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Probably because it promotors as fashion, and girls like fashion. Then guys think they’re doing it for sex, when they may not be, and it can be cringy to be cat called in certain ways. Some is fine if it’s just a harmless compliment. But some is just awful and people with issues try to capitalise on it.
*it’s promoted
If society promoted wearing burkas... would women here do it... no they would puss and moan about it being “oppressive”
they dress like hookers because they want sexual attention.
@LogicBomber if they promoted it as fashion? Of course they would!! Don’t be an idiot.
Yeah no they wouldn’t and you know it.
Having dignity was in fashion and women have been fighting to expose more and more of themselves.
That’s ridiculous. Are you focusing on a minority or has someone personally offended you because what you say isn’t reflected in every day life in my experience.
I am focusing on western society as a whole...
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If you don’t see it in every day life, it’s because you don’t want to.
@LogicBomber okay so you chose to include a biased set of pictures that proves nothing other than your bias... erm congrats 🤷🏼♀️
It’s simply proof that females wear nothing in public... which was the point. Disregard it all you want, women dress like this in almost all western society. You yourself have tights and way to short shorts. It’s just how it is.
@LogicBomber you're point makes no sense and you know nothing about women's fashion. for example, just in 2020, oversized t-shirts and high waisted loose jeans made a comeback in women's fashion, and fashionable individuals wore them (bella hadid, kendall jenner, rihanna). nobody got upset and called it "oppressive," we celebrated it and wore those clothes. we don't want sexual attention from y'all, we just want to look cute. not everything a girl does is to please men, contrary to your disgusting belief.
@___nik exactly. I’m not even reading his pointless comments anymore tbh, makes little difference to me and I’ve better things to do. People who choose not to use logic will have to reap their own consequences of that.
@___nik just because you don’t like it doesn’t mean it doesn’t make sense. I also never claimed to know anything about fashion, which is also irrelevant.
Just because these females have decided to wear clothes for once doesn’t mean they don’t parade around in almost nothing most other times. even you likely have tights (cloth body paint) or retardedly short shorts where your ass cheeks hang out the back.
Also, no one said “everything a girl does is to please men” but dressing with little to no clothing IS done to get male sexual attention. Regardless of how you try to justify it.
@LogicBomber no, your argument literally doesn't make sense, it's not just that i oppose it. first of all , how is knowledge of women's fashion irrelevant to your claim? you literally stated that women do not follow trends that are based on modest trends while having no knowledge of what women actually wear.
and your " dressing with little to no clothing IS done to get male sexual attention" claim, by that logic why would femme lesbians exist? no, a woman does not wear sexy clothing for male attention. and tights were a trend in like 2010, and most girls walk around with shorts that cover their ass, have ever been outside?
women have always followed trends regardless of how modest they were (think oversized sweaters, baggy jeans, midi skirts (skirts that come down to your calves), cardigans, turtlenecks, these were just a couple trends in the recent 2020).
please stop acting like a women's fashion connoisseur, you're a 30 year old man arguing with a girl on the internet about how women should dress.
@___nik MY knowledge of women's fashion is irrelevant to the fact that exposing yourself is cheap cry for sexual attention.
At no point did I say women don't follow trends. Women actually are sheep which is why most marketing is aimed at them. Again, that doesn't mean exposing yourself isn't for sexual attention.
A girl who fucks a random guy at a party, because he friends all do that and she is just following a group doesn't mean she isn't still fucking. If you follow a group and kill someone, you are still a killer.
So if the "trend" is to look like a whore, and you follow that trend... you are still dressed like a whore. Which is for sexual attention.
Female "fashion" is based on what society tells you is "sexy" and what is sexy is based on what males in society are currently interested in. Currently society is obsessed with trashy hiphop culture and therefore trends are currently about dressing and acting like ghetto trash. Twerking on tiktok, over exposing themselves, etc.
If a male puts his cock on display, it would be considered perverted. WHY, well because women would consider it a sexual violation to have a male expose their penis to them. Because it's SEXUAL!
The same applies to a females genitals. It's that simple.
In regards to what women wear in public... my photo shows what the majority of women wear. And unless you are blind or living in the middle east... you will see this.
I am not "arguing about how women should dress" I am arguing about the lack of dignity in society and how women expose themselves for sexual attention. YOU made it about fashion, as a scapegoat to deflect the facts that exposing yourself in public is wrong.
@LogicBomber again, you don't make sense to me. i am queer, but still very feminine in the way i dress and i wear "sexy" clothes occasionally. crop tops have been a trend for decades, and when i put on a crop top, it isn't for some pervert to look at my midrift, it's because i want to look trendy. i don't ask for male attention when i'm just trying to be a fashionable women, and that is evident in my sexuality. again, i'm queer, and i don't like men. i live in the United States in an urban area where people dress well. i don't think you've actually seen how women dress at this point because your generalizations are really, really off. if you really want proof of how living human beings dress, how about you go outside and observe actual women. the set of photos you attached are bullshit, because (1) they were taken in perverted angles (2) you can't make generalizations of all western women's fashion by looking 24 pictures taken out of context and (3) none of that shit is even trendy.
also, you can't be talking ABOUT women's behavior through fashion and then say that women's fashion is irrelevant to what you're saying. it's not a scapegoat, it's the literal subject of our argument.
again, what i'm saying is that women wear "revealing" clothes to be trendy, and not for male attention. i literally contradict you're entire statement because i am queer and i wear revealing clothing. why would i be queer but also want male attention?
@LogicBomber plus you did say women do not follow trends, you literally said "If society promoted wearing burkas... would women here do it... no they would puss and moan about it being “oppressive.”" and let me clear up that sentiment that female fashion is based on what society tells you is sexy, you can look at trends right now and clear up your confusion. for example, dark academia is a trend right now, how are you going to tell me that dressing up like you are going to a private school with glasses and sweaters is what is "sexy"?
let's not forget how much men are sheep too, y'all will not wear women's clothing in fear of being called gay by other men and you won't healthily express you're emotions because of the stereotype that men should not cry. you follow other men in all of your journeys to money, success, and power, since that is what stereotypically men want.
please stop making senseless points and give me a real reason to believe you.
