duuuuude. The real question is what kind of guy would ever want a girl who would consider abs a deal breaker. I mean... most of us (dudes) don't have abs. This cannot be a deal breaker for any but a tiny minority of women... and again... who cares about them.
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I know, I admit I'm guilty of overthinking it My ex was always 100% honest with me, and she would tell me how attractive abs are on a guy, but she would tell me I'm all good too and there's nothing wrong with me
Though this comforts me a bit for now so thank youuu haha
Let’s be honest. I’d love to touch that. But it also frightens me lol. I don’t expect guys to look like that. That’s a lot of work and dedication
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Many women have your perspective too haha, I don't know why I care so much about this
What if there was a small layer of fat over them? Like the guy has a slim waist, the abs are somewhat visible, but you could still feel them under there if you touch? Would that make you less frightened?
For me, it isn’t a dealbreaker when a guy doesn’t have abs (it’s a bonus pt). I would actually need to overlook the fact a guy has abs since it literally turns me off. I find it so unattractive I would need to remind myself of what I actually find attractive in my partner. But if I give abs a chance and there’s no attraction there, then it’s off to the friendzone he goes. 👋
