Guys, would you be in a relationship with a Hot Headed woman? (Page 3)

Anonymous · 2022-06-29T00:11:26Z

I'm a hot head, But hear me out please, I had an unstable and abusive upbringing, so that's why I'm a hot headed woman. I'm not violent, I used to be when I was a child but I went to therapy and got exposed to a more peaceful environment as I grew to became a teenager and a young adult so I do not throw things, hit people or become physically abusive in any way. But I do get upset easily and I raise my voice if I get provoked and defend myself verbally. The reason why I yell when I'm provoked is because it's a way to avoid crying instead, I cover up hurt and sadness through anger, because otherwise I would instead break down and cry in front of people who provoke me or hurt me and I no longer want to do that anymore because I have noticed that when I do cry in situations like that I get taken advantage of, laughed at and I never get taken seriously at all. But it's a deep rooted habit now, if I find myself in heated debates, disagreements or if I'm hurt by someone verbally I usually express anger and I raise my voice and verbally defend myself. Then I storm off angrily to cry about the situation in secret, I calm down very quickly and then feel absolutely terrible afterwards. Then I come to my senses and then I do my absolute best to resolve things fairly and reasonably, I mean well overall, I am not a hater and I never ever want to hurt anyone in any way. Now I think I'm going to end up alone and single because I'm hot headed woman... So would you get into a relationship with a hot headed woman, like me or no?

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Yoda Age: 24 , mho 35%

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If you did not take your anger out on me over things out of my control or abuse me yea. I have a temper too. But if you do then nope

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No.

Too much drama and trouble. Also, them woman may become violent and attack the man... in such case it would be the man that is arrested ( yes, you read that correctly).

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legalboxers Follow
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my ex was like that.. very boomish - granted her mom passed and everything, it was fresh. I did everything to quell it but that didn't matter. I paid for some of the funeral expenses, most of her groceries, for her 4 fur babies (cats, I miss my kids :( ) so... yeah

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MCheetah Follow
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Hell no! That's basically asking someone to abuse you.

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RavVid Follow
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Where was the Maybe button?

For me the litmus test is are you consolable? Or inconsolable? The later is a hard road.

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AviatorTom Follow
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My SO blows up when she gets defensive or frustrated, and we're in a 6-year-and-counting relationship. I'll let you answer the question.

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jahaims Follow
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Sounds like an excuse to act immature. I wouldn't date someone who is immature. Especially if they are aware of it and are making excuses.

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The way to deal with a hot headed woman who loses her temper is to bend her over your knee and spank her ass red raw then have angry sex with her. She will respect you and won't be angry anymore.

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I think I could handle a hot headed woman because my mom was a hot head. I think I could calm her down and comfort her if she had a tough day.

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Anonymous
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Nope. I grew up in an abusive hot headed family and i left them all at my earliest possibility. And i am not going to get back there again. I do not welcome that in my life.

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