@___nik How is pointing out how females in the west literally piss and moan about “oppression” every chance they get especially when they are told they can’t do something... the same as saying women don’t follow trends? You are reaching so hard you might break your arm.
You can be a dyke and exposing yourself is to get “sexual attention” regardless of which sex.
Any person exposing their sexual parts are doing it for sexual attention... only men get in trouble for it and women get a free pass.
the pics I posted are a simple sample of average females in everyday society and they aren’t taken from “special angles” they are basic photos of women in everyday activities exposing their genitals because they can’t control themselves enough to wear proper attire or at least have the dignity to conduct themselves accordingly when wearing exposing clothes.
Men are not sheep. If a guy doesn’t like something they don’t do it. They don’t need to ask their friends if they think someone is cute before they date them or have to filter everything through someone else before they decide if they want to do something or not.
Men don’t show emotion because we are simply programmed different than women. We work on shit internally and on our own.
This isn’t 1980... guys don’t call each other gay for crying.
@LogicBomber yes the pictures you posted are taken from disgusting angles, especially the ones of women playing sports, women laying down, and women bending over. go look at the average woman outside and you'll see she is mostly covered up. and you stated that women would find a trend including burkas oppressive, even though i have given you numerous examples of women following modest trends. you did NOT talk about "every instance we are told we can't do something" do not make shit up. this entire thread is talking about CLOTHING, do i look stupid to you? you're the one making it about something it's not !!
no, i do not expose myself to get sexual attention, i do it because i want to look cute and i know my intentions. you are not going to tell ME how I feel when i put on MY clothes, because how would you know my intentions? you don't even know me.
men are sheep. they follow what other men do a lottt of the time, just like women do. i never denied that women aren't sheep. all of humanity are essentially "sheep" because we follow what other people do, it's human nature. it's in our biology. yes, men filter themselves, yes men ask their friends if they think they're girlfriend is hot, my male friends do it. and fashionable men keep up with trends, making them more attractive to women.
DO NOT call me a dyke. you as a straight person have no right to be saying that to me, that is despicable. i appreciate that you have been respectful in your discussion with me, why did you have to call me a slur now? please do not call me a dyke. be mindful of your words and do not call me slurs just because i fail to see the validity in your points.
Here’s a better question, why can’t certain men control themselves around women who dress a certain way? Why are those men catcalling? Even if a woman dresses for attention it doesn’t mean she wants YOUR attention.
Women should be able to wear what they want without getting harassed.
Hedonists* wear what they want. You know Ted Bundy, he understood that hedonistic women needed to be r*ped and killed by a guy who does what he wants for fun, too. You have a r*pe deficiency. Hope a muslim man catches your body, soon.
I agree, heck, they dont have to wear anything if they so choose. Ill just suppress my Male instincts and not bother even saying hi, because for all I know, they could file it as sexual harassment.
I just want to apologize about the scary hate speech. It has been reported. You are right, women, and people should have the right to make their own choices, not be threatened with rape by fans of serial killers and fundamentalists.
@Vetis your standards are obviously different than mine, as evidenced to your abusive language and sociopathic perspective (“dumb retard”... “women need to get raped and killed...”, “I hope you get raped”).
Reality is you can talk like that from then safety of your mom’s basement. Try vocalizing those opinions or practicing your antisocial beliefs offline, and you will receive some negative outcomes.
@Vetis 🤢🤮
@Vetis He's a white knight simp
@asker Yes. Evident by how emotional he gets.
@Vetis 😂 you two ty for the laugh. I’d heard trolls could be this pathetic but this is beyond beyond. Thanks again 😂
I feel like if you're a girl and you're looking at yourself in the mirror in a hot outfit, you envision how you look walking through town, you picture people turning their heads, feeling at home in your body and you kinda get to stroll about almost like a trance until someone whistles at you and it then it just feels slutty.
Cuz while they did dress up for attention it's not the attention of the Whistler that they were hoping for it's kind of like wearing a suit to your date and then walking past the gay bar and a bunch of gay dudes hitting on you. It's not the attention you wanted but if you dress in a suit that shows off your bodies best features not just your date is going to however I'm low-key an attention whore so when it's given to me I enjoy it (phrasing) however not everyone's like me so... meh.
in my opinion It's a complex problem. All the "sexy" clothes women wear were created by men for a clear reason. So yes, women are just expressing themsleves and not always looking for attention but through the patriarchy, women were socially conditioned to see wearing skimpy clothes as being "free" when in all actuality in my opinion all that shit, bikinis, tight, short skirts etc were invented to objectify the female body.
Respectful ways of going about shite like that, catcalling and whistling for me is both embarrassing and uncomfortable, if I'm really wearing something revealing and you have to say something say it to me or say nothing
They know from the get-go what is going to happen and they love the attention it draws.
Their insincere complaints about the "unwanted attention" they receive is just a CYA to prevent being called a skank, slut, cock-teaser, etc.
And to get MORE attention.
If there is 1 thing I've learned from this website, is that the more pink votes you get, the more it indicates you're speaking the truth
Wisteling at women or 'wolf calling' is scum level behaviour, in my opinion.
But when she dresses up in revealing clothing and demand that noone would look at her and even notice her is stupid.
Not saying, that harassment is Ok!!!
Just this type of women do not understand the meaning of word 'harasement'.
Just looking at her is not harassment, obviously staring is different.
Yeah, but women shouldn't be blamed for that. They can wear whatever they want to. Men should learn how to respect women no matter what.
Right !!👏👏
Some want the attention don't value their body.
Some may be strippers or pr...
All women deserve respect and should therefore dress modestly.
so if she doesn't dress modestly she doesn't deserve respect?
@bodyofknowledge she shouldn't expect it.
Because we are getting dressed for ourselves and what we feel good in that day. Not to be catcalled and bothered by you.
No you aren't. You aren't wearing a revealing outfit just for yourself. Any guy sees through that lie easily. Women WANT the attention.
