before.
@msc545 exactly. If you open your front door and wave at entire the neighborhood to come in than realize there is no such thing as an “uninvited” guest
Lol at guys trying to compare waving to an entire neighbourhood to wearing something nice for one person. The ignorance is incredible! An act of waving to every person is completely different to dressing up for one man. Are they’d stupidly trying to say women can no longer dress up for a date with a guy because they all assume it’s for them? SMH! The world has gone mad!! 😂 Imagine your boyfriends response to that? Maybe they’d change their tune then. Lol. Only fools make excuses, it’s like these guys are against using a bit of a brain sometimes. I know I sound harsh but honestly, what do people expect when they try to blame others for their own actions they refuse to take responsibility for. It’s like “oh, I could never consider the fact that it’s not for me!” 🙄 ridiculous! Narcissism springing to mind?
@Tyrael ok but it doesn't happen as often as catcalling. you don't speak for all men.
@___nik right, and you can't speak for all women. So here we are.
@NorthShoreCalling it’s one thing to calling out guys who catcall or worse. But I can seriously count the times on one hand I’ve seen a guy cross the line on this in public. 99% of the time it’s just guys staring for an extra second and approaching a girl (the latter is what we are supposed to do since we are expected to be “confident”). But what you are saying is that you want dress provocatively and ONLY have guys you are interested in notice you and look you up? That’s not happening. Many guys will notice and look you upwhether you like it or not. Guys will approach whether you like it or not. Does this cause many uncomfortable situations? Yes. But how the hell can you expect otherwise other the making all men magically mind readers? And trust me if I God gave me the ability to read women’s minds I would absolutely love that. That would make my dating life a 1000 times easier. I could confidently approach any women who thinks I’m attractive while not wasting even a second on the ones I don’t. I would never have to risk looking like a “creep” again. But that magical power doesn’t exist. Most of us have zero idea if you are taken or not (unless your boyfriend is right next to you or your wearing a wedding ring). Most of us will have no idea if your having a bad day or not. Last but not least most of us will have no idea if you like us or not. It’s up to us to approach and take that risk. And we do NOT enjoy it. Contrary to popular widespread myth most men don’t enjoy sticking their necks out. So if you dress like you want to get attention it’s coming. Unless the guy does something explicitly rude (catcall or making explicit sexual comments with no context) just give him the respect. Politely tell him you respect his confidence but you are not interested. If he persists THEN you can get bitchy.
Exactly what I was saying in my comment. You nailed it!
As you can see only men so far have upvoted your comment while all the women have downvoted your comment. You know why? Because that is not how we feel at all.
It's like admitting that is a sin. It's just how our culture is.
@Virgo31 So if that's your logic then how about people upvoting it on youtube? I mean look at the ratio.
@Virgo31 Maybe majority of people have humor
@Virgo31 right !!!
@Aiko_E_Lara YouTube has a algorithm, the more videos like this you watch the more it will suggest them to you. These videos were placed on people's feeds who have similar views to the videos meaning of course the likes will be higher than the dislikes because YouTube is giving them what they want. And unlike on YouTube where you can't tell the difference between male and female up votes and downvotes, on GAG you can tell the difference. Which obviously is that women do not agree with this video because it isn't how we feel.
@Virgo31 Why did she not like Conan looking? She obviously dressed like that to get looks.
JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN PUTS ON A OUTFIT DOES NOT MEAN SHE WANTS PEOPLE STARING AT HER. I'm sorry, but a lot of girls do not like being cat called or whistled at. It's disrespectful, creepy, and disturbing. A women is allowed to wear whatever she wants, she does not need to be judged by her outfit. If men (or women) can't control their urges to be a creep then that is not the women's fault. That person needs to be more disciplined and learn to freaking control themselves.
@Virgo31 He never cat called, he just looked at what she put on display. You know she dressed like that to get looks.
@Virgo31 Why do you think people like it in the first place and do you think youtube is only made for men? That video is not even dislike heavily but it's like a 5% of the ratio. Also you think there is no such thing as a highly disliked video in youtube? I can give you examples such as the buzzfeed feminist, Friday rebecca black, some of logan paul's videos and more. So why do you think? If you receive majority of people are wrong then maybe you are the problem because we live in a society and people made society which are living in today. But ironically there are still people who like to present something that is found at the very last page of google where people barely brainstorms about it.
