Why is it so common for women outside of America to desire/accept sex so much?

[CasaNorba]

I would never say that women outside america are sluts or anything negative about the way they see sex but one thing I always notice is that these women see sex as something natural that humanity does. I should know cause I'm not originally from America and women where I'm from are nothing like this. the foreign women I've chatted with in the past were also prime example. its like no matter what women outside America seem to love being intimate with their s/o and never see any shame or ulterior motives about it.

American women in the other hand unfortunately do not see it this way. most women here are extremely prude and almost asexual. from my experience living in America I only seen 3 types of women and they are...

1. those who see sex as some sort of luxury that only men benefit out of.

2. others specially those who engage in the hookup culture see sex as a precursor to a relationship.

3. lastly there are those who use sex as the real luxury they accuse men of. and that is to get free dinner and the attention they lack in life.


So I alway wondered is sex not part of life? do women themselves not desire sex as much as we men do? or is this just another myth we were told in biology class? but the bigger question is Why do American women have this biology in reverse?

[Aurora1010]

I always thought the US was very open minded about sex? Even by the questions and answers I see here where most users are Americans... and I don't think you can generalize all of the women from outside the US as one either. Indian, Pakistani, or Indonesian girls are more conservative about it than American girls for example.

[CasaNorba]

do you believe all the horseshit you see on TV?

and yeah we americans might watch a lot of porn and read about nonsense but in the end just because your bark is pretty loud does not mean you bite. and I highly doubt Indian, Pakistani, or Indonesian girls are more conservatives than women here are otherwise prostitution would be illegal in India and Indonesia. and last time I check it was the Indians who started Kamasutra. and of course Pakistan like the majority of the middle east does have its religion boundaries

[Aurora1010]

Pakistan is not in the Middle East actually. Indonesians are Muslim so they are a more conservative country and I heard that even kissing in public in India is considered inappropriate.
I don't know, but just by coming on this forum I had that impression.

[CasaNorba]

again they are probably conservative because of their religion background and traditions, you said it yourself.

we americans in the other hand dont value religion and tradition as much. women here are just prude because they're stuckups and only have sex to achieve selfish end

[JohnK123]

Congrats u seeing the weird people of america

[Subarugirl]

Probably because women in the states are constantly shamed for being sexual while men are praised for it. A woman who has sex for enjoyment is a slut and whore but a man who dose the same is a stud and ladies men.

[CasaNorba]

"Probably because women in the states are constantly shamed for being sexual while men are praised for it."

not sure what "states" you're talking about cause I rarely hear women here get shame for that compared to the 90s and before. either way as I tried to explain in my op it always seem like women here dont mind being shamed at all if there is any sort of luxury coming out of that sex.

"A woman who has sex for enjoyment is a slut and whore "

lets say if this really was true, does this suddenly make it an excuse to justify the demand that luxury that women here get rewarded with when you expect them to sleep with you?

till then I love how you turned this whole thing into a gender biased argument when this op was originally about one gender; "OH BECAUSE IF MEN DO IT IS GOOD BUT WHEN WOMEN DO IT IS BAD!" in other words you're doing nothing but pointing fingers and claiming that men are the reason why women here have such reversed sex drive, "ITS MEN"S FAULT THAT WE ARE WEIRDOS!" no buddy, that is not how humanity works, people are the way they are because they chose to be who they are

[Subarugirl]

Right… so slaves were slaves because they chose to be, children are sex slaves because they chose to be, victims are victims because the chose to be?

If by expecting luxury do you mean an emotionally available, honest, partner? Because that’s what real women want.

[CasaNorba]

Dude how the fuck can you compare slut shaming aka something that rarely happens in todays world to slavery and being a victim? I guess feminism has already fried your brain bad enough. Also if you let such a simple little shit like slut shaming control your life then that’s your fault for giving powers to the losers who call you such things; your no damn victim.

And no look up luxury in the dictionary. If you expect “availability and honesty” from a partner than you obviously want more than just sex. You’re a prime example of what I met in my op because apparently just like the vast majority of women here you think that sex is a precursor to a relationship. And keep fooling yourself on this is what “real woman like” because you’re obviously never gonna get a “real man” with this mentality

[Subarugirl]

Slut sharing happens all the time, you just don’t recognize it because it doesn’t happen to you. It doesn’t control my life, but it does effect it, just like it effects everyone. Which I clearly pointed out above. Its people who are already in power pushing this massage. Little girls in school are thought to cover up instead of boys being taught not to objectify them. Purity culture runs rampant through our society. If you don’t see that you are not as perceptive as you would like to think you are.
I have a real man thank very much, and we have a happy family.