No, no we all don't. This comment and thought process is why you think we want to be catcalled. Why can't we wear what we want and feel good in just for ourselves? Why do you assume everything we do is for your attention? Do you do everything for a woman's attention?
It's true. Men (or at least I do) dress the same way, to feel good about ourselves. I don't put clothes on thinking "oh I hope this attracts girls today", I just put on what looks and feels good to me. If I wanted to get attention from women I would dress totally different.
Not that everyone is the same, but I know if I was a woman I would dress for myself and also be annoyed if men I wasn't attracted to were bothering me about it.
Thank you @zeitgeist057 for a male's perspective. And I agree we aren't all the same, I can only speak for myself and other like minded women.
Uhm. I think we have different definitions of revealing. Im not talking about looking pretty. Im talking boobs hanging out, hoop earrings, heels, a skirt that shows vag. Very different.
I didn't realize hoop earrings were revealing, damn I've been a slut for awhile now 🤣🤣🤣
@Apope16 bruh
It's a complex problem. All the "sexy" clothes women wear were created by men for a clear reason. So yes, women are just expressing themsleves and not always looking for attention but through the patriarchy, women were socially conditioned to see wearing skimpy clothes as being "free" when in all actuality in my opinion all that shit, bikinis, tight, short skirts etc were invented to objectify the female body.
All the girls saying they wear mini skirts for themselves are deluded. Functional maybe in high summer when all clothes are annoying. Mainly the mini skirt is there for women to show young men they want to fuck, and then the young men fuck them. It’s not rocket science, it’s also nothing to be ashamed of
@Apope16 ok I hear you, bruv. You're saying the choices some women make, wearing a string or next to nothing, some pumps, a certain type of earring, etc. Those are some choices they make that you find more arousing than say some other choices they could make, like maybe a pair of overalls, a sombrero, and sandals with socks?
And because you find these choices arousing, it is your theory that they were chosen specifically to arouse?
I had an epiphany years ago about a non-related topic that I think applies here. It was about a girl I was dating, and the choices she made. I was trying to wrap my head around what she did and make sense of it. I was talking out loud to myself and I said, "Why did she do that? Well, if I did that, what would *my* motivation be? I just wouldn't do that!" and at that moment it hit me: She did something I wouldn't do and I couldn't make sense of it because she wasn't me. She had totally different thought processes and motivations than me, so there's no way I could plug her actions into my framework and use that as a tool to make sense of it.
Coming back around to "putting ourselves in their shoes" (pardon my pun), we can't assume a motivation based on what our motivation would be if we were to make the same choice. Like I said previously, everyone is different. I happen to be a nudist. But do I go skinny dipping hoping to incite the lust of homosexual men, with a burning desire that they will overpower and rape me? Nope. I just don't like having wet shorts an hour after I'm done swimming. Neither can we safely assume a girl goes out wearing 4oz of clothing in hopes that men will follow her like wolves.
and as for miniskirts, I wear a sarong in the summer and can basically adjust the length by how much I fold it. I find it is most comfortable and free as short as possible. Again, nothing to do with wanting attention, in fact I would prefer to go naked, but to avoid attention I settle for having it short yet long enough to cover my junk and when I sit I have to adjust it make sure it covers my junk.
So I totally see how a miniskirt could be both something you wear to look sexy, and also something just to have a minimal amount of clothing for comfort, or also just an expression of your personal style.
I don't see what the whole insistence is on certain types of clothing HAVE to be cries for what has clearly been stated as unwanted attention. Do we want to create a type of Shaira law so that women are not allowed to wear anything except a specific type of non-revealing clothing in order to avoid unwanted attention? I for one appreciate miniskirts and other variety in women's clothing, and the last thing I want to do is behave in a way that discourages women from continuing to wear whatever they feel good in, and which I often find attractive.
They only complain at the guys that they aren’t interested in , but if it’s a guy she is interested in then it’s not an issue lol
DING DING DING!
It’s true , a girl that is dressing up and taking the time to look sexy is looking for attention , if a guy she isn’t attractive to whistles at her or even tries to approach her to strike up a conversation most the time she will be like ewww get away from me, but if it was a guy she thought was attractive and he whistled at her or walked up to start a conversation she will be all about it. A had a friend that would just randomly walk up to girls he found attractive at a bar or club and say you want to leave this joint and go have sex , a majority of the girls would be like ewww get away from me but he would eventually find one that said sure let’s go and he go and fuck her , so basically most girls that are dressing up sexy are looking for Dick they just are super picky when coming to find one they like , because if she is attracted to you it doesn’t matter what you say to her
There are so many examples out there that prove your words correct. Especially the part of it doesn't matter what you say as long as you're hot. So many tinder experiments that prove that alone. I have experienced the same thing. Because people perceive me as 'handsome', I have no issues striking small-talk with girls. The conversation can be about anything and I still manage to get the number.
Yes, I have gotten girls in bed by saying cheesy pick up lines , if she didn’t find me attractive then my cheesy pick up lines sure as hell wouldn’t work lol
Funny thing is that now lots of women are complaining about NOT getting any attention. They lowered the bar and now guys are bored plus afraid of being falsely accused of sexual assault/harassment.
Because of a lack of responsibility.
Even if they argue that they should stay safe of those whistles. Yeah, i also should stay safe of being mugged. Doesn't mean I don't take precautions so it doesn't happen.
Why do men whistle at some women going out in revealing clothes?
Women wear “revealing” clothing to feel good about themselves, women complain about men whistling at them because our intention with wearing comfortable clothing was to not be harassed by strangers whilst walking down the street.
I had a lady friend point out once she would dress in revealing cloths to get attention from boys. She says it works, guys can't stop themselves. If she needed a more relaxed night she would dress down.
Yes, I've come across this lame "reason" before. It's pure, unadulterated bullshit, and you know it. "Feel good about themselves" - there are other ways to do that you know.
