My wife is 28. When we sleep at home or somewhere where there is no one else in the room, we always sleep naked.
When she visits a toilet at night, she doesn't put anything on. Of course, it's okay at home. But she does the same even if we are not alone: for example, if we rent a house with a company of friends on holidays, or if someone stays at our house.
Of course, when she leaves the bedroom, she makes sure that there is no one there, the light is off and it seems that everyone is sleeping. But some risk definitely exists. There is a possibility that someone doesn't sleep but stuck in the phone on the sofa with lights off. Or someone can come out while she is in the toilet.
Can you choose, what emotions in your mind her behavior creates? What would you think if your female friend said that she behaves like that?
Oh, she is stupid
Oh, she is careless
Oh, she is brave
Oh, she is risky
Nothing special
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The girl walks out of the room naked while friends are sleeping?
She's risky. She enjoys the element of possibly being caught or seen. Not that she wants to be seen, just the risk of the possibility.
It's like undressing with the curtains open, but your on the second or third floor. The element is there, but it's not that they actually want to be seen.
It may be a type of fantasy she has. Try talking to her about it. See if there is something you can do to make it happen for her or add a little calculated adventure to the love life.
The only real way to find out is to talk to her. I wouldn't jump to conclusions. But, if you know about it, and are okay with it, then there shouldn't be a problem. It's between you and her.
Well it sounds like You're the only one BOTHERED by it and she's either NOT BOTHERED about being naked or seen naked by others. OR She does it because she wants to fuck with you OR She's oblivious to how you feel and instead of asking US, you should analyze your feelings and explain to her that you don't like her leaving the room "indecently" in the company of others. Whether the others are awake or asleep. It could send the wrong thoughts to someone and mess up a good friendship.
She is married and she is supposed to be married to you. That is so disrespectful. If you told her you don't like what she did and she doesn't listen to you, that means she doesn't respect you. If she can go naked at other people's homes, what makes you think she isn't messing with them either? No matter how comfortable I am, I wouldn't do that against my husband and neither would I would want my husband to do that against me. I wouldn't have that as friends at all. My friends who did anything where they were comfortable naked did so only with their spouses or partner. NOT other people unless you were of the same sex.
Why did you conclude that I told her I don't like it? I didn't talk with her about it. And she was never exposed naked to friends. She just admits some risk.
The actual risk is, that someone that's very close to you as a friend that sleeps at your place might see you as a walking dark silhouette for about three to five seconds... and the chances of that happening are way low.
That would not be a big deal, at all. And there is no need to be so insecure about that, and if you assume that it might get worse than this, then you're not really trusting your wife and neither your friends, family, relatives or whoever you let to be in your house, at nights.
I'm sure that in the worst case she will just be seen by a friend. Definitely, nothing else will happen. The only thing that's not true is about silhouette: depending on the time, it can be quite lightly.
Most people, especially friends... won't just stare and ogle and lust over friends in this situations, they will do whatever needed to avoid an awkward situation. That is what friendship is.
Now, if you think that the friend in this case will be lecherous about it, or creepy... well, I am 99% sure that such friend is already looking at your wife the same way, even if she's fully clothed, because that's what men do... these kind of lustful attitudes will be there, whether people see you naked or not.
Also, if you're worried about her, and think that she might do this on purpose or with whatever intention, I am also quite sure that if she wanted to provoke a situation like this, she would do it differently, she would do it way earlier, or way more often till it actually happens and probably more than one time.
I don't know the details but I think this is not the case at all, she's just going to the bathroom at night while everyone else is SLEEPING.
If you do not trust this situation at all, here's a simple solution for you. If you know that she's getting up and going to the bathroom this is because you're awake yourself, so get up and walk to the door, go down the hall... see for yourself if there's actually other people somewhere in the dark... and if you do this often enough and see that there's nobody actually there, then this might put your mind at ease.
Maybe that's just how she feels comfortable. It's what she knows and she sticks with it. I don't think she has any alternative motives with it. She just is more comfortable at night naked. But I get where you are coming from, it is an interesting habit 🤔
Buy her a super comfy robe if you’re worried about it, if it feels good to wear she might be more open to tossing it on along the way if her going naked makes you uncomfortable. You can’t make her obviously but making it as easy as possible might persuade her to compromise.
Is that possible embarrassing moment really not a big deal for a girl? I thought that appearing completely naked in front of some random guy is super awkward.
As I said in another thread, I asked this question because I don't know what do I want. On the one hand, I don't want her to be seen naked, while on the other hand, it turns me on that she's gone naked to the public zone. So before buying her a robe, I want to understand, does it bother me or maybe I like it. And opinions left here help me to decide.
Does she care if anyone sees her naked? Some people, even some women, don't consider it a big deal. When I was in college I went in a dorm bathroom one day (it was on a girls floor, but it was common for both genders to use the one common bathroom on each floor) and this girl was drying off after her shower and just stood there naked while toweling off. She even laughed a little as I was trying to avert my eyes to avoid staring.
I think that she wouldn't stay naked if she was caught accidentally. She definitely would try to cover and hide. But it's really not a big deal for her. She wouldn't recall it as an awful situation. Just "ok, it was a little awkward, let's just forget about it".
If my girl friend did that I would think she's extremely stupid, even worst if she's married (no offense). If she did that, knowing there are people in the house I would think she's trying to seduce someone who isn't her husband.
I asked this question because I don't know what do I want. On the one hand, I don't want her to be seen naked, while on the other hand, it turns me on that she's gone naked to the public zone.
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