[JohnK123]

Victims can choose to be victims in the sense that they chose victimize a situation where there was no need for a victim they just wanted attention or money but if they didn’t there would be no need for a victim (this is some not all cases so chill)

[Subarugirl]

@JohnK123 of course but that is not what we are talking about, being a victim and having a victim mentality are two different things and I am not talking about the later. That is a totally separate issue.

[JohnK123]

You said “victims are victims because they chose to be”

[In_Trance]

Because it's amazing. Have you had it? You should have it. Fuck around and find out

[CasaNorba]

yeah back in my native country I have. not here in America though, because over here its everything but "amazing" and even worst you could end up becoming a sex offender if you fuck around and try to find out over here

[princeofromance]

They know how to please their men, unlike the women here in America.

[CasaNorba]

agree, over here you can give them free dinner or be as hot as Tom Cruise and they still struggle to please your ass

[fonduegirl]

Women in America have sexual liberty that most Asian women don't. Of course, they'd want it more. Culture and society has quite the backfire effect in such cases.

Sexual liberty must be given to all women in my opinion.

[CasaNorba]

who told you American women "want it more?"

[fonduegirl]

I said Asian women may be siding up with "more" concept.

[CasaNorba]

oh cause America women dont want shit unless it comes with something that will benefit them in the long run. otherwise they see it as nothing but a luxury that only benefits men.

and sure go ahead and establish more sexual liberty in your country, didn't knew you and the people in your country wanted marriage, relationships and dating to rot to hell like it has been here since women became "Sexually liberated"

[fonduegirl]

Women empowerment, I call it. I acknowledge that it's not.

[fonduegirl]

I'm obligated to clarify idc about marriage and kids. Dating is meh.

[CasaNorba]

I'm pretty sure rich white folks here in America are marrying women from your country and other nations in Asia and the Middle East for a reason.

I didn't knew you guys wanted to get down with the sickness so badly

[fonduegirl]

You should visit our girls college sometime then.

[CasaNorba]

I'm just saying, that empowering women at feminist level is not as good as it sounds in TV and movies.

[fonduegirl]

Perhaps.

[fonduegirl]

But I'd personally love it if I'd equal importance in society as a single, hookup oriented woman as any other.

[CasaNorba]

women in America the majority of them think sleeping around getting pregnant by random dudes and then killing those kids via abortion just because they dont feel like they're ready to be mothers yet is a NORMAL thing to do.

most women here are never happy and love their husbands and families, they're just happy to be married because being married is just a trend to them

more than 70% of the marriages here will always end up in divorce and more than 50% of those divorce are initiated by women

so yeah if you still think that women in your country deserve the same privileges that women here have then be my guess

[fonduegirl]

Sounds like a dream.

# Firm pro choice here.

[fonduegirl]

Divorce and abortion are very important

[CasaNorba]

abortion is important? Jesus I guess you folks in the east have no soul either

[fonduegirl]

Perhaps

[Gwenhwyfar]

Sex is a great thing. Im American and I’m not like any of those women.

[CasaNorba]

I dont have a problem or nothing against you if you are but a lot of these women I'm referring to are known for saying such statement

[Lifelive96]

I felt shocked to hear this. I knew that opposite is true.

[CasaNorba]

yeah stop watching TV and leave your house more often and then come back here and tell me if the opposite was true

[Lifelive96]

I do not live in USA. They reflect like it is the opposite. There are more conservative areas where women ‘’are obliged’’ like this. But many parts of the USA not conservative as far as i know

[CasaNorba]

yeah we Americans will reflect anything like its the opposite if you let our world of entertainment convince you.

being conservatives does not automatically mean you're asexual. when it comes to American women it has nothing to do with conservatism. it has more to do with ignorance, arrogance and egocentrism

[Lifelive96]

How are the men?

[CasaNorba]

men, a lot of men here are total simps who think that being nice and catering to their egocentrism is gonna get them laid. we also got a few incels here and some men who are like me who would rather fuck prostitutes and no cater to any women's demand.

aside from all these men there are those do get pussy and they usually look like this and have really bad criminal records and lack ambition in life