BS response: the aim is definitely to attract attention though the exhibitionist may prefer that the attention be discrete. Comfortable clothing need not be a free public mobile strip tease. The person so-dressed wants attention. If the female needs to dress raunchy in public as a ego-stroking exercise, no problem. However she should remember that most men are hopelessly reactive to an attractive female body on open display. That is useful genetic programming, otherwise the human race would likely have never survived.
If you have to expose yourself to feel good about yourself, then you are stating that the only value you have is your vagina. Women wear these clothes to “feel attractive” based in what men in that society are drawn to sexually, which is why the first thing they do when trying on clothes is turn and look at their ass. To see if it “looks good” which only matters if you want to put it on display like a baboon trying to mate.
@Chriscunning Well, the context of the original question was “Why do women complain about men catcalling when they dress in revealing clothing”, your friend did not complain because her Intention was to receive attention. Therefore my point still stands valid.
@LogicBomber Nope, seems as if you’re projecting. Whenever you see a woman wearing “revealing clothing” you only value her by her genitals, that’s why you think she’s doing the same. When in fact you don’t know the woman, you don’t know if she values education, if she’s financially stable and a great person. Why? Because you’ve chosen to judge her based in the clothing she wears rather than the person she truly is inside.
nahhh women with class and dignity don’t need to dress like cheap hookers.
@TeeBar mangina simp
You said "Women" referring to everyone. I was merely pointing out every woman is different,
Is it necessary to whistle tho? Cuz last time i checked "minding your own business" was free.
Because clothing isn’t an invitation to be a disrespectful pervert.
It’s so annoying that men have the mentality that the way we dress is to please them then get pissed off and defensive when we tell them it’s not. What do you guys do when it’s hot out? The majority of you will walk around shirtless and in shorts, why? Because it’s cooler and more comfortable. Nobody questions you or tells you that you’re asking for attention when you do that. But the second a woman shows some skin? Y’all scream that she is asking for your attention like no Steve I’m just fucking warm. The double standards is insane and the lot of you are so deluded and entitled that you don’t realise how much of a pervert you look.
Is that so? So you wake up in the morning wearing makeup and dressing sexy for yourself even though you don't go out of the house? Because as far as I know, the majority of women don't bother make themselves look good if they aren't even planning on going outside. You dress for yourself. So you feel good by how OTHERS (men) perceive you. So why ARE you showing skin to the public? Ever heard of sex appeal? You're another example of a female who is ingenuine about her intentions. Or perhaps aren't even fully aware of them herself. Which makes you slow.
Bruh I haven’t left the house since MARCH because of a pandemic yet I’ve still gotten dressed, did make up because it made me feel good about myself. Y’all are so delusional I swear 🤡🤡🤡
Notice how the majority is only men disagreeing when women have told y’all time and time again that we are allowed to do these things to feel good about ourselves? Because the lot of you are fucking delusional pricks that ask us why then tell us we’re wrong when we give you an answer that you don’t like. Idiots.
Absolutely correct. The double standards are insane. An example of that is that both genders have boobs with nipples and ass, but only women’s get sexualised and perceived as a way to get attention, while it shouldn’t even be sexualised in the first place since they’re body parts of both genders. As for dressing, i literally put on make up and LIPSTICK when i knew I was going to wear a mask, and if this isn’t the proof that we dress up for ourselves to feel good then I don't know what is lol. Men are just insecure beings with a gigantic ego who believe everything we do is for them since they have superiority complex and can’t stand women who are independent, smart and sexy since subconsciously they know that they are way out of these women’s leagues and it hurts their ego to not be needed.
Honestly doesn’t matter how many times we tell them... their over inflated self righteous entitled egos only hear ‘me me me’. As if we didn’t spent 6 months in our houses and still dressed up and did our make up yet we’re still doing it for ‘men’. It’s insanity how they don’t hear how stupid they sound.
You know what’s also funny? That these fools will tells us we’re doing it for male attention but then cry online anonymously because they can’t get laid, or because they got friendzoned or turned down. Make it make sense.
Lol the dislikes prove that you are right. What i get from this app is, that the more you get dislikes from incels, the more it indicates you're speaking the truth 😊
Yep 100% and the fact that the only dislikes are from men just prove it as well 😊
My friend wears literally hijab aka is extremely modest but she still get catcalled/harrassed. I dont understand the deal here. Why do some guys cry for not having the right to harrass you. Buy a big dog since many of these perverts are afraid of dogs
Exactly! Like how dare they not have an excuse to be a creepy little pervert. They’re so butthurt that not everything is about them it’s hysterical 😂
I have a lot muslim friends. Some of them even wear burkha but they complain how they get cat called. It is enough for them to know that you are a female to cat call you.
Yep I was 12 wearing baggy trousers and a t shirt and I got cat called and groped by a grown man
Omg... i am sorry for you😔. I wish you all the best❤❤
Thank you lovely, and you as well ❤️❤️
You too love! And if he does get hit by a rock it’s his own fault, he was asking for it since he wasn’t wearing a helmet 😌
If you quit talking crap/bullshit, maybe it would not be removed. It is not nice to victim blame. Please stop it. You also would not like if some gay men harrass. It is very sensitive topic, so please a little understanding
**you also would not like it, if some gay men harrass you. I know men who was victim of it, and they were a little tramatized. So be careful with your words since it is very sensible topic
^definitely
@hi_it_is_me123 OP cowars behind the "I don't want to see this" option when she is met with counter arguments. And I never victim blame because you cannot be a victim and the perpetrator at the same time. In my comments I've made (which she removed), I made it clear that catcalling and giving unwanted attention is not valid because someone happens to dress with something revealing. However, it is our responsibility to lessen the odds of attracting unwanted attention from fools by paying attention to how we dress. The way we dress is how the world will perceive and treat us. Hence why you wear something neat when going on a job interview. You dress to impress. And I got called out by gay men when passing LGBT bars in Amsterdam before. So I do understand the issue. And I was wearing something neat aswel. If you dress as a modest person, like your Muslim friend (with a hijab) and you still get harassed, that's not your fault, but the idiots who harass you. But if you choose to wear revealing clothes, you're indirectly asking for these stuff to happen. The world is full of degenerates with bad manners.
no it’s just you’re not willing to hear it from our side so what’s the point in even trying to converse with you?
you think it’s all about you, that everything we do is all about you and you’re not willing to hear our explanation for why we dress why we do or wear make up... you’re not even willing to take it into consideration because you’re too obsessed with the idea that women do it to please men and you don’t want to hear differently so what’s the point in continuing trying to explain things from our point of view when you’re stuck in your own silly mindset?
