Guys, would you be in a relationship with a Hot Headed woman? (Page 2)
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I dated somebody who was abused by her parents. She may have been bi-polar but sometimes she would get abusive to me. She bit me once so hard I still have the scar. I understood what was going on with her and I would never hit her. I used to restrain her until she calmed down. I really liked her and I was a little sad that she didn't want to go out with me anymore even though I knew she was all wrong for me.
No I would not. I dealt with that destructive overwhelming mess enough.
You cannot expect the average man to know how to deal with psychological trauma.
Get help if you want to be in a healthy relationship.
noted!
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I Identify with most of what you said. I had pretty close to the same experience in life. And I act close to the same way.
After talking to a counselor I was able to see things very differently. It helped me to realize natural things about my self and accept them. Getting angry for the right reason is good.
It helped me to understand that I can control only myself. All efforts to control or change others are frustrating and will make me just angry for no constructive purpose.
Point in all this is a counselor will help you see things clearer. The fog of frustration will no longer dominate your decisions and actions. you will still get angry no one is perfect but it will be better.
i did some counselling while growing up in a way so i will give it a go so that i can stop being so hot headed and abusive by yelling.
thank you by the way.
Hay my pleasure. I can only respect your humility and desire to improve. I hope your example helps others. I had a friend that encouraged me to get help and without him I would never have even known I needed it. I thought I had to be tough and do everything on my own. Find my own solutions. So glad to see people like you with such humility.
"I had an unstable and abusive upbringing..." Sorry you went through that. Do you have access to counseling? That could help.
Thank you so much, I am going to do counselling to work on my hot headedness.
i liked girls that had the potential to stab me at any second all my life. i want that kind of passion. if you haven't contemplated murder then i dont think you have ever experienced love. I've cooled down in my old age though. now i like girls where its unlikely they will stab me, but its still a possability
I am a very rational, stoic and calm person in general. If you randomly start screaming at me, I am likely to give you a very condescending look, slowly stand up, start putting your things in a bag, hand it to you say.. "Do that somewhere else, please leave now" which will likely be the last time we talk.
I would understand and be your friend without a doubt but dating and committing in a serious relationship may take more of a heavy toll on my mind than I’m ready to handle.
Considering I'm the complete opposite type of person with an ear sensitivity issue... Yeah I'll pass. I prefer just talking things out so they don't have to get to that point.
And I can say this with confidence because my mother is like that. If things get heated, she's always the source. And it's so fucking annoying.
I always find myself thinking "Damn.. If I was having this conversation with myself, things would go smoothly every single time. I wouldn't have to constantly prove that I'm trustworthy or reasonable. It would just be known that I have my best interests at heart. I wouldn't have to put up with so many logical fallacies, I could just have fun debating the right way. Life doesn't have to be this dramatic!"
I couldn't as it sucks the joy out of life. Someone who is quick to anger can ruin something fun and beautiful just like that. My brother in law is a hothead who is easily triggered. Do you know how many Christmases and birthdays that guy has ruined? Not to mention dealing with someone who is easily angered is exhausting as you learn to walk on egg shells to try and not set them off. That's not a life I would willingly jump in to.
don't get me pissed off, cause i can virtually blow up at you. luckily it takes a lot for me to get pissed off
I have some chamomile for you and me both🍵🍵.
thanks
No, tried dated them, but we always ended up fighting.
It just never worked out, I will never go down that road again.
Life's to short for me to live with someone that has a bad temper