if your woman (Who you met after the situation) proposed that she start giving financial support to your widowed sister in law so that you could focusing on supporting and building your own family (Hypothetically imagine that you don't have adult kids or even teen kids and have either not had kids as yet or have babies).
Yes your brother died.
And yes this is a matter of traditional preference of the woman.
Either Pretend you respect this tradition if you don't or have your answer ignored or attacked.
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Yeah I mean one can respectfully disagree... but if not then that's good for you and the lady i guess.
