Why do some women hookup with guys their not interested the day they meet them, then make guys they say they are actually interested in wait for sex?

[Intothevoid666]

Maybe it’s just me but I don’t think I’m compatible with women who do this yet it seems like LOTS of women do this. Why do women do this I don’t understand?

[Pohjolan]

Different women behaving differently likely.
If the same woman is in the same circumstances more willing to have sex with guy A then guy B then she is objectively more interested in guy A.

However she might settle for guy B if guy A is a fuckboy she couldn't keep.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Probably because when they actually like the guy, they don’t wanna ruin everything by having sex on the first date.. It oftentimes gives off the wrong impression (just wanting to hookup). They want to save sex for later on so it’s more intimate and special.
I’m sure some guys do the same thing.
When people hook up, it usually means there are no strings attached and you never see them again or never form an actual connection or bond with each other.

[_Damien]

Having sex on the first date would never ruin anything with a man, ever.
Men gauge how special to you they are by how soon you have sex with them.

So this nonsensical, ass backwards logic achieves nothing apart from being an absolute, utter insult to whomever the lady is dating and if she gets caught she will find herself 100% dumped.

[bamesjond0069]

@_Damien half right. Yeah if she gets caught she will be dumped.

But this is wrong: "Men gauge how special to you they are by how soon you have sex with them." I dump every girl who fucks me the first date because that means she's a ho. But i also dump every girl who ever had sex with any man the first date because it also means she's a ho. The exception is if she is a virgin. My current girlfriend was a virgin and we had sex the first date. Not ideal but far better scenario than all these hos got going on because she was a virgin and chose me first. That means something.

Men gauge how special to you they are by a womans past.

[_Damien]

No, men don't do that. Inferior, little boys do.
The kind of boys who don't get any fuck in the first place.
And that's how they cope.

Isn't that right little boy?

[bamesjond0069]

@_Damien uhh how do i dump girls if they fuck me on the first date if i don't get any? I can see im talking to a brick. Smh.

[_Damien]

@bamesjond0069 You know you don't dump jack shit, because you don't get any.
Men who actually get laid don't slut shame women, because the "hos" want exactly what they want.
You cry about "hos" because you don't get any and that makes you feel bitter and inadequate on your fragile inside.

[bamesjond0069]

@_Damien men who actually get laid aren't afraid to slut shame a slut. I dont need sluts to be sluts. Thats easy. I need girls to be marriagable and not trash. I also dont need to try and trick girls by lying. Sluts are sluts and ill be honest about it. If you want to wife up 30 other guys sloppy seconds more power to you. I got more options so i dont need to accept that stupid ass sort of cuckold lite relationship.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

@_Damien You’ve got backwards thinkin, brotha. Lol

[Intothevoid666]

having sex on the first date when the girl has had a ONS before is 100x better than having to wait for sex. I’m never taking a girl seriously if I have to wait when other guys didn’t.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

That’s your opinion, but you asked why women do it, I gave you the best answer I could. My answer was solely based on what I have observed from other women.

[bamesjond0069]

I agree with what you just said except 1. Not all girls hookup. You make the assumption they have. Would you not wait a few months if a girl never had any hookups and made all guys wait a couple of months? 2. You say having sex right away is great and i agree if the girl has done it before, its the only way ill have any respect for a girl HOWEVER, i still view her as undateable since she's a slut.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Oh I never said all girls hookup and I never assumed that lol wtf.
If a girl waits to fuck you, then she probably values you more than other guys. That would make you special lol. You’d only have respect for a girl if they had sex right away? Wow… And then you call her a slut? I’m so confused lol.

[bamesjond0069]

@WhatTheHeckkkk Sorry that was response to @Intothevoid666

But to explain... some girls never have any hookups. These girls are the ones id date.

Some girls hookup, these girls i demand they have sex with me right away or else i won't associate with them. Either way i dont find them dateable because they have casual sex. So just friends with benefits or something like that.

[muscularbumblebee]

Because we don’t usually care the impression we give to the random hookup guy and see it just as fun for us, whereas we care for a guy we actually like and don’t don’t want to ruin his impression. (That we are long term material) also keep it off for longer so there’s more sexual tension if you actually like him

[Intothevoid666]

Woooooow woooooooooow wooooooooooow just wow. And this right here is why men don’t want to commit to women today. I’ll let you know most guys already know women do this and most guys will not go for it. I would MUCH rather date the girl who just hookups with me right away like she did other guys because now it’s the worst of both worlds. I’m dating a slut but a slut who won’t even be a slut for me. I appreciate the honesty tho.

[_Damien]

You aren't as attractive as the one they fuck, that's the correct answer.
Women hookup with hot guys, they put the less hot guys on back burner.