Do women get that guys fear meeting the wrong woman as much as woman do meeting the wrong man?

[Anonymous]

One woman posted on here "The scary things is you could be with a guy for 5 years. And he could be lying the whole time. You might find out one day he never loved you and the whole 5 years. Was one big lie".
Do women get that guys fear the same thing with women?
Now I know there's a lot to unpack there as there can be a lot in between. Because someone can fall out of love with someone for lack of effort and so on.
But no guy wants to invest in a woman for years. only for her to decide, "OK, I'm bored and want a change".
Do women get that women's much of the time overly "spontaneous nature" give us pause to want to commit?
If we can't predict you, we don't feel we really know you. If we don't know you why would we ever want to commit the rest of our life to you?

[Gent207]

Okay so hurt you in your past or present life? Lol jk
Love is a game of risk, hard lessons and fabulous prizes. Risk your destruction for the chance to find the partner of a lifetime?
Why not?
Life is short and tommrow is not promised.

[Asker]

Not disputing any of tat. But that's the point I'm making. I think most women feel they're the only ones taking any risk. They think most guys just choose to NOT commit with any real reason.

[Gent207]

That really depends on a lot of things namely age, values, character, upbringing and culture. Where some people want to be perpetual bachelor's, while others are looking to settle down. However far to often these two meet and conclude that this is all there is, but it's not so.
The point you'll only find Mrs. Right while working on becoming Mr. Right.

[Asker]

I agree with the last part. Or at least I agree that's your best shot.

[Anonymous]

Sure, the ones who are intelligent would.