Op cowars? What? I am just saying clothes dont matter i get cat called for wearing modest clothes. These perverts will cat call you if they know you are a female. I was harrassed as a kid too. So it does not matter. Also nowdays hijabi girls get attacked by some racist people. I know a girl who was beaten up for wearing hijab.
we’re telling you first hand that we dress for ourselves and wear make up for ourselves but you just don’t want to hear it so please tell me what is the point in trying to talk to you about it when you’re convinced otherwise? you’re not even open to the idea that what we do is for ourselves and not men 🙄
Never claimed is all about me. So quit putting words in people's mouths. And you wear and dress for yourselves because you get validation from the outside world. hence why the majority of women refrain from wearing makeup and dressing indoors (with exception to Zoom/Teams meetings during Covid), but do so when going out or to meetings. Why? Because as i said, it boosts one's self esteem when others perceive them as good looking. That's why you do it for yourselves. It's not like you're getting turned on by yourselves when looking in the mirror.
And removing other's comments and refuse to understand goes to show that you're closed-minded and can't stand people not agree wit you. You can delude yourself and others like you all you want, but people don't buy into the "I do it for myself" argument. Since in the end, you do it for yourself THROUGH others.
No, I’m telling you why I dress the way I do. You do not get to tell me why I dress the way I do. I fucking hate male attention so trust me when I say that the last person I’m trying to ‘impress’ is men. You’re literally just proving my point though. Now go away, I don’t talk to entitled little boys.
hi_it_is_me123 I was talking about @Anonymous deliberately removing my comments because she refuses to want to hear from others who aren't echo chambers. And yes anyone who harasses a woman for what she wears is a pervert. Even more when that woman wears something modest. And I know very well the struggles of hijabi women. Especially here in the west. Getting attacked by racists and bigots. I remember there was a pregnant Muslim woman who got physically attacked and her belly kicked multiple times.
And for your info, I do wear make up when I’m home alone, why? Because it’s fun and I like it. My cousin will sit there for hours doing her make up just to not go anywhere, why? Because SHE likes it. Now get over yourself. You’re the one refusing to hear others opinions.
And the fact that men disliked the comment saying that what we wear doesn’t give people the right to act creepy and perverted with us just proves my point ☹️
As in the comment I've written to you, which you end up removing (twice). Pointing to exceptions to the rule does not disprove the rule. You do not represent the majority of women who don't wear makeup at home (except if they are experimenting). If you claim that women wear makeup at home, I can name you many more I know in my life who don't.
The basic fact remains that we dress to impress. And if we impress, we increase our confidence.
I only removed one. So I don’t know why it was removed again.
And still, there were plenty of women doing their makeup in lockdown. Why is it so hard to believe that some people dress to feel good for themselves?
I don't think you get the psychological dynamic behind it. It IS for themselves, yes. But waht you fail to understand that it's mostly done through others. It's the same thing as someone says "I like to give presents because it makes me feel good. So ultimately I do it for myself".
Agree to disagree. That’s all I’m going to say.
That's the only thing I can agree with.
I also agree to disagree to your bullshit. If you get mugged, you can't be the perpetrator, so can't be a woman with revealing clothes. so it is disgusting to victim blame women with revealing clothes. This is like saying a woman is rapist for getting raped because of her clothes. So you are speaking bullshit. It is also hypocritical. You also would not say, you are a rapist for gettig raped by a man because of training half naked outside. So you donz cry then, when you get raped because of your clothes. I also dont like how you talk like that about extrem sensible topic.
@hi_it_is_me123 Clearly my point went right over your head. By "perpetrator" it means also being at fault to a certain degree. It was my fault to wear a Rolex in a place that will eventually get me mugged. And nice of you bringing rape into this, while we are comparing getting something stolen from you and catcalled to getting physically raped. Get the fuck out of that bullshit gas lighting of yours. Don't put words like that in my mouth. If you can't fathom the idea that the more provocative you dress, the more likely unwanted attention you will get, then I guess go and try it for yourself. Becaues it sounds to me like you're living in a cave secluded from the world. This is reality. Even though you can wear perfectly normal clothes, you can still get cat called, but the chances compared to wearing something revealing is way less. That is my point. And I couldn't care less about if you like how I say it or not. Well, doesn't shock me since you've literally put these words about rape in my mouth. Which is absolutely despicable!
I dont put a shit in your mouth but iwill do it, when you keep talking bullshit. I just give an example. So stop with the bullshit of gas lighting and stop oveinterpreting. My example just show how stupid you sound by saying women can be perpetrator for wearing revealing clothes. So ge tf ofhere. We should blame the perverts andnot the women. Itwould not change shit if all women wear burkha. What isthe next locking yourself in the house? A bettr solution would be to make civil police women waring revealing clothes in order to find all the perverts and many people would stay away from women with revealing clothes since they would think they are civil police. So fuck off with your sensless solution. Even if you make all women wear burkha, people like youwouod still blame them. I also recommend a pig dog, since the many perverts are afraid ofit lol. Nowstfu
Go sleep. How are even active 7/24. Dont you ever sleepwtf
Deicable is your baseles statements. A victim is avictim. Period.
