If a girl seems anxious and jumpy when you talk to her , does that mean you make her uncomfortable?

[Anonymous]

There's this girl that every time I talk to her she seems jumpy and anxious when I talk to her and I've never see her like that with anyone else. Does that mean I make her uncomfortable or she doesn't like me!!

[Guy__]

She probably likes you. I know I was literally the most ripped guy in school and only had male friends, 9/10 girls in classes avoided eye contact with me so i thought all girls hated me. Later found out that at least half of them called me hot at some point.

[jennifer_bloom]

The bible says to be modest and meek so I would say the anxiety is a self-corrective habit of prioritizing sociability over self-glorification and personal exposure, and involves a conscious appraisal of others, some might incorrectly view it as fear or self-loathing, but it’s merely sacrificial regard for others.

[Guy__]

I'm sure you take the bible literally, so why then do you practice any form of sacrifice? the word sacrifice originated from offering blood to spirits.

[jennifer_bloom]

@Guy__ I interpret sacrifice as allegory involving emotional sacrifice or psychological or practical sacrifice

[Guy__]

Call it service

[jennifer_bloom]

@Guy__ it depends how you define service cause if you abstain from chocolate for God, is that a service or a sacrifice?

[Guy__]

God of love doesn't want you to suffer, so whatever god appreciates it is evil.

[jennifer_bloom]

@Guy__ I disagree with that because God suffers when he sees people sinning so humans must also suffer to be confirmed to His image, God does it enjoy suffering, but sometimes uses the suffering he hates to achieve His purposes

[jennifer_bloom]

God does NOT enjoy suffering is what I meant to say

[Guy__]

Abstaining from chocolate, if it's unsweetened cacao you're talking about serves no purpose

[jennifer_bloom]

@Guy__ it serves an idea and I believe every beneficial idea adds to your heavenly treasures by directing your minds ape from unproductive thoughts to productive ones

[devilish-cutie]

either she doesn't like you and you make her uncomfortable or she likes you and is just nervous. If she avoids you and is very cold, she doesn't like you. If she seems interested in what yoou are saying she could like you.

[Asker]

But I've never done or said anything to make her uncomfortable

[devilish-cutie]

It could be cause she knows you like her

[Asker]

Lol I don't like her

[devilish-cutie]

well she may think you do

[Asker]

Still why would that make her act like that

[devilish-cutie]

if i know a guy likes me and i dont like him it would make me uncomfortable

[Asker]

Well I don't think I've ever done something to make her think I like her !! I actually don't she's not my type I probably remind of someone she doesn't like

[Jltakk]

Its certainly a possibility. In fact, I'd say its more likely.

[Asker]

But I've never said anything bad to her

[Jay3344]

Maybe, but it could be she’s just like that around people in general…like too much coffee or just part of her personality. I feel like a lot of people use energy drinks and caffeine to help them find energy for work and the consequences of that are sometimes pretty noticeable. I used to work with guys who would drink like two or three a night to get through third shift. Made them more aggressive and annoying…sometimes fun but it was too inconsistent to be recommended. Anyways it’s probably not you as much as her

[TheAnon1]

Does she smile or blush a lot? Does she seem like she still enjoys conversation with you and doesn’t try to avoid you? If so she may be crushing on you.

If she cuts conversations short, avoids eye contact when possible, or goes out of her way to avoid running into you, she’s probably doesn’t like being around you.

Sounds like the former to me

[Asker]

She has hard time making eye contact and she always seems anxious and a bit jumpy and she's usually pretty outgoing with everyone else. That's why makes me think like I make her feel uncomfortable for some reason

[WonderBell99]

i'm anxious and jumpy around anyone I'm not close with. But that's because I have social anxiety and I get tensed easily

That's a possibility, but she may also be interested in you. Both are just as likely

[Asker]

If she was interested wouldn't she be the opposite of anxious 🤔

[WonderBell99]

Not really. Some people are nervous around people they like because they do not want to do or say something that would make their crush think they're weird. Their mind is active, they're overthinking every single action and word they do/say which may make them appear nervous

[Asker]

That's very interesting but I don't think she likes me or who knows I could be wrong

[WonderBell99]

She seems shy. It is highly likely that she will not make a move on you. If you are not interested in her and she does make a move on you, politely let her know that you are not into her

[Asker]

Well I could but I'm not sure if she's actually into me

[WonderBell99]

Well, are you interested in her?

[WonderBell99]

If not, you should not be concerned. As long as she is not making you uncomfortable, just be friendly with her

[Asker]

Nah not really I just noticed every time I talk to her she seems very anxious, which I don't mean to do. It just makes think like I make her uncomfortable for some reason

[WonderBell99]

As I said, she may have anxiety. It may not necessarily be because of you

[Asker]

Hmm I don't think she does she seems pretty outgoing with everyone else. Literally everyone else but me that's why I'm confused

[peedy]

Maybe or maybe you're making her horny
Only one way to find out