Who do some women go out in revealing clothing and then complain when men whistle at them? (Page 2)
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Probably because every time I get whistled at I think it’s a code for “this is the on we’re gonna traffick boys PICK HER UP”
Honestly that’s one of my biggest fears is being kidnapped and trafficked because these men out here are terrifying 👁👁please don’t whistle at us just because you think we’re cute.. some of us just gotta go to church😭
”Church”
Why do people wear expensive clothes and then complain when they get mugged? Women complain because men are being shitty. Just because a lot of men are shitty doesn’t magically justify their actions. Y’all go on about “what happened to chivalry” and then say victim-blaming shit like this. Disappointing.
Exactly what I was saying in my comment. You nailed it!
Its weird. Most (or at least too many) seem to think that they're entitled to never experience something negative from something they want to do. As if they fact that they want to do it that it must therefore occur in reality as they saw it in their mind. And where mind and reality don't match up, it must be reality's fault for not conforming to her expectations.
They'll go "just because I dress that way doesn't mean I want that attention", and the obvious response should be: Since when does reality give a fuck what you would prefer?
I don't think I've ever read so many retarded answers on this site. They want you to look and whistle, and then they want to make you look bad for doing what they wanted.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/S11a9PvsBpgAs you can see only men so far have upvoted your comment while all the women have downvoted your comment. You know why? Because that is not how we feel at all.
Deep
It's like admitting that is a sin. It's just how our culture is.
@Virgo31 So if that's your logic then how about people upvoting it on youtube? I mean look at the ratio.
@Virgo31 Maybe majority of people have humor
@Virgo31 right !!!
@Aiko_E_Lara YouTube has a algorithm, the more videos like this you watch the more it will suggest them to you. These videos were placed on people's feeds who have similar views to the videos meaning of course the likes will be higher than the dislikes because YouTube is giving them what they want. And unlike on YouTube where you can't tell the difference between male and female up votes and downvotes, on GAG you can tell the difference. Which obviously is that women do not agree with this video because it isn't how we feel.
@Virgo31
Why did she not like Conan looking? She obviously dressed like that to get looks.
JUST BECAUSE A WOMAN PUTS ON A OUTFIT DOES NOT MEAN SHE WANTS PEOPLE STARING AT HER. I'm sorry, but a lot of girls do not like being cat called or whistled at. It's disrespectful, creepy, and disturbing. A women is allowed to wear whatever she wants, she does not need to be judged by her outfit. If men (or women) can't control their urges to be a creep then that is not the women's fault. That person needs to be more disciplined and learn to freaking control themselves.
@Virgo31
He never cat called, he just looked at what she put on display. You know she dressed like that to get looks.
@Virgo31 Why do you think people like it in the first place and do you think youtube is only made for men? That video is not even dislike heavily but it's like a 5% of the ratio. Also you think there is no such thing as a highly disliked video in youtube? I can give you examples such as the buzzfeed feminist, Friday rebecca black, some of logan paul's videos and more. So why do you think? If you receive majority of people are wrong then maybe you are the problem because we live in a society and people made society which are living in today. But ironically there are still people who like to present something that is found at the very last page of google where people barely brainstorms about it.
One why would I know that she is wearing it to grab attention? She CLEARLY doesn't like him looking and therefore he is being a creep, you justifying his behavior is absolutely disgusting. This is why some rapists walk free because they use the "she was wearing revealing clothing so she must have wanted it" excuse. No she is just wearing clothes she feels comfortable in plus she's going on tv of course she is going to dress up all fancy, that does not make her any less of the woman she would be if she wore a shirt and sweatpants to the show. You should not assume what a woman wants based off her clothes. If she tells you to leave her alone, leave her alone. Cat calling and whistles are creepy and disturbing. It can put women in position to feel like they aren't safe anymore and it doesn't matter if someone attractive does it or not because it's still creepy. If men can't control their urges then they need to be disciplined. Second, I know there are highly disliked videos like that weird YouTube Rewind thing, I never said that YouTube is only for men. If you read carefully, I said that you can't tell by gender who up votes and downvoted on YouTube so you can't make a assumption on there unlike Gag where you can clearly see women do not agree with this video contrast to men who aka (are not women)
@Virgo31 Also we have eyes. Is it our fault? I know it doesn't mean stock her or cat call her but we still have the urge to look at her body. But according to you, it's "stare rape" So is it our fault we have that kind of hormones. It's really funny when girls tells guys to "control it" yet they don't tell other girls to control their PMS because "we know how they feel but guys don't" double standards. TBH, most of the time, guys just look. Nothing else. We even try to make it as less obvious as possible because of women like you who likes to scream "stare rape" all the time. It's not only men that have to control but you too. And perhaps you should learn what precaution is. So if you leave your wallet on the table while you go to the restroom because it's "uncomfortable", don't complain if someone steals it. Like really your comfort is more important than the consequences.