One why would I know that she is wearing it to grab attention? She CLEARLY doesn't like him looking and therefore he is being a creep, you justifying his behavior is absolutely disgusting. This is why some rapists walk free because they use the "she was wearing revealing clothing so she must have wanted it" excuse. No she is just wearing clothes she feels comfortable in plus she's going on tv of course she is going to dress up all fancy, that does not make her any less of the woman she would be if she wore a shirt and sweatpants to the show. You should not assume what a woman wants based off her clothes. If she tells you to leave her alone, leave her alone. Cat calling and whistles are creepy and disturbing. It can put women in position to feel like they aren't safe anymore and it doesn't matter if someone attractive does it or not because it's still creepy. If men can't control their urges then they need to be disciplined. Second, I know there are highly disliked videos like that weird YouTube Rewind thing, I never said that YouTube is only for men. If you read carefully, I said that you can't tell by gender who up votes and downvoted on YouTube so you can't make a assumption on there unlike Gag where you can clearly see women do not agree with this video contrast to men who aka (are not women)
@Virgo31 Also we have eyes. Is it our fault? I know it doesn't mean stock her or cat call her but we still have the urge to look at her body. But according to you, it's "stare rape" So is it our fault we have that kind of hormones. It's really funny when girls tells guys to "control it" yet they don't tell other girls to control their PMS because "we know how they feel but guys don't" double standards. TBH, most of the time, guys just look. Nothing else. We even try to make it as less obvious as possible because of women like you who likes to scream "stare rape" all the time. It's not only men that have to control but you too. And perhaps you should learn what precaution is. So if you leave your wallet on the table while you go to the restroom because it's "uncomfortable", don't complain if someone steals it. Like really your comfort is more important than the consequences.
Also if you think that if there's no consequences to guys wearing topless, think again. It's gonna make him look like a thug, bad guy or a rapist like his innocence is going to be presumed less. There's a reason why societal and dress codes standards exist because what you wear reflects you. No one is gonna assume you're poor if you're wearing a fancy Gucci outfit. That's the very same thing if you wanna wear something decent. And that's not just a gendered thing.
Another double standards would be, your boyfriend can be considered a rapist if he grops your butt without your consent and his hormones are no excuse but can slap him not get charged for violence because you're PMSing. Really tho, the world doesn't revolve around you. If laws exist, that doesn't mean your take your responsibilities for granted.
@Virgo31 WE CLEARLY can see she wore it to get ATTENTION. And she liked him looking, and made CLEARLY made a joke about that.
Ironic since a female with a lot to show has little else to offer. Calling men unintelligent for their biologically programmed visual interest in a female exposing herself for sexual attention proves your ignorance.If the only way a female can het a males attention is to literally expose her shit... is like saying “I have nothing else to offer the world but my holes, so this is the best I can do”It’s impossible to find a female with dignity and class.
Lol @LogicBomber I love how you justified whistling at people in public, and had no relevant comeback so you repeated mine in the same sentence.😂😂
And to the few of you who understand my point and don't hide behind "biology" as a way to behave like animals in response to women minding thier business. And can actually talk to and attract a woman regardless of what she's wearing, I hope you get a full eight hours of sleep and and succeed at whatever you do:)
You want to shame male biology, why can’t women control themselves?Why the desperate need to expose yourself, why can’t you control yourselves and dress like respectable adults? I mean your logic is like saying someone can taunt a starving African with food and then attack it for it’s desire for it by saying “I was just minding my own business, (waving this food in front of their nose)”But since you love shaming tactics... women act like complete assholes during their period “because hormones” yet men are just minding their own business, I mean “Why can’t you just control yourselves!” Men don’t act like that. See, your bias bullshit understanding of the other sex and your attempt at trying to force your bullshit way of thinking onto a sex that you will never be or understand, is wrong.*also: at no point did I justify cat calling.