@hi_it_is_me123 "I dont put a shit in your mouth but iwill do it, when you keep talking bullshit" doesn't make sense at all. And once again my point went right over your head. Truly no point in explaining it to a closed-minded individual like yourself. Also, isn't it funny how you always tell me not to talk to you and to stop "stalking" you, but then again you come to my by yourself? Another example which shows your hypocrisy. Perverts are definitely to blame. At the same time, if we do things that provoke perverts even more, then we are also at fault. You're notorious of yelling at people and calling them "misogynists". But here is where you ironically prove their point in women unable to take accountability & responsibility. Which is a shame really. I'm going to say it again. If you wear something revealing, then expect your chances of getting catcalled increased. Men are very visually stimulated. It's like putting candy infront of a child and then blame the child for eating it even though the child knows he isn't allowed to eat it. But then again, why the hell are you putting that candy infront of him?
Take your own advice and go fuck off yourself. You're truly too gullible to know how the real world works.
@hi_it_is_me123 My sleep schedual is determined by my training schedual. And funny you say I'm 24/7. How would you know without you being here yourself. So how do you know if I ever sleep or not? Oh wait, you don't. because we don't talk to each other all day. Don't worry love, especially tomorrow, I'll not be here a lot.
Fuck of yourself. If come here tome with your bullshit and try to talk shit, i dont stfu, brainless weirdo. You are the one with close mind and i did not t even know you are here. You try so hard to change people minds and never accept that people dontgoing agree with yourbullshit. You are then one who canstantly call people simps/snowflake for not siding with you. So stfu.
I am just saying we can find solution to this problem but you aretrying to restrict victims instead. I am just saying your solutions are useless. Like it or not
Restricting women's freedom dont solve the problem, otherwise women with burkha would not get raped/harrassed in middleeastern countries. Harrassment is a isue everywhere regardless of clothes.
Notorious? Are you ultra notorious for calling people simps? You are Hypocrite. Men ain't children by the way. So you are the one who want to blame women and make the women have the responsibility/accountability by saying men are vusual and so should not beblamed for their failures. Just Stfu. The mor you speak the more you make less sense
@hi_it_is_me123 As always comments full of projection, lack of accountability and throwing a temper tantrum. Like I said, you're too gullible to even grasp the slighest form of reality *yawn*
Keep playing victim, sweetheart. Even though you're also to blame for your actions.
"Harrassment is a isue everywhere regardless of clothes." thanks for repeating what I said.
@hi_it_is_me123 LMFAO even that simple analogy went over your head HAHAHAHAH
I did not read your bullshit :)
What anology? You even can't make statements with sense, brainless hypocrite. Please stfu, if you are the one who provocate, full ofbullshit, and throw tantrum everywhere with your spam. As i said, you can't go further with your useless solutions.
Lol you are trying againto attack me by try to get help by others under the opinion of other gagersYou are pathetic coward, who constantly need help by other. Go learn to defend yourself
@hi_it_is_me123 Another "intelligent" reply. As expected. Run along sweetie. Go play victim like you've always had 😂. It's always MENS fault. mEn aRe EvIl!
Another idiotic reply. You ain't a man. Stop trying to makeother gagers toattack me
@hi_it_is_me123 I'm lowering myself to your level, sweetie. at least you acknowledge the place from where you talk to people is idiotic indeed. You're the one picking fights with others on their posts by insulting them. I don't have to set people up against you. You're doing it all on your own. No me. Thanks for proving you lack accountability (once again). Getting mad when people throw your own shit back at your face and then get mad. We get it, it's all men's fault. We men are evil.
What a pathetic excuse. Now you blame it all on me if youare the oe with full of bullshit. You just prove your lack accountability. Please if you talk shit to me, iwill defend myself. Go tell all this bullshit to yourself and take your own advice, brainless stupid coward
Men are notevil. You ain't a man. Also stop trying sohard to have the last say everywhere. Are you that incesure?
@hi_it_is_me123 That which you call "bullshit" is a perspective which is far more nuanced than yours and looks at things from a realistic perspective other than blame 1 side and make the other look completely innocent. But of course, it doesn't suit your victim mindset. *yawn*
Awww you try so hard to have the last word. How ridiculous and pathetic you are. That says a lot ifyoz. Are yougoing to reply to me till daylight, if idont let youhave the last word hm?
Lol you pathetic stupid brainless looser. You are the lowest of lowest You are really narcistic for trying so hard to have the last word. It is just show your lack of maturity.
@hi_it_is_me123 Funny, same can be said about you. Perfect example of projection. I'm going to give you exactly what you want to sooth your emotional instability. The last word which you crave. You can write whatever you want, I'm not even going to bother read your rant. Good night love <3
Oh finally, f*ck off now with your emotional instability yourself. Take all your advice to yourself. Please dont ever mention me anywhere.
Because you are deceitful liars.
Potential rapist is here. How many women did you harrass, disgusting creature? Deceitful is your whole nature
Go away yourself stupid reratted piece of shit, the lowest of low. Dont ask questions, if you can't endure the replies, you fucktard.
Lol why are so sad for not having a right to harrass women?
This is exactly why I don’t like men 😌
Thank you!
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@Anonymous Then enjoy staying single and being a catlady I'd say.
Sounds much nicer.
Follow me by the way! @anon. By the way ignore this pathetic mgtow brainless fucktard' s rant who try so hard to have the last word, cry when people defend themself or get triggered when people treat him the way he treat people. You can't agree with him unless you become a pick me girl He is known for being a hypocritical snowflake. He call everyone feminazi/simp. Youhave to be a female simp in order to accepted by him. Ihave seen him supportin or being nice to people such as KrakenAttackin who are known for their antiwoman mindset but also he can't accept that he is just a meninazi aka antiwoman. Lol what a hypocrite. He can't just accept thst people also would talk shit about him, when he talk shit at people himself. He is just narcist who love to project his shit on people like he use mental illness as an insult. He also love to provocate people , spam them and mention their nicknames but cry when people defend themself. He is nothinh but a looser who gang up on people but also act like it isthe person's fault
Lol he also said that single dads are deadbeats but he is also nice to KrakenAttackin who is single dad too. Lol he attacked single parents but also support or is nice to KrakenAttackin since agree with his retarted mindset. I am just curious what KrakenAttackin would do if he knew that truthbringer just hate and talk shit about single parents.