Also if you think that if there's no consequences to guys wearing topless, think again. It's gonna make him look like a thug, bad guy or a rapist like his innocence is going to be presumed less. There's a reason why societal and dress codes standards exist because what you wear reflects you. No one is gonna assume you're poor if you're wearing a fancy Gucci outfit. That's the very same thing if you wanna wear something decent. And that's not just a gendered thing.
Another double standards would be, your boyfriend can be considered a rapist if he grops your butt without your consent and his hormones are no excuse but can slap him not get charged for violence because you're PMSing. Really tho, the world doesn't revolve around you. If laws exist, that doesn't mean your take your responsibilities for granted.
@Virgo31
WE CLEARLY can see she wore it to get ATTENTION. And she liked him looking, and made CLEARLY made a joke about that.
Because we are reminded of how some members of the male species are so unintelligent that this is the only way they know how to get a woman's attention. It's just annoying honestly. It's like saying "I can't get laid so this is the best I can do." It's so hard to find good dick🤷
Ironic since a female with a lot to show has little else to offer. Calling men unintelligent for their biologically programmed visual interest in a female exposing herself for sexual attention proves your ignorance.
If the only way a female can het a males attention is to literally expose her shit... is like saying “I have nothing else to offer the world but my holes, so this is the best I can do”
It’s impossible to find a female with dignity and class.
Lol @LogicBomber I love how you justified whistling at people in public, and had no relevant comeback so you repeated mine in the same sentence.😂😂
And to the few of you who understand my point and don't hide behind "biology" as a way to behave like animals in response to women minding thier business. And can actually talk to and attract a woman regardless of what she's wearing, I hope you get a full eight hours of sleep and and succeed at whatever you do:)
You want to shame male biology, why can’t women control themselves?
Why the desperate need to expose yourself, why can’t you control yourselves and dress like respectable adults?
I mean your logic is like saying someone can taunt a starving African with food and then attack it for it’s desire for it by saying “I was just minding my own business, (waving this food in front of their nose)”
But since you love shaming tactics...
women act like complete assholes during their period “because hormones” yet men are just minding their own business, I mean “Why can’t you just control yourselves!” Men don’t act like that.
See, your bias bullshit understanding of the other sex and your attempt at trying to force your bullshit way of thinking onto a sex that you will never be or understand, is wrong.
*also: at no point did I justify cat calling.
You called it "biologically programmed visual interest" which in it self is fine however that was your response to me talking about cat calling. So next time maybe be more clear since now you want to come correct and act like you don't know what Im talking about. Nowhere did I say all men are like this same as how not all women are mean on thier periods, I said the ones who yell and whistle at strangers are pathetic to say the least. If a man has tight sweats on I'm not gonna go over and grab his dick. Anyone who thinks "oh they are wearing this or that so I feel the need to tell make myself look like a fool" is lacking in maturity and brain cells. If you can't control your urges to physically or verbally harass others, male or female, nobody is obligated to give you the time of day. If a women's excuse for being an ass is "I'm on my period" she's in the wrong. If a random man gropes me because I have a crop top on at a party he's wrong and it's within my right to hurt him. Was that simple enough for you to understand? Because I know guys who understand this obvious logic but you don't seem to comprehend it. You say you aren't justifying cat calling and yet you desperately want to tell women what they should and shouldn't wear. Are you having trouble controlling your urge to touch or yell at people? If that's the case, my dog has more self control.
This bitch..
@potatoechip29 I know, Right.