You called it "biologically programmed visual interest" which in it self is fine however that was your response to me talking about cat calling. So next time maybe be more clear since now you want to come correct and act like you don't know what Im talking about. Nowhere did I say all men are like this same as how not all women are mean on thier periods, I said the ones who yell and whistle at strangers are pathetic to say the least. If a man has tight sweats on I'm not gonna go over and grab his dick. Anyone who thinks "oh they are wearing this or that so I feel the need to tell make myself look like a fool" is lacking in maturity and brain cells. If you can't control your urges to physically or verbally harass others, male or female, nobody is obligated to give you the time of day. If a women's excuse for being an ass is "I'm on my period" she's in the wrong. If a random man gropes me because I have a crop top on at a party he's wrong and it's within my right to hurt him. Was that simple enough for you to understand? Because I know guys who understand this obvious logic but you don't seem to comprehend it. You say you aren't justifying cat calling and yet you desperately want to tell women what they should and shouldn't wear. Are you having trouble controlling your urge to touch or yell at people? If that's the case, my dog has more self control.
@potatoechip29 I know, Right.
Lol at least you have each other 🤷
No they're not. Good questions, that is. By the way, do you know the difference between "there" and "their"? Apparently not.
The same reason why women always go to the can in pairs: dilutes the attention.
@Yaaten sorry English is my second language and this is a social media site and not an English class so I really don't care lmao you got nothing to say to the actual point so you just try to point out grammar of a not English native 🤣@TeeBar that was so dumb omg 🤣 yes we never walk with other girls we just want 100% of the attention that is why you never see 2 girls together ever 🤣 so many idiots on here it is funny but depressing
Yes, I know! So many idiots here. It's just amazing.
@Yaaten you are shit at this stop replying it's not even funny what you say lmao boring ass dude at least the other guy tried you just say things I heard in elementary schools and you don't even respond to what I say to you because you have nothing to say 🤣 stop replying please it is not worth having to check the notification
Men whistle in groups for fun when they all agree on an attractive girl and because most of the time they're not going to separate from the group to actually try hitting on the girl. When with their buddies, they don't care about pursuing that girl. And you're wrong if you think because they whistle, they can't get laid. It's incredible you think those are even remotely related.
@HawkPerception lol that is pathetic so they are only confident around the other boys? Is there some truth to people saying that some guys never grow up?They are related it is scientifically proven that 100% of virgins whistle at girls from cars around there boy friends and then go home and cry about being lonely 😉🤣
I get whisteled at when doing marathons half naked at the beach when running past a group of girls.
You have the freedom to do whatever but you can't expect people to not have a reaction.
@ThisDudeHere or you could exhibit some maturity and hold in your reaction.
@___nik sure, but if you're wearin damn near nothing in an area that there are also children in, I might just not be able to hold in that reaction because the whole ''have some maturity'' has already been dumped in the river by you.
@ThisDudeHere ok but would you react by whistling? that's what the original question was. also it's not the woman's job to parent your child, it's yours. who are you to tell her what to wear? you could just direct your kids elsewhere, just like my father has done when he parented my family.
@___nik stfu you know ThisDudeHere is right, so gtfo bitch
@potatoechip29 is that what you say when you ran out of valid argument points
@___nik it is my job to parent my children, yes, but it is also your job to be fucking decent in public.
@ThisDudeHere how is me exposing my shoulders or me wearing a skirt above my knees lacking decency? those are the main things i get objectified for. i have never once exposed my tits or ass in public, and do not plan to, but i still get objectified, and that goes for most women. i understand that some women wear veryyy revealing clothing, but for women like me, we'll wear something like a crop top or a mini skirt (lower thigh length) and get objectified for it, even when our assets are covered. you are free to steer your kids away from women like that, i am not condemning dressing very revealingly. however, i do not want a sexual comment on how i dress as a "reaction"
@___nik This question was regarding women who do go out in revealing clothing and then get angry when men give them unwanted attention.
@___nik you probably meant condoning.
@ThisDudeHere yes i did, lol. sorry for the mistake
@ the asker, i understand what your question is, it's just that what constitutes "revealing clothing" is different for each man i meet, and it's frustrating when you're wearing normal clothes showing a tiny bit of skin and a pervert whistles at you.
