I've learned to accept it, but i think it is from the long time thing of "i dont date my friends" thing that was in the dating scene for so long that at this point it is translated as "i will never date you or see you in that way."
Anyone would hate it if they are put in the Friendzone, But it is more likely to happen to us Guys because we are usually the ones that have to Approach first.
Well this has never happened to me but if it did it really wouldn't bother me. I'm old enough to know that everybody I like may not necessarily like me back. What's the big deal
True. But mature people understand attraction isn’t a choice and they can handle it. However respect IS a choice.
What makes most guys (and some women) upset is when they feel disrespected. Asking someone to “just be friends” when they stuck their neck out can come as insulting. Especially when they invest time, effort (and money) trying to date you.
@StevieNix that's true while one year later she is complaining to the cops about domestic violence. When a Woman I desire wants to cry on my shoulder like I am Her therapist I have learned to just walk away from Her. I know this sounds mean but sometimes that is the best thing a guy can do.
I never would buy drinks for a Woman for that very reason. I remember when women would approach me to buy drinks for them and I would say hell no, because I knew better. Usually women who wanted to take Me home would catch me by surprise. I learned that women don't like to be ignored in a bar and I would always luck out with the woman I would ignore in the bar.
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Cause they like her and it always hurts when the one you like rejects you
I've learned to accept it, but i think it is from the long time thing of "i dont date my friends" thing that was in the dating scene for so long that at this point it is translated as "i will never date you or see you in that way."
number 2 is dumb nobody thinks men should have a supermodel waiting to fuck them in public. Thats not a societal standard we have set at all
Because I don't like giving away my attention fruitlessly. Most but not all male female relationships are based on the mans desire for sex.
Anyone would hate it if they are put in the Friendzone, But it is more likely to happen to us Guys because we are usually the ones that have to Approach first.
Well this has never happened to me but if it did it really wouldn't bother me. I'm old enough to know that everybody I like may not necessarily like me back. What's the big deal
No one likes to feel as if they have been rejected.
True. But mature people understand attraction isn’t a choice and they can handle it. However respect IS a choice.
What makes most guys (and some women) upset is when they feel disrespected. Asking someone to “just be friends” when they stuck their neck out can come as insulting. Especially when they invest time, effort (and money) trying to date you.
Hate is a strong word, it hurts but at least she gave me clarity.
Because we know "freind" is girl code for pay for my shit. Thats why your female "freinds" are never trying to set you up they just want free shit
Newsflash: MEN DO NOT NEED FEMALE FRIENDS 💯
it feels almost a little demeaning or embarrassing, and i notice a lot of guys cut contact pretty fast to avoid future embarrassment.
Well simply because they're not getting what they want. Women are the same if they're rejected by a man.
Never bothered me. A lot of those situations turned into better friendships than a romantic relationship would have ever been.
Because he only integrated himself in her life to date her.
what a ridiculous... because they don't like being rejected?
Same Reason Why Women Hate It When Men She Asks Out, Put Her In The Friend Zone
Once upon a time...
A man asked out a woman
She said no
And he happily lived after that.
Because the friend zone means that he isn’t worthy of the girls heart.
Because it’s all about money. Once she knows that you are poor you become second choice for marriage.
In some cases Yes and in other cases no, My first wife married me and at the time I did not have a cent to my name.
The guy with the wallet full of money buys the drinks. The bad boy in the corner takes her home.
@StevieNix that's true while one year later she is complaining to the cops about domestic violence. When a Woman I desire wants to cry on my shoulder like I am Her therapist I have learned to just walk away from Her. I know this sounds mean but sometimes that is the best thing a guy can do.
I never would buy drinks for a Woman for that very reason. I remember when women would approach me to buy drinks for them and I would say hell no, because I knew better. Usually women who wanted to take Me home would catch me by surprise. I learned that women don't like to be ignored in a bar and I would always luck out with the woman I would ignore in the bar.
Nobody wants to be friends