Lol at least you have each other 🤷
I guess the most revealing thing I wear sometimes are my pair of booty shorts. For me I want to wear them because not only is it hot as hell outside but it gives some guys attention. I have no shame in admitting that I try to look sexy every now and then. A lot of girls do act so surprised when they wear revealing clothes in public and get looked at.. like wtf do you expect?
Its hypocrisy. Yes cat calling isn't cool. Yes, its dumb to do. Yes, its a form of harrassment. But ladies who dress in skimpy outfits LIKE TO HATE.
These women LOVE TO COMPLAIN because the ability to complain about guys wanting them is the very emotional validation they crave.
Why do men only do this whistling when they have there boy friend group with them and never on there own?
Then to add to that why do they then go home after they whistle at girls and catcall on the streets and then go online and go to mgtow forums and cry about not getting laid and it is all women and feminism fault definitely nothing to do with themselves?
These are all really good questions 🤣
No they're not. Good questions, that is. By the way, do you know the difference between "there" and "their"? Apparently not.
The same reason why women always go to the can in pairs: dilutes the attention.
@Yaaten sorry English is my second language and this is a social media site and not an English class so I really don't care lmao you got nothing to say to the actual point so you just try to point out grammar of a not English native 🤣
@TeeBar that was so dumb omg 🤣 yes we never walk with other girls we just want 100% of the attention that is why you never see 2 girls together ever 🤣 so many idiots on here it is funny but depressing
Yes, I know! So many idiots here. It's just amazing.
@Yaaten you are shit at this stop replying it's not even funny what you say lmao boring ass dude at least the other guy tried you just say things I heard in elementary schools and you don't even respond to what I say to you because you have nothing to say 🤣 stop replying please it is not worth having to check the notification
Men whistle in groups for fun when they all agree on an attractive girl and because most of the time they're not going to separate from the group to actually try hitting on the girl. When with their buddies, they don't care about pursuing that girl. And you're wrong if you think because they whistle, they can't get laid. It's incredible you think those are even remotely related.
@HawkPerception lol that is pathetic so they are only confident around the other boys? Is there some truth to people saying that some guys never grow up?
They are related it is scientifically proven that 100% of virgins whistle at girls from cars around there boy friends and then go home and cry about being lonely 😉🤣
Because the way women dress is not her giving you consent to be a creep.
Do men still whistle? I thought that died out decades ago
Because making unsolicited comments and catcalling is seriously bad manners. One does not comment publicly on the way a woman, or anyone else, for that matter, dresses. When men do that, it's intimidation. In other words, guys... learn how to behave in public.
Because we can wear what we want. Maybe have some fucking class dude.
Why would guys want to go shirtless if they didn’t want batter clamps to be attached to their tits?
Batter clamps?
Dammit lol battery clamps
LOL!
Comments like this are why you are so beloved even by those who disagree with you on occasion.
Lol I appreciate it xD
I don't know, but I don't whistle at men when they are walking around shirtless or when I see attractive men wearing clothes that make them look good. I find them attractive too, but it doesn't mean I have to harass them.
Totally
I get whisteled at when doing marathons half naked at the beach when running past a group of girls.
Well women tend to do this for self esteem reasons and don’t feel that men should have a right to make their admiration known. So they lack the concept of the “free speech “ amendment. I feel if they wear anything that they should just brush off whatever comes there way as long as it’s not physical harm.
Despite what men think, women rarely dress to attract the attention of men. They dress in competition with other women.
Is this outfit stylish compared to other women?
Do I look more attractive compared to other women?
Am I showing too much skin compared to other women?
Men still get to enjoy the view when an outfit is particularly revealing. However, most men use a catcall to express their approval and it does not go over will.
I don’t complain. I mean I don’t like it when old creeps stare at my boobs and ass and imagine shit but I have to accept that, if I’m wearing a shorts and a sleeveless tee. It’s uncomfortable but yeah
Men should learn the simple art of looking but not staring. It's not that hard. I've been doing it for years. That very last thing I want to do is offend a woman. It's really bad manners, and it shows male privilege, which is even worse.
