Thoughs on this girl and her sudden change around me?

[Anonymous]

she appeared around here this summer as she worked at a restaurant that i went to.

anyways she mostly ignored me during June/July , i'd notice her at bar and get no re action , she didn't even seem that comfortable around me. i'd also check her out a lot at the place she worked as she's cute/brun type with a nice body

but a couple weeks ago was a sudden change in her behaviour around me , one night got this crazy hot look from her at the bar and she suddenly started to talk to me

now we've started to talk some more and seem to get along fairly well. was even a picture of us taken together at bar. as they have a photographer go around some nights and take photo's. i gave her my # so she could send me a photo of it , see if i ever get anything from her

she only works at that place for the summer then has to return to school in another city.

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note she also doesn't appear to actually be single either is pictures on her social media with a guy , at the bar she hangs around people from her work that like to party , perhaps she just likes to go out and chill , which makes me question her actions even more?

[young_OG96]

She’s probably going through the stages of leaving her boyfriend, see when women leave a relationship it’s over time, they leave mentally say before they leave physically, seems like the case here

[Asker]

perhaps but also the summer , around here is a thing called a summer fling , perhaps just bored and looking for something different
or she saw something in me she felt was worth taking the risk for in order to have a chance with me? but her relationship for sure doomed if she keeps going after me

[Guy13]

It sounds like she wants some side action and 3 martinis would drop that olive right around your Thang !!!

[Asker]

we haven't done drinks together yet , she seemed jealous when i bought some other girls some though
i agree she's looking for something different or for some reason likes something about me?

maybe the boyfriend has way more money than me , she mentioned she lived in a well off area , i might not have the money but perhaps have something else she likes

[Asker]

but also why the sudden change? thats what really gets me , did she find out something about me or jealous i like another girl from her work , is this blonde i notice who works with her

[Guy13]

I would not taunt her and other girls are taunting her. She still wants a little respect and emotional attachment.-this might be what motivated the change. What you think?

[Asker]

i have no idea , we had virtually zero connection earlier in the summer , seems odd she'd seek me out for some sort of emotional connection.

i wonder if she found out something about me but i'm just not sure what , her work is such a rumour mill

[Guy13]

Martinis !!! Hope this thing plays out the way you wish. I'm interested in seeing how this plays out. It is a little nutz...

[Asker]

she has my # i gave it to her when at the bar but haven't heard anything from her yet but doubt the pictures from bar have been posted to facebook yet , since i don't have fb she was going to send me the picture. i'm very curious what if anything i get from her , never text her or anything before