He has no respect to racist people but respect sexist people. He has no logic.
@AutophileAngel ”The double standards are insane. An example of that is that both genders have boobs with nipples and ass, but only women’s get sexualised and perceived as a way to get attention, while it shouldn’t even be sexualised in the first place since they’re body parts of both genders.”
So you’d be fine with your daughter walking around topless? That’s disgusting
@potatoechip29 noone should be allowed to walk topless on the streets point blank period. But at least you recognise the double standards that for men to walk topless is okay while for women is not. But I’d never be okay with either my daughter or my son to walk on the streets topless.
Because they both want to behave inappropriately and dictate how others behave. You know, it's their right to act the way they want but you don't have the right to behave as you want.
We don't. We complain when we don't go out in revealing clothes but we still get men whistling at us.
Cause they asking for it so they wanna act innocent I said this on another question
Has anyone told you that for your age, you're wiser than the average adult female GAG user who denies this
Yeah I think it's funny 💯😂
That makes two morons actually 😂
You’re the definition of a pick me girl, luckily one of em picked you 💀
Gtfo 🚮💯
@doopayo Did you call that a comeback? What the hell am I even bothering with another 14 year old with 💀
She's a retard 😂💯
Got the nerve to be up in my shxt too like no I can handle it 💯😇
@d00payo And you're butthurt because you chose to create a duplicate account which is against the rules of this website. And yeah the way you dress doesn't mean conscent. But you're indirectly asking for what's coming to you. The way you dress is how people will perceive you. The way people perceive you determines how they will treat you. And if you dress like a slut, be ready to attract the low-lives and their unwanted attention. But doing it regardless, means you are asking for the unwanted attention. So in the end, Tracey is right.
@traceybyrd No point in blocking people who happened to disagree with you, only if they truly start to get annoying.
I block retards cus they worthless & like I said ur too hurt cus ur a lame coming in my shxt soo haaa gtfooo @ truth know what I'm saying soo 💯✨ .
I'm a flavorful charm so gtfo
Ofcourse imma keep blocked annoying scums don't matter to me 💯😂
I should know better lame gtfo go get hit by a truck ur a nobody anyway
Yeah under another comment, @doopayo said that she hopes I get hit by a brick lmfao she is so triggered
@ truth smh she don't know what she talking about she's rude cus she's wrong
Because they are hypocrites. They think they can act any way they please and yet expect only a reaction acceptable to them. They are deranged to believe that.
It's the same thing if a guy wears expensive clothes and has $100 bills hanging out of his pocket. He will attract gold diggers.
Isn’t that the definition of victim blaming? I under where your coming from but, a true gentleman should never cat call a member of the opposite sex, he can compliment a woman but never make her feel uncomfortable.
What if the female is so unhinged that even a simple compliment makes her "feel uncomfortable"?
@Yaaten ehhh good point
Understand*
Because it's their body why do you walk half naked on the streets all the time? No one should force anyone or harass they have rights to live however they want unless they're hurting someone
Then I should be able to run around with my dick flapping in the wind why do we need cloths!
@VanillaSalt I know right Hahahha
@VanillaSalt that was a dumb excuse have you seen any woman running without bra and panties lol?
I’ve seen women running around with their asses hanging out and no panties on in a mini skirt in public... does that count? Besides the point of cloths is to cover if your trying to show as much as possible I figure wth I’m not embarrassed by my 6 inches or my 6 pack hidden u set this 20 extra lbs of good food.
But seriously can I run around in ag string where only just barely my shits covered out will that make you uncomfortable?
@VanillaSalt grow up man no woman walks with bikini in the city and dont talk about your little duck all the time that shows how sick you are
@VanillaSalt no it won't here in my country guys walk shirtless most of the time and wearing shorts nobody gives sht never seen a girl whistling and harassing them so gender equality is must
Oh shut up your a stupid child what do you know. You fucking kids don’t understand the meaning of restraint.
Why do loser dudes think that the girls are dressing in order to be harassed by a bunch of goobers?
They don't want to be harassed by a bunch of goobers. They don't mind it from that stud called 'Chad'. Why dress in a way that attracts goobers, to begin with? You can't be a victim while being the perpetrator. It's like me complaining getting mugged in a ghetto for wearing a Rolex. Shitty people are out there. So act accordingly. Survival of the fittest.
@TruthBringer They can dress how they choose. It is not an invitation to be an asshat. But I do like how you, in effect though clearly unintentionally, compare those who harass them to criminals who would mug someone.
@liam_hayden Yeah anyone who starts to catcall or do any other type of harassment is a lunatic with no manners (usually failures in life). And it's true that the way a woman dresses is no invitation for unwanted behavior. But it's a reality we have to accept. They are there and will always be there. So the best thing to do is adjust. So whenever a woman goes out with provocative clothing, she has to accept the fact that she will have to deal with such behavior. And by that, she is no victim anymore. Because she willingly took the risk.
That's easy. They are mentally ill people.
I believe the correct nomenclatureis is wacko, or cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs.
Because they are entitled to dress as they please while the men’s behavior is offensive and threatening.
My tip for all you women out there if you don't want the attention then don't dress like it dress like you is like asking for attention
Because we live in the era where what's good for women is good for everyone. I don't like whistling though
Maybe kind of fd up but I like attractive boys my age to look at me because I like them too. However 40 yo men, no thank you
The men in the comments are fucked up. They probably believe it’s acceptable to rape a woman if she wears skimpy clothing.
Exactly what I thought! Have a look at a reply I got to my comment! You’d think we’re still in like medical area or something... wake up call guys - it’s a 21st century!
Our culture is definitely misogynistic and there's a disgustingly large amount of male privilege that goes with that, so your comment is spot on. I wish it were different, but it's not. The world is changing, but it's slow going.
@argyle what a white knight simp
Because they are stupid. Women don’t know what they want. I see no problem trying to talk to a girl as long as it’s done in a respectful way, but still you will have some women who dress that way for attention and still complain.
