What do you think makes a woman "Easy"/ seem "Easy"?

[Anonymous]

I look like a 7.5/10. I feel that most people assume that I'am "easy" and I have no clue why. What could it be? What are things that make men think/ assume a particular girl/ woman is easy? It's frustrating. Especially when my boss/ etc other elderly men assume so. by the way, I'm a 23 year old virgin (by choice), Asexual, who's never had a relationship but i can assure that it all does not reflect oddly in my personality or something and these men probably have no clue about it. and also, I'm content with my life.

Could there be anything I can do to change this?

Please answer both the parts of the question. Thanks. :)

[kaylaS91]

They might think you’re sexually active for no reason other than, at 23, you’re past the average age at which most women have entered that stage of their life. I didn’t have sex till I wee just shy of 22 and even then, it became a pattern that friends who I’d run into from hs (only the male ones) would ask me if it’s true that I’m a virgin, and that they can’t believe it.


As for how to change that.. don’t. I mean, why should you? People will always judge you, be it because you’re too prudish or not prudish enough. Only have sex when you actually want to, vs with the intent of living up to peoples perceptions of how you should be living, yknow?

[SashaAMB]

It’s not about your look. Guys who only want sex will hit on anyone they are attracted to, whether you show interest or not. The good guys usually wait for a signal to approach. If you are finding a lot of men who are only after sex, get away from them and start looking at the guys in your sphere who are being gentlemen and give them your attention instead.

[winterfox10]

It's mostly the way the woman carries herself. Any woman who runs around partying a lot, saying how she doesn't need a man and how she dresses for herself, I just automatically assume that she's probably easy. I'm sure there are women who behave that way who aren't easy, but I've met enough of them who are easy to have noticed a pattern.

[Anonymous]

Maybe how you dress, it’s hard to know without seeing

[Sia_nee]

They tell you this to your face? That's rude tho

[pokenstroke]

Maybe it is the way you act or dress