Girls, how can I stop being so nervous taking to a guy I really like?

[Anonymous]

So I really like this guy at work.
We see each other everyday so when he comes and talks to me I keep getting all flustered and super nervous so I end up saying stupid things or barley say anything at all - then regret it later thinking about all the things I could have said.
It’s driving me crazy overthinking everything.

This is not like me at all. I’m usually outgoing and can talk to anyone but with him it’s like I turn into a total weirdo who can’t talk.
He’s a good person, good looking and we have a lot in common. He does text me sometimes and I can text him no problem then when I see him in person I get so shy!

Any advice on how to stop feeling like this? It’s so embarrassing.

[LemonsAsks]

Try to get your coworkers and him out to a bar. See if you can be alone with him at anygiven point and see how he treats you outside the workplace.

[Asker]

So we actually all went out for drinks not long ago. He was quite drunk and sat beside me all night and kept telling me he liked me. My coworker was sitting at another table and she took a photo of us and sent me it asking me what was going on because he was all over me at one point so people were looking at us.

[LemonsAsks]

So he was touching you?

[LemonsAsks]

If thats the case and their was physical touch. And he messaged you back on the daily (especially if imediate responses) he is interested. But your both in lovers stalemate. So one of you needs to make a move or nothing happens and someone moves on.

[LemonsAsks]

Being in an office relationship can be awkward if they dont like you back so i can understand the hesitation from both ends

[Asker]

Yeah he had his arm around me and kept banging his head against mine lol.
He does message me sometimes but not everyday ☺️ Thank you for your help !

[LemonsAsks]

Anytime^