Ever since my terrible breakup with my ex I have started to accrue all of these social insecurities that I never had prior which seem ridiculous to even me. It’s not who I am, and something has gone awry. I am cool for the first part when there is no expectations. Then, when it’s clear there is an opportunity I become nervous to act, even when the signal to go is handed to me on a silver platter. It seems that the girl just becomes tired of waiting at that point and loses interest. I’m tired of this continuing. If anyone knows what’s happened to me and how it could be remedied from experience, I would appreciate that.
I’ve already blown two opportunities with two beautiful girls that gave me every sign they were interested. How do I get over the fear of rejection?
