Genuine question. Having dated many women. What the hell is actually up with so many of them wanting to secretly be degraded, ex spanked, choked etc?

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It's literally been like 80% of them, Don't take this the wrong way. I'm no fan of patriarchy and this isn't a back door to say bad things about women. And I'm not necessarily complaining. But I really do find it a bit concerning how many women like to be treated like this in the bedroom. Not in a kink shame kinda way, but I've seen how a lot of it leaks into their day to day life aka lower self esteem etc.
Genuine question. Having dated many women. What the hell is actually up with so many of them wanting to secretly be degraded, ex spanked, choked etc?
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