Why do I have attachment problems?

[Anonymous]

So simply put, I have attachment problem.
I'm really, really shy and introverted, but when I find a new crush, I literally go crazy over them, I let them treat me however they want, even when they ignore me I always welcome them back.
Even if I know they only like me for my body, nevermind, I will put provocative pictures on my insta- story so that he will see.
Even if I know they only talk to me in chance to hook up, doesn't matter, I will accept even that.
I'm that miserable. I feel miserable when they get what they want, when they ignore me, so I am seeking their attention always through socials, and when they do not pay attention to me, I feel so miserable and hate the way I am.
What is wrong with me? I am a nice girl, but when it comes to my crush, more like obsessions, I have not ounce of respect.
P. s , I don't have daddy issues...

[Honesttguy]

Lack of self respect, you dont keep yourself to higher standards.
Basically what you say there is "why im fat, the moment i see food i dont stop i eat it all, then when food is gone i feel miserable"
Miserable is what u need to work on, u feel miserable cus you keep yourself to miserable standard, go to gym, find extra hobbie that makes you unique and becomes your personality.

[BarryLiverstone]

Because you don’t love yourself. Did your parents love you growing up?

[Asker]

As I already mentioned, I do not have daddy, nor mommy issues. I have a healthy family

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes I read about not having daddy issues. But why don’t you have more confidence?

[Asker]

Well I don't know, I never thought that could be cause of this problem tbh

[BarryLiverstone]

Then give it some thought. If you had more self esteem you wouldn’t let these guys treat you poorly. You would set healthy boundaries and require more from them.

Were you bullied?

[Asker]

Well yes, I was. Now it makes much more sense

[BarryLiverstone]

Glad I could help, any more questions?

[SignedAutographs]

Fear of failure. It's about as common as the sun rising and setting

[Anonymous]

You accept the love you think you deserve.