All this females right shit and feminist shit makes me sick. You can’t win with women. Women have more rights then men over your children, assault, rape, a woman can say whatever. If it’s a guy they are interested in I guarantee they want have nothing bad to say. Now days every girl has a Onlyfans and they don’t want to fuck with you unless you can do something for them. Being a man ain’t the greatest thing on earth for women that complain they need a sex change because it’s past equal rights.
Don't get me wrong I'm not a fan of girls but it's one thing to wear revealing clothes and tempt guys but another to whistle. That's a more of a mind your own business thing you wouldn't do it fully clothed why with less clothes.
Well going in revealing dress is their decision but reacting on them is ours... we can alter them but we can alter our actions... as simple as that...😇
Well, I am not a whistler but I know this much. If you don't like being whistled at, just wait. It will stop. And when it does, what do you think then?
Because they love the attention, but dont want society to think that they do.
Women desperately want attention but they only want attention from Giga-chads. Women fail to realize that dressing like a prostitute will bring attention from all kinds of people, not just Giga-chad.
In short, women are willingly clueless.
They "complain" just to get attention. They don't actually mind that. They act like victims because they want people to think "wow everyone whistles at her because she's so pretty, everyone wants her...". It's all an act.
All I know is that if I were to break up with someone, I wouldn’t be wearing my sexy clothes.
The line that divides creepy/pleasant behavior is attraction. Girls seek pleasant experiences and deem experiences when unattractive men whistle at them as creepy.
Ya just gotta follow rule 1, and not forget rule 2.
What’s your problem if someone wearing a revealing dress or not... you just do what is right for you.. not for others.
If you are good - even someone naked around - shouldn’t bother you...
I get catchall walking hime from school. It has nothing to do with clothing, and everything to do with power
You're absolutely right and you can see it in the comments. So many men assuming they have the power to decide what women wear, what is acceptable and what isn't. It reminds me of Sharia Law where men decide women must wear full covering robes and a face mask, any woman who doesn't can be raped and killed and it's "her fault".
@zeitgeist057 Spotted the white knight
@anonymouscoward Ad hominem attacks are much easier than logic, I agree.
Feeling like this question is just begging for the over sexualization nature of American culture...
Would you like to be whistled at by your friend's dad if you go out wearing a light vest and shorts?
they only complain if they don't like the man in question.
Because the guys that whistle at them are not the super hot guys that they want to whistle at them.
I mean it's rude but some would take It as a compliment
Women wear sexy clothes because they want attention form the top 20% of men.
The other 80% noticing is an unhappy side effect.
Because without the clothing which attracts the stares and whistles, what would they have to complain about?
I don't complain unless the guy is disgusting about it
If he is ugly ewww creep, if he is Chris Hemsworth or Tom Ellis aww so cute he wants me. Theheh 😂
Its only disrespectful if an unattractive guy does it.
If it’s once and stops their but keep going on. I love going to the clubs when possible.
@eleni079 hey there can i follow you?
Because they like teasing men lol, but I thank all women for doing so and brightening up my day!
Right? 😄
dress like X, be treated as a X. It's really that simple.
A concept the majority of them are either not aware of or are hypocritical to admit
@TruthBringer
Or lack the neurons to process this simple data.
Based on your logic, we should follow you and harass you when you decide to walk shirtless or with a V-neck shirt or shorts. Or maybe we should treat y'all like clowns since that’s literally how majority of you look like with the way you dress.
@AutophileAngel
Wow. Just wow.
I didn't even say that.
I won't bother with this kind of female logic 🤦♀️
Dress like X be treated like X, wasn’t it?
@AutophileAngel
Fill in the blank.
If you consider showing clevage and legs a reason to be sexualised, then we should also sexualise you when you wear V-neck, OR NO TOP, and shorts, no? 🤦🏻♀️
@AutophileAngel
Aren't women doing that already?
Or wait. Most of them probably don't. Maybe because more women have manners just like some of us men have manners not to catcall women wearing slutty outfits and telling them "nice boobs". We normal men looking for long term relationships wouldn't waste our time doing that. Class attracts class. Pigs to the sluts. Ladies to the gentlemen. Pick your class.
@AutophileAngel Showing cleavage and legs isn't a direct invitation, but an indirect one. Haven't mommy and daddy taught you that the world is full of messy people? It's up to us to act accordingly. If you choose to dress something revealing despite knowing you most likely will attract the wrong sort of attention, then babe you're no victim. What you portray out of the world is how you will be perceived. And how you are perceived is how people will treat you. Dress well, then you decrease the odds of unwanted attention. Dress like a slut, then you're increasing your chances to get treated as one.
@Unit1 You're right. Lack of neurons to process simple data it is.
@TruthBringer
That bitch is blocked. I do not negotiate with degenerates, who lack simple human manners. In adulthood it should be present at the latest (we are not teenagers anymore). If not, then consequences will follow. This is called being a responsible adult 1o1 and this also applies to how you or anybody else dresses.
In other words - bite me and it will be war (not you specifically).
@Unit1 Very well said, mt friend. The funny thing is, it's women like her that fuel the stereotype of women not able to take accountability and responsibility of their own actions. It's always someone else's fault. There is a reason why people with respectable jobs or even going to job interviews dress neat and not as a thug/slut. But try explaining that to these degenerates indeed. SMDH...
@TruthBringer
True that. Lead by being an example :)
Follow the MASS and you'll end up looking with the M being silent.
Because some women are dumb. And also they only get mad when dudes they wouldbt fuck whistle at them. And I suspect they like that as well
Cuz its rude they rather be looked at as sexy not as sluts
Women dress like whores to be attractive to the top 1% of men. They consider any man in the lower 99% to be unworthy of looking at them.
This is a stupid misogynistic complex. Do women whistle at men when they‘re walking around with a „revealing“ shirt or topless etc? I don‘t think so. Nothing about a women's body is even inherently sexual but if she looks sexy then you can admire not objectify. The same way women would admire a man's body. And if you don't you are a creep and need to learn to control yourselves, you are not animals.
@Nina1158 Truth hurts, sugar-tits.