Girls, Why would she do this to me?

[Olympusfitness]

Ex and I were together for 2 years, broke up January but she wanted me back but I was sick of the resentment she has towards me cause I lied to and hid that I was snapping my client. I tried redeeming myself by going to therapy with her and being honest with her about everything from that point on. In January she saw I had my client on TikTok and I had no idea. She wanted me back and in February she told me she had a date that didn't equate to anything. We talked everyday and had a snap streak and everything, hung out and hooked up. She came over for Easter and we cuddled and she was petting my hair. I always kissed her goodbye. Three weeks after Easter she said she was seeing someone. I asked if she still loved me, she said no I asked if she had any emotion towards me, no. Then I had a breakdown two weeks ago and begged and pleaded for her back. She said I needed to move on and downplayed the fact that we remained in contact and showed affection for one another. She was snapchattibg this guy everything she snapped me. This guy and I shared the same best friend, her. 16 days after my breakdown to her I see they are Facebook official. He already met her family and dying father and everything. I feel led on and betrayed, why not tell me you were talking with someone else. I know she would've been having to see him for longer than she said if they're already official. Why would she keep me in a string only to completely cut me off and deny and downplay everything. Is this guy considered a rebound?

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It's the same guy she went on a date with in February, they've been liking each other's Instagram posts for months even when we were dating. Is this considered a rebound if she came over Easter and cuddled and pet my hair and I kissed her goodbye. Why would she continue showing affection with me and then completely shut down my emotions

[SphynxUK]

She obviously cares about you and is comfortable in your company. Perhaps she was there to try and make you feel better. Just you read the affection wrong.
Touching hair, cuddling and kissing goodbye do not equate to romantic interest, just as she has already told you; she doesn’t have any feelings for you.
You split up and she found someone else. That’s her choice and prerogative and has got nothing to do with you.


You need to start grieving for the list relationship you thought you would have with her. It’ll be a step forward and two steps back for a while, with conflicting emotions on the way, but you will get over this.