Guys, would you want to know I'm an Aspie?

[Anonymous]

Even though my case is mild and I'm still high functioning, it really sucks. It's been 3 years since I've been officially diagnosed with it. The irony is I graduated from college with a 3.7 GPA and my IQ was said to be 145.

These are my main flaws:

I might not be able to distinguish simple social cues. I will never be able to guess something is bothering you unless you tell me directly.

I tend to talk to much when there is a favorite topic off interest and not stop so forgive me for bothering you at the table. I have to be reminded not to obsess too much over a particular topic.

Sometimes I might be caught doing random movements. As a kid, I used to rock back and forth several times. I've managed to controlled this but at times I might still do it from time to time.

I'm very picky in foods and sometimes the way a food looks like or texture might freak me out and look disgusting to me.

A bit obsessive with organizing the house. I like things in order in a specific way.

Sorry for saying too much. But yeah would a man want to know I'm a diagnosed Aspie (short from Asperger syndrome) woman?

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As you can notice, I'm aware of my condition and trying to manage it.

[xyzfdg]

Dealing with people w/ Asperger's has taught me empathy, as many I find value those to what extent they can be exploited (sexuality, entertainment, etc.)... choosing to appreciate others for who they are, over value what's in it for me, has taught me to be a better listener, more patient, and less interested in what I'm getting, over giving value to another person.

My experience is many often have far more superficial qualities for which they're rewarded, while people w/ Asperger's tend to be some of the kindest, most understanding people once someone takes time to explain how so they understand, but they're often some of the most honest, genuine, loyal people I've ever met.

. I've honestly come to appreciate people like this more than the majority of people, as, when they have interests, they're actually knowledgeable & competent, whereas many will memorize several "talking points" about something, then talk as if they hold absolute truth & those who don't "get it" are idiots.

Many will feel down because they don't have friends, etc., but, often, many only have friends/romantic relationships because they can present superficial qualities of value to others, often not of substantial value (high quality), or anything actually worth having behind its ability to give emotional stimulation/elicit pleasurable sensations.

Stream of thought done... hope it helps! :)

[NamerOfStars]

Yes- but judging when to make that disclosure is the kind of thing that'd be tricky even for an allist. Unless it's in a context where you're trying to explain something about yourself, it's not something I'd open with; a lot of people who don't have experience in dealing with autism might think you're making excuses.

[msc545]

I would want to know - it would help a lot when interacting with you.