@argyle lol simp
@asker lol incel
@___nik lol bitch
@potatoechip29 lol unoriginal bastard who resorts to name calling in order to make himself seem important even though his response was was so unintelligent and the "bitch" in question could not care less about his view of her <3
@___nik blah blah blah
@___nik that’s kind of retarded, you said “ lol unoriginal bastard who resorts to name calling in order to make himself seem important even though his response was was so unintelligent” yet you yourself said “lol incel” BEFORE he said “lol bitch” proving that you are indeed a bitch
@CheeseBurgah i never claimed i was original lol. this user has repeatedly been harassing me so i'm kind of sick of this dude, forgive me for my bitchy attitude.
@___nik mr potato slice commented randomly on my post to, lol he has literally nothing on his page. No posts no nothing except "bitch" lol so he's got legit nada. He's just here to say that since he has nothing else to say😂😂
@Alpha09 lmao so harassing people online is legitimately his only hobby.
I just wear things that I like, like I think short skirts are cute so I wear them not because I want attention from random guys on the street
I don’t get this opinion. Frankly I Think it’s a load of shit and made up. Women wear short hot skirts because men are attracted to them.
I don’t understand - why men should be so much bothered about the dress of somebody else... think.. apply some thought.. if you are good - even someone naked around you shouldn’t bother you... no right for you to whistle or make any comments on them.. have to mind our own business
@gangster123 word. Men need to exercise a little discipline. Appreciate beauty around you without having to rub all up on it.
@silicone_river no, we wear what we want to keep up with the latest fashion, not to be harassed on the street by 40 year old men for wearing something that most people wear that are around our age.
They wear the outfit because they think it‘s pretty and it makes them look beautiful so they feel good. Men shouldn’t whistle at women because it‘s disrespectful. Women don‘t dress to appeal to men, and even if they did, a man can compliment them but not whistle at them. Do women whistle at men when they‘re walking around with a „revealing“ shirt or topless etc? I don‘t think so.
Thankyou for literally being the best comment in this thread 💓
@doopayo Oh that‘s so sweet! thank you. I‘m glad
It's a complex problem. All the "sexy" clothes women wear were created by men for a clear reason. So yes, women are just expressing themsleves and not always looking for attention but through the patriarchy, women were socially conditioned to see wearing skimpy clothes as being "free" when in all actuality in my opinion all that shit, bikinis, tight, short skirts etc were invented to objectify the female body.
@TerminallyChill what about muscle fit tshirts for men?
What about em?
The same reason you go out with your phone, then complain when you get scam calls and bullshit sales calls.
You doing something, is not for the benefit or attraction of others.
Sure if she's walking around practically naked it should be a cause for concern. But if she's not looking harmed then she's done it to keep someone happy, and it's not you.
Women should be able to wear what they want without being objectified
You have the freedom to do whatever but you can't expect people to not have a reaction.
@ThisDudeHere or you could exhibit some maturity and hold in your reaction.
@___nik sure, but if you're wearin damn near nothing in an area that there are also children in, I might just not be able to hold in that reaction because the whole ''have some maturity'' has already been dumped in the river by you.
@ThisDudeHere ok but would you react by whistling? that's what the original question was. also it's not the woman's job to parent your child, it's yours. who are you to tell her what to wear? you could just direct your kids elsewhere, just like my father has done when he parented my family.
@___nik stfu you know ThisDudeHere is right, so gtfo bitch
@potatoechip29 is that what you say when you ran out of valid argument points
@___nik it is my job to parent my children, yes, but it is also your job to be fucking decent in public.
@ThisDudeHere how is me exposing my shoulders or me wearing a skirt above my knees lacking decency? those are the main things i get objectified for. i have never once exposed my tits or ass in public, and do not plan to, but i still get objectified, and that goes for most women. i understand that some women wear veryyy revealing clothing, but for women like me, we'll wear something like a crop top or a mini skirt (lower thigh length) and get objectified for it, even when our assets are covered. you are free to steer your kids away from women like that, i am not condemning dressing very revealingly. however, i do not want a sexual comment on how i dress as a "reaction"
@___nik This question was regarding women who do go out in revealing clothing and then get angry when men give them unwanted attention.
@___nik you probably meant condoning.
@ThisDudeHere yes i did, lol. sorry for the mistake
@ the asker, i understand what your question is, it's just that what constitutes "revealing clothing" is different for each man i meet, and it's frustrating when you're wearing normal clothes showing a tiny bit of skin and a pervert whistles at you.