Basically I was sitting outside a club these men come over to talk to me I wasn’t even trying to look cute I wanted to go and was definitely not flirting with them I had my heads in my head and my coat over me I wasn’t interested.. Anyway, my friend comes out in her skimpy dress looking all nice they speak to her too, then they suddenly start arguing, she gets pissed at him for supposedly making fun of her nationality.
When her other friends black guy friends come to pick us up, she tells them what happened then she claims “oh and he said he wants to talk to me not her he said you’re more good looking” she says it loud in front of them and they all laugh and clap and she laughed too. … sign of a fake? Or simple joking? Ps: she is very insecure after this she was always asking me at the party it x, y, and z looked better or prettier than her so something tells me she asked him or made it up but to repeat it to humiliate me felt wrong.. pic of us that night for reference
Is this a sign she’s fake and intended to humiliate me for male attention?
I know it feels wrong, but it’s kinda of petty drama not worth wasting time over. What about the rest of the night? Or was that particular incident the highlight of the whole night?
I wasn’t going to let some dumb thing ruin my night I just kept enjoying it and ignored the guys when they tried to kiss up to me to make it seem like they didn’t just humiliate me
It’s not my fault it’s the people around me to be honest ….. my life was calm when I didn’t date didn’t have friends and just studied all the time or hung out with my family but where’s the fun in that
Sure, but she was being a bitch and you're not happy about it. In a better world, you'd have just gone out, met a few cute guys, got them pitching some tents, played a bit, and everyone would've had a happy ending.
They all laughed at me…? That’s happened to me before and I didn’t even tell the friend at the time because what she knows can’t hurt her plus why would I want to embarrass her or make her feel inferior
No I don't think they was laughing at u but laughing at the situation if they truly was laughing at u because they think she looks better then u to your face clearly u have some dig shit friends at which case u need to drop them
I mean I don’t care what the guys think none of them peaked my interest anyway it’s the fact that she seemed to enjoy them saying it and laughing at it which didn’t sit right with me
Yet u think your friends where laughing at which fundamentally shows either u don't trust them or think they are assholes or u have trust issues if u know for a fact that's what they was doing then again why are these people your friends if its somyhing that sits bad with u why not talk to her about it surly that's what friends do when there is a issue
At the end of the day friends are suppose to add to your life not cause issues like this if your at the point where u think friends are moving u too your face that friendship has clearly run it course but meh hope u work out what to do
Nothing I guess, if you already didn't care for that guy then why be bothered lol I don't take her comment as something bad and I know my friends used to laugh about any shit
Right? I’ve been in that situation before and I just said “yeah yeah” and didn’t mention it again and didn’t talk to the guy because why tf are you comparing me to my friend completely unprovoked weird behaviour
Meaning he said I was cuter than my friend but I didn’t care bc male validation doesn’t mean shit to me and half the time they say what they think will make a girl happy enough to give them what they’re seeking especially in a club environment
