Do women get that guys fear the same thing with women?
Now I know there's a lot to unpack there as there can be a lot in between. Because someone can fall out of love with someone for lack of effort and so on.
But no guy wants to invest in a woman for years. only for her to decide, "OK, I'm bored and want a change".
Do women get that women's much of the time overly "spontaneous nature" give us pause to want to commit?
If we can't predict you, we don't feel we really know you. If we don't know you why would we ever want to commit the rest of our life to you?