Does He Sound Like He Wants To Cheat on His Wife? (Read scenario.)?

[bannacookies]

A married man is with his friend (who is a girl). They are alone together at his house. They discuss how it’s funny some people think they’re "more than friends," when they’ve never done ‘anything’. They hang out together often, sometimes all three of them, but that's rare. (All three of them meaning his wife.) He mentioned that he’s been faithful to his wife for many years & wouldn’t mess it up by having an affair. “My wife would not be okay with it if I did, nor allow me to do such a thing.” He said. He continued on how he & his wife don’t get along very well, but they make it work.

Does that quoted sentence sound like he wants to since he's throwing it on his wife, saying she wouldn't allow it? I mean, no kidding. How many wives would allow their husbands to have affairs with their female friends...

[Jjpayne]

Some wives are ok with having a lose policy with partners but I don't agree with that practice. But putting it on his wife is a way to use a third party. If you say you have a problem with it, it allows them to argue with you. But if someone that is not there does not want it then they can't argue with them. Sure he clearly did not claim it himself but depending on the nature of the person I might do the same thing so I don't get caught arguing with them

[Jjpayne]

Thank you :)

[bannacookies]

You're welcome.

[Slim57]

Him mentioning his wife not being okay or allowing it sounds kinda suspicious you'd figure he'd say he doesn't think it'd be okay but that doesn't necessarily mean he is or would

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes I believe he is just looking to get something off the younger woman
and it's not good yes it sounds like he wants to cheat trust me them kind
of guys know how to do it and it's sad he should leave the girl alone

[Collegegurljay]

I think it’s wrong for him to hang out with another female so much that just looks wrong

[crazygus77]

It sounds like he does.