Here are some that I've used before. I honestly don't understand how guys don't understand this basic stuff:
"It's fine"- it's not
"ok" - you're lying and I know it but I don't want to get into an argument right now.
"I'll let you know" - I will not, I don't care and I will "forget" to do it
"It's nothing" - you did something and now I'm mad. personally, it's something you did within the last 12 hours but since this is a common one, you probably already know it. \
"You don't have to.." - but it's one of my most basic requirements so if you don't, I'll probably start ghosting you.
"Do whatever you want" - don't.
"Can we talk about this later?"- I can't think straight since my emotions are taking over and I need time to plan what to say next.
"It doesn't matter anymore/anyways" - it did, a lot, but I rather not admit it.
I am very sorry. Typically we use those sentences as a test of sorts to see if you're willing to put in effort to tell if (for example) we really ARE fine.
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"I'm Fine"
Thoughts:
I'm not fine and if you ignore that I am obviously not fine I am going to get so pissed!
Actual feelings:
I am not okay!
I am gonna say I am because everytime I open up I never get heard!
Everytime I try to express how I feel I am invalidated and never have my emotional needs met.
I am always disregarded and disappointed.
What's the point no cares no one listens!
I need to say I am fine until someone is willing to listen until someone tells me they will and they want to listen. Someone who actually cares not just say they care.
When the I am fine is ignored:
I want to be just as important to them as they are to me.
I just want someone, I wish you were that someone.
It hurts that you don't care.
It hurts that you don't value you me.
It hurts that you walk away and never try to be that someone.
I am angry for myself.
I am angry at myself.
Why do I continue to stay.
I need space.
I need to think about this more.
I hear a lot about how women test men but I don't think this is accurate.
When women deflect an issue it's due to her resistance to want to repeatedly become vulnerable over a issue that has not been resolved and has become overwhelming to deal with.
If a woman is being open with you and blunt in the beginning about issues and you did not resolve or try to work with her to resolve the issue or you did not keep your word, she will begin to shut down and deflect.
If you were not the cause of this it will be noted the moment you two communicate issues. She will deflect a issue due to her experience of expressing herself and not seeing consistency in the people or person she originally tried to depend on to help the situation work.
So it's more of being guarded then it is a test.
I can see that struggle. For the majority of the existence of this world communication between boys and girls has always be confusing. When girls are angry, heads up it’s likely some sh*tty things are going on in their own lives and they can struggle to express it in a understandable way. Especially when all the negative builds up and then they just say words in anger and frustration. Another thing is that they might be hungry. Girls when they are hungry are more likely to be angry. Besides the point, I would try to either sit down with her, hug her, assuming she isn’t someone who you don’t want to have close access to knive, and ask her what is really bugging her. She might say she’s fine but IMHO you should ask her about 5 more times just to make sure. If you gave me examples then maybe I could help interrupt it ….. maybe lol.
'It's fine' and 'whatever, forget about it' usually mean 'it's more effort to repeat what I said/asked, only for you sit there and then question if its even important or not, instead of just doing it * insert setting the table* or saying yes dear I'll do it in 10 minutes.
If someone is clearly being helpful and you're lounging on your ass, no one wants to deal with an 'so why now' attitude?
Because Im serving this relationship and im asking you to serve too, that's why.
Oh, that's fine... Everything before that comment was NOT fine... and it better not happen again... and I better see you making concerted effort to remedy it... I can see the underwear, shorts, jeans, and socks you shove underneath your side of the bed... ;-)
It’s called girls have messed up hormones and their brains are wired differently than guys , When a girl is angry and saying messed up shit to you , you are best to not take it to heart , if a girl tells you it’s ok to do something always remember you got to do complete opposite of what she tells you , Example , don’t buy me this, You need to buy it , Girl’s expect their men to be kind readers if you can’t read her mind you are an asshole
My girlfriend be saying this shit every day, “break up with me” then I say, “NO!” then she blocks me until I’m sleep n wakes my ass up telling me to wai her. Thai girls are F crazy
You should realize that whenever women speak they are really telling you they hate you and think you’re scum for being attracted to them.
Stop talking to them. In fact don’t even look in their general direction. They will just think you’re a creep.
I can't think of any right now, but, point is, she should be more communicative and understanding.
u "Fine."
"Okay, we can do it your way."
"i will kill you if you go over that sluts house after work again" always confused the Hell out of me. i never did figure it out either.
It's fine. I am fine.
They're not fine. Lol it is a trap!
No idea. I won't put up with that bullshit. I'm not going to try to read someone's mind.
To understand women, read Womanese by Manosphere content creator Donovan Sharpe.
Women want you to read their minds. Which is not possible. If you have to deal with a woman that is emotionally unstable forget about her and don't play the mind games she wants to play.
Who cares? Only Simps play these games with women.
“I’m fine.”
all lies
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