Am I being strung along?

[Anonymous]

Me (21m) and this girl (22f) used to have a really close but plutonic friendship. We had a minor argument which resulted in us not talking and she moved away without saying goodbye too me. I wished her well when I learned of the news and we’ve spoken on and off since. The other night she was drunk and with her new friends and had told them all about me it seems.
She sent me drunk videos of her singing my favourite song (she hates country and it’s a country song) and all her new friends where shouting my name. She then said she misses me so much a few times. However, she was recently back in town and didn’t text me to catch-up like she so often said she wanted to do.
This woman meant so much too me she was the first woman I told that I loved her, and I did she was my greatest friend. She hurt me so bad and doesn’t seem to realise.

Am I being strung along?

[Flower_Power]

I mean yes and no. Yes because of that video. Her having sent you that would make anyone in your position think she likes you romantically. No because she sent you the video when she was drunk. People do weird stuff when drunk. Her sober-self may not do that, in which case I would say she isn't trying to string you along. Hope this helps!

[Asker]

She confuses me, she says she misses me yet left with no goodbyes not even a text and I find out from someone else that she left. She does text me every now and then and mentions we should catch up, but recently it’s more so when she’s drunk she texts me

[Flower_Power]

Yeah, she was just drunk. Don't let that get you down! Find someone even cooler at like a coffee shop or bar. The fact she left without saying anything is really telling.

[Anonymous]

If you didn't matter to her then her friends wouldn't know anything about you.

For me the video is clear evidence that she missed you that night.

You should persue this if thats what you want and see what happens, maybe something will come of it, maybe it won't but I can guarantee you one thing;

That you will regret the things you didn't do more than the things you did do which later turned out to be mistakes.

[Prettygirly26]

You're probably still special to her but she doesn't want anything further

[Asker]

That could be so but she still moved hundreds of miles away and didn’t even text me to say goodbye. She could have lied and said she had no time to see me and I would have been happy to get that text.