You women want to be treated equally in the work force, equal pay, everyday life and in the world. Maybe the guy is sick or something. At least call and show that you care if you haven't heard from him in awhile. It would be no wonder that a guy would move on.
Not necessary. I never initiate even when I like someone really bad. It's rare to see me ever initiating a conversation. I like to be pursued, not to pursue.
If she never does it, then yes that means she is not interested. But some girls like to try and play it cool, one of the ways they do that is by not reaching out all the time.
idk if I'm like that toward a guy its usually because
i like talking to him but I'm not interested in pursuing anything with him...
and if that is his interest then some times
i feel like I don't want to be mean
but I want him to get the point which is why I don't initiate anything
if I'm interested I'm on top of everything he sends me unless I'm busy but I would tell him I'm busy at x and x time so I might be slow to respond or can't talk then
Lol Girlsaskguys... a good question that's over a year ago. Most legendary plattform in the world.
Y'all ludicrous.
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Guys typically don’t women well when women initiate plus society expects guys to do the pursuing. So girls often don’t initiate. But if initiate and she responds in a positive way then she is interested.
Hell I have the same question about guys! lol Anyone wanna help me out? ha! I almost always initiate (and try SUPER hard not to) with the guy(s) I like(d) and I wish I knew if he liked me or not...
I don't know what it means, but if I don't like the cut of a girl's jib, I forget about her, no matter what she may have secretly "meant" by it.
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Most girls are terrified of pestering a boy too much! And some are shy and would prefer you to make the first move :) as the saying goes I wait for you to text me to show me that you miss me!
if she seem genuinely positive and happy to hear from then she is more than likely likes you. I hope this helps and try not to read into it too much! Because when people over think things they put 2 and 2 together and end up coming up with 5!
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You women want to be treated equally in the work force, equal pay, everyday life and in the world. Maybe the guy is sick or something. At least call and show that you care if you haven't heard from him in awhile. It would be no wonder that a guy would move on.
Not necessary. I never initiate even when I like someone really bad. It's rare to see me ever initiating a conversation. I like to be pursued, not to pursue.
If she never does it, then yes that means she is not interested. But some girls like to try and play it cool, one of the ways they do that is by not reaching out all the time.
Not at all. I don't like bothering people for no reason so that's why I don't like always initiating.
how long have you been "talking",
how long have you known her?,
do you know her in person?,
is she generally a busy person?
1. a couple of weeks
2. a couple of weeks
3. no
4. it doesn't seem like she's the busy kind
ok when you guys talk how long do convos last?
how fast are her responses, immediate, about 1-2 minutes, more than 2 minutes?
it varies, sometimes conversations are smooth and responses are quick, other times it takes 2 maybe more than 2 minutes
and our convos last long (although towards the end it gets slow)
idk if I'm like that toward a guy its usually because
i like talking to him but I'm not interested in pursuing anything with him...
and if that is his interest then some times
i feel like I don't want to be mean
but I want him to get the point which is why I don't initiate anything
if I'm interested I'm on top of everything he sends me unless I'm busy but I would tell him I'm busy at x and x time so I might be slow to respond or can't talk then
in that case I should probably just give up :/
... see right now I feel sorry for you and I want to say "no you never noe just talk to her"
but that's not what I believe
in a nice way imma tell you to give up so I don't feel like I'm crushing your hopes
try not talking to her for a week and see how long it takes her to notice
ok and if she doesn't text or chat back then what? do I ask her if she isn't into me?
then she doesn't want anything from you and she is not at all interested in u
:( k thanks for your reply
That means she's busy chatting with Guys that have Higher value than you. They keep you around them If they need something from you.
If she is not interacting with you with the Same Energy as yours then you should Look for the next Woman.
Yes, or it means you don't give her an opportunity by texting her too much.
Definitely doesn't like you. This is what I do before ending it.
Nope, it doesn't mean anything, she's probably waiting for you to initiate the conversation.
So it's a one way street? yeah ok
Lol Girlsaskguys... a good question that's over a year ago. Most legendary plattform in the world.
Y'all ludicrous.
Guys typically don’t women well when women initiate plus society expects guys to do the pursuing. So girls often don’t initiate. But if initiate and she responds in a positive way then she is interested.
Have you asked her out on an actual date, you know, the kind where you plan the activity and then ask her if she would like to go?
If she would be interested in you, you would notice. They don't need to text you, there's also body language and direct action tactics.
Nah, I rarely initiate. I'm shy and sometimes I feel like I have nothing to say or I'll just be bothering him.
could go either way..
she could be shy/nervous and waiting for you to make a move, OR she could just not be interested...
Hell I have the same question about guys! lol Anyone wanna help me out? ha! I almost always initiate (and try SUPER hard not to) with the guy(s) I like(d) and I wish I knew if he liked me or not...
Usually if a guy likes you he'll look forward to talking to you. He may try not to initiate conversation too much to ensure he's not bothering you.
unfortuneately most girls want guys to initiate every single damn thing
Lol :)
yeah I don't like it, I hate it
Usually. If you have been talking for awhile and she never initiates, it's not a good sign.
I don't know what it means, but if I don't like the cut of a girl's jib, I forget about her, no matter what she may have secretly "meant" by it.
Most girls are terrified of pestering a boy too much! And some are shy and would prefer you to make the first move :) as the saying goes I wait for you to text me to show me that you miss me!
if she seem genuinely positive and happy to hear from then she is more than likely likes you. I hope this helps and try not to read into it too much! Because when people over think things they put 2 and 2 together and end up coming up with 5!