"Dress however they want". - Does that include wearing nothing at all? "If she likes revealing clothes then that’s her call." - WHY would a woman wear revealing clothes if she doesn't want male attention? "Men shouldn’t be allowed to disrespect woman by whistling etc." - When you whistle at someone you're not "disrespecting" them, you're giving them a COMPLIMENT!"I don’t understand your question." - Yes you do. Don't pretend now. It's pretty straightforward."It’s like asking why is a girl complaining she got raped when she went out in revealing clothing." - It's NOTHING like that! Geez, you feminazis are just cuh-ray-zeee!"Some things are just out of order." - Yes, like women who dress like prostitutes and then complain about being "harassed" by men."Men thinking a certain behaviour is ok and welcome just because of the way a girl dressed is 100% out of order." - No it's not. If you dress decently (ex. don't wear gymnasium clothes on the street) then you will have nothing to worry about.
Men have to abide by social dignity laws and women should not be exempt because they are entitled and desperate for cheap sexual attention.
@Yaaten For me women and men should be able to dress however they wish, and not to worry about what society thinks - something that might seem revealing to you maybe doesn’t seem revealing to someone else. As long as your boobs, dick etc aren’t hanging off and you’re not completely naked you’re good! And whistling is soooo disrespectful! A compliment is when you say “oh you look really nice” “I really like your outfit”. Whistling is just so cheap and it is putting women off!! And by the way what’s wrong with wearing a gym outfit on the streets? Have you never seen anyone wear leggings etc out and about?
You're really comparing whistling to rape? Whistling harms no one. Rape is actually forcing sex on someone against their will. I agree that everyone should be able to dress however they want, but they should also expect the attention that comes with the associated outfit.If you're actually so delusional that you think you don't deserve looks or attention or certain reactions when you portray yourself in a certain way, then you might as well go nude and expect that everyone should respect you and not ogle you or whistle or anything.
"And by the way what’s wrong with wearing a gym outfit on the streets? Have you never seen anyone wear leggings etc out and about?" - Yes, I have unfortunately, and they're just not appropriate outside the gym.
I don’t get this opinion. Frankly I Think it’s a load of shit and made up. Women wear short hot skirts because men are attracted to them.
I don’t understand - why men should be so much bothered about the dress of somebody else... think.. apply some thought.. if you are good - even someone naked around you shouldn’t bother you... no right for you to whistle or make any comments on them.. have to mind our own business
@gangster123 word. Men need to exercise a little discipline. Appreciate beauty around you without having to rub all up on it.
@silicone_river no, we wear what we want to keep up with the latest fashion, not to be harassed on the street by 40 year old men for wearing something that most people wear that are around our age.
Men should learn the simple art of looking but not staring. It's not that hard. I've been doing it for years. That very last thing I want to do is offend a woman. It's really bad manners, and it shows male privilege, which is even worse.
@argyle lol simp
@asker lol incel
@___nik lol bitch
@potatoechip29 lol unoriginal bastard who resorts to name calling in order to make himself seem important even though his response was was so unintelligent and the "bitch" in question could not care less about his view of her <3
@___nik blah blah blah
@___nik that’s kind of retarded, you said “ lol unoriginal bastard who resorts to name calling in order to make himself seem important even though his response was was so unintelligent” yet you yourself said “lol incel” BEFORE he said “lol bitch” proving that you are indeed a bitch
@CheeseBurgah i never claimed i was original lol. this user has repeatedly been harassing me so i'm kind of sick of this dude, forgive me for my bitchy attitude.
@___nik mr potato slice commented randomly on my post to, lol he has literally nothing on his page. No posts no nothing except "bitch" lol so he's got legit nada. He's just here to say that since he has nothing else to say😂😂
@Alpha09 lmao so harassing people online is legitimately his only hobby.
Yeah there are a lot of creeps like that around sometimes.
Some Men do, lets not stereotype.
@chaznthat Most, most men do.
@JustACuriousLady I will agree that ALL men, unless gay (which they sexualize other men also, so it's not just a woman thing) sexualize women because that's a normal biological imperative but are you saying that most men went to sexually harass women?
Dammit lol battery clamps
Comments like this are why you are so beloved even by those who disagree with you on occasion.
Lol I appreciate it xD
Thankyou for literally being the best comment in this thread 💓
@doopayo Oh that‘s so sweet! thank you. I‘m glad
It's a complex problem. All the "sexy" clothes women wear were created by men for a clear reason. So yes, women are just expressing themsleves and not always looking for attention but through the patriarchy, women were socially conditioned to see wearing skimpy clothes as being "free" when in all actuality in my opinion all that shit, bikinis, tight, short skirts etc were invented to objectify the female body.
@TerminallyChill what about muscle fit tshirts for men?
What about em?
YES💓the way a women decides to dress is not consent
Are you that delusional that you expect people to not get more attention when they're dressed more provocatively? Might as well go nude and not expect any looks by that logic.
I frankly don’t give a shit how people dress or the comments they get for doing so. What I’m doing is answering the question. It’s not my problem if MEN can’t look without commenting, gesturing or whistling, is it!
You're that dumb you didn't understand his point.
you're dumb and didn't care to understand her point.
@___nik Oh the irony
It's up to men to learn how to behave in public and to look without commenting. A woman should be able to wear whatever the hell she wants to wear, or even go nude in public, without attracting comments, leers, or unwelcome attention.
Hedonists* wear what they want. You know Ted Bundy, he understood that hedonistic women needed to be r*ped and killed by a guy who does what he wants for fun, too. You have a r*pe deficiency. Hope a muslim man catches your body, soon.
I agree, heck, they dont have to wear anything if they so choose. Ill just suppress my Male instincts and not bother even saying hi, because for all I know, they could file it as sexual harassment.
I just want to apologize about the scary hate speech. It has been reported. You are right, women, and people should have the right to make their own choices, not be threatened with rape by fans of serial killers and fundamentalists.
@Vetis your standards are obviously different than mine, as evidenced to your abusive language and sociopathic perspective (“dumb retard”... “women need to get raped and killed...”, “I hope you get raped”).Reality is you can talk like that from then safety of your mom’s basement. Try vocalizing those opinions or practicing your antisocial beliefs offline, and you will receive some negative outcomes.
@Vetis He's a white knight simp
@asker Yes. Evident by how emotional he gets.
@Vetis 😂 you two ty for the laugh. I’d heard trolls could be this pathetic but this is beyond beyond. Thanks again 😂
There is a time and place always for ‘slutty’ clothes. But, everyday, I agree, men respect it more when you dress more morally and respectfully. A lot of women I think, don’t know how important this is for guys.
@Anonymous Exactly. Want to attract higher quality men? Then don't dress like a cheap escort. It's really that simple. And something many of (young) women don't get. Men respect women with CLASS, not women who dress trashy
It shouldn't be up to other people to get to decide what you wear. That type of commentary is trashy, I don't care what a woman is wearing, that's her choice. The real trash is the man talking down to a stranger like he gets make decisions about her wardrobe.
Of course some guys won’t mind a girl to dress provocative, especially seeing a young one. Cause they like what they see, eh?
omg yes. I have been thanking the gods for leggings. It's so sexy. But I just appreciate it without making women feel uncomfortable about it, I want them to feel as comfortable as possible and keep the behavior/style lol. XD
Well if you were to be out in public with your mom, sister, daughter, or girlfriend, and other men were treating her like she’s an object in front of you. Would you like it then?
sorry what? Do you think I am treating them like objects or are you referring to something else? The question being rhetorical of course, but I'm just appreciating beauty without making comment or overtly looking even.
Maybe you’re one of the few who treat her like a normal human, most guys will think she’s dressing slutty cause she’s easy. When I was 16 and dumb I’d get disrespected so many times without realizing cause dressing whorish came with attention. I was truly an idiot.
@zeitgeist057 It's true that a woman should be free to dress how she wants (given it doesn't break the law) and that the way a woman dresses is no invitation for unwanted behavior. But it's a reality we have to accept. They are there and will always be there. So the best thing to do is adjust. So whenever a woman goes out with provocative clothing, she has to accept the fact that she will have to deal with such behavior. And by that, she is no victim anymore. Because she willingly took the risk.