Ladies does it matter to you how much weight a guy can lift in the gym?

[Anonymous]

Yes

No

[Smoke-n-Growls]

To me, yes.

I'm a gym goer and rock climber. I like active things. I like fun wrestling and more physical stuff in bed.

A weaker person in bed isn't as attractive to me. I want someone equally strong or stronger.

Also, I've dated two men weaker than me and holy shit I can't date weak men anymore. It's boring. They just want to sit at home and complain.

[Daniela1982]

Does it matter how much a girl can?

[muscularbumblebee]

I don’t wanna say yes but… to me it kind of does.. only because I’m big into weightlifting myself plus it would be nice to have a guy stronger than me and in a conventional gym that’s pretty hard.


Obviously good form, no ego lifting, doesn’t have to be twice my deadlift but if it’s at least another 150ibs on top of whatever I do sounds doable so I don’t have to worry about beating his Pr each time and thus ‘masculinity issues’ some men get

[Asker]

How much can you squat and for how many reps?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Not really. I'm more concerned about finding a fit guy that GOES to the gym!
So I cannot speak for other women, but I love working out. So ideally I want a guy that takes care of his body and liked to workout as well.

In other words, as long as he's healthy, active, and goes to the gym, I don't care how much he lifts. I'm happy with the fact he's taking care of his body and working to improve himself.

[Ronni69]

No! Guys with huge muscles are a turn off for me. I personally think that men work to get huge muscles because they have a small penis! It’s not big so they make everything else look big. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Pienene]

No.

In most cases, I think guys like to compare the numbers between themselves. Though I find it sexy when a guy can help me lift things I cannot (or lift *me*, as a matter of fact), I also wouldn't date a muscle maniac who is all about that. As long as you can walk up the stairs without losing your breath and help me carry my groceries, I don't care much.

[Qmt8112]

It matters to me. He doesn't need to be a strong man dead lifting 1000 lbs but if he can lift an average amount thats fine. I'm weak, I can barely lift 20 lbs.

[NZGirl07]

A number doesn't really matter to me. It his just nice to have a partner who cares more about fitness, and I enjoy having a male partner who is stronger/heavier than me.

[Sour-rose]

It don't. mainly because idgaf about him or anyone else around me. I'm hear to achieve the perfect body and look in the mirror when I get home. Knock ya self out for all i care, mate

[Raindnz]

I am a sapiosexual. I love men of high intelligence than ones that can lift heavy weights.. just a personal preference

[LingyRolls]

It doesn't matter to me that he's incredibly strong, but he needs to be strong enough that I feel safe with him in a scary situation.

[CindyRuns]

What does matter to me is that the guy basically takes care of himself.

I'm not a fan of "Dad Bod's" and